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Posted on Nov 08, 2015 at 05:01 AM

It seems that everywhere I go and all of the networking events I attend, there are so many people who work as coaches. I've encountered the life coaches, the personal fitness training coaches, the financial coaches, business success coaches, and communication coaches. I finally realized that what might be missing from finding the perfect match could be a relationship coach. 

 

At first, I ask a man who wanted to go on a date with me if he would do me a favor and call my relationship coach. He got so upset and defensive and changed into this angry man and I was baffled. I explained that the coaching was not for him--it was for me. My relationship coach, a man named Bruce, wanted to be introduced to my potential dates -who could be my potential partner- to help me make better choices and not mistakes with dating the wrong men. 

 

Why is it that it is so easy to think that we do not need help when it comees to love and relationships but we could use help in almost all other areas of our lives- with the exception of what we are experts at in our field of business or work. Do we have to look down on people who could help us get out of our own way or people who could help us see what we can't see because we are just too close to the situation? 

 

I told my relationship coach, Bruce that this man was super upset and would not make a call to him to say hi and let him know that he wanted to date me. I have done business with the Luv Coach for more than 20 years as he is also a talk show host and author, like myself. Recently, when I said I was going to take the chance and post my profile online he recommended and advised me to ask my potential dates to call him and introduce themselves and he let me know that they should pass the "Love Test." 

 

It would be really awesome to see what would really happen if people began using relationship coaches so that they could avoid more bad choices and focus their time and energy on choices and decisions that could be beneficial to real, loving relationships. 

 

For women, for all these years, we've phoned a friend instead of a relationship coach. The friends also can be too close to your situation and you may not reveal to a friend what you might tell your relationship coach who is specifically working in the area of your best interest in having a real, loving relationship. 

 

How many people want to have help with finding a partner and making a relationship work well. The divorce rates and the number of people singe seem to indicate there's a real problem. 

 

Let me know what you think about what it would be like to have a relationship coach to guide you, to ask questions and to discuss what it will take to help you have love in your life. 



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Posted on Oct 28, 2017 at 04:38 AM

Quoting FLPetitePrincess:

***SL*** GLad to hear from you and I can't imagine how life has been for you in France at this time.

 

Our thoughts and prayers are with your for safety and well-being. I do not know how people really communicate here with each other so enlightenment of how to share the details with you in an acceptable manner would be most appreciated.

 

We can discuss whatever we want without restrictions.



~~  FLPetitePrincess  ~~

 

Sincere apologies, for not having previously seen your post, quoted above.  It was a hectic period back then, and I obviously got side-tracked.

 

Subsequently, you may have noticed that, the boards here progressively, appeared to be somewhat deserted, for various obscure reasons.

 

I've returned after a prolonged hiatus, and now in a resurrection frame of mind, hoping to entice all readers and the long lost bloggers, to participate. 

This way, we can and we will restore The MM Blogs to its former glory, that it rightfully deserves.

 

Dang !, ... You got me on a roll here Princess, but I shall move on.

 

Now, to be serious for a moment, I truly hope that, You were not in harms way, during the recent spate of storms in sunny Florida  ?. 

Kindly let us know, to put our minds at ease.  Failing which within the coming week, I shall launch a search for you.

 

Fondly,

 

~~  S L  ~~


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Posted on Nov 25, 2015 at 02:19 PM

***SL*** GLad to hear from you and I can't imagine how life has been for you in France at this time.

 

Our thoughts and prayers are with your for safety and well-being. I do not know how people really communicate here with each other so enlightenment of how to share the details with you in an acceptable manner would be most appreciated.

 

We can discuss whatever we want without restrictions.



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Posted on Nov 24, 2015 at 02:16 PM

Quoting FLPetitePrincess:

***SL*** I think it's so cool that you and a few of the other bloggers here on Millionaire Match would like to be part of a talk show episode with me about whether people should have a relationship coach. My suggestion would be that you are my guests on a talk show that we air online that does not require anyone to travel at this time and we see what response we get with our panel and what we stir up in the marketplace. I am speaking and moderating many panel discussions coming up in a few weeks at a large event in South Florida so that's taking my time and I have to give that priority before doing another talk show about relationshps and whether we should bring a relationship coach onto our team for advice or go it alone. Those of you who would like to get in on this discussion or other talk shows which would be live call in should write to me and we will book the show and make it happen. I have to say that starting a blog has been forcing me to write more and get into the flow so stay tuned for more books published soon. 

 



** FLPetitePrincess **

 

Thank you for acknowledging my suggestion, and pardon the delay in responding due to the unforseen circumstances that we have had to endure since.

 

Kindly provide some basic details for the ' online talk show ' that you mention,  as I am not familiar with such.

 

I do feel that it would be imperative to include ' The Love Coach ' in any such show, since He is the focus of your controversial topic.

 

In anticipation of an Emmy Award for your expertise.

 

** S L **


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Posted on Nov 22, 2015 at 05:24 AM

***Hoping4Love2000*** Thanks for all of the feedback and I am open to suggestions and making improvements. I like most what your said about giving words space to be read. 

 



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Posted on Nov 21, 2015 at 01:30 PM

Quoting FLPetitePrincess:

***Hoping4Love2000*** Please forgive my over-top comeback. I really love everyone here and I like the feedback and responsiveness from the bloggers. I jumped in and accept the learning curve. I am participating so the learning happens faster and it's making it all interesting.  I am so sorry that I came back in a strong manner to what you said about my life and the truth we have is that we do not know each other and flat-out judging and evaluating is not fair or accurate because we are just guessing. My heart hurt so badly when you responded back to my post and talked about all of the pain in your life- What I wanted to give you and I apologize for being away on business and not getting back to this sooner were the tools to make what you say powerful to attract in better things than ever before. I said I prefer to uplift and encourage and was not happy that you took a negative path with me and I did not want to go there with you. That is the only reason I wanted you to know I could but I did not want to. I did not go about this correctly, but my REAL intention was to show you how to say things in a way that would be considered "Strong Communication"  I was not clear to you because what I want you to know is how to be more powerful with what you are and what you believe. I did not say that you should not have hope--- EVER---- To make what you say POwerful Communication you use "I am" or " I have." This means you already are and have instead of wishing you will have something, someday. Here's how it would be said to make who you ARE and what you BELIEVE powerful : "I am a person with tremendous HOPE." Another way to say it is, "I always have HOPE."  The having and being is more powerful than wishing something will come to you in the future. I need more time to get into more topics but I am Divorced. I have always had men in my life and I never said the same men. My relationships and life have been amazing but I did not say things have been easy or all sweet. When I read about the topic of abuse in your posts it screams a need to boost self-esteem and sometimes if we have been abused instead of looking towards how we can improve ourselves we lash out at others and so we all can grow and learn. Our experiences are our and if we share and ask questions of each other I think we all benefit. We absolutely do not have to agree with each other and that makes things even better. I would prefer that we agree to disagree and have our opinions but I would ask and definitely refrain in the future from coming on so strong to anyone in this community.  I truly love and appreciate you all. I am not here to promote the relationship/luv coach just to say that I did an "Experiment" and asked him what his opinion was on my entry into "online dating"--- and I have done my share of offline dating. Have a great day. More later. Thanks to the community for all the feedback. You all rock and I am really enjoying you all. I think that topics about dating and relationships and how to make better choices or sharing what works and does not work seem to be fair for this site. I want to share more and am not familiar with sites where you have to keep so much secretive. It is not my experience being in the public to have to hold back or limit details or how to find more of my content. It's all good and I am truly happy to be here and look forward to more Positive interaction with everyone.- YOu have HOPE and never lose it. Having is POWERFUL. 



HI FLPETITE,

 

1) Your apology is accepted. 

 

2) You may wish to learn to skip spaces when blogging and responding. It is difficult to follow when words / paragraphs run on. I managed to break it away, I think, but only after several re reads. Merely hit the spacer button on phone or keyboard enough to produce space. SEE THE DIFFERENCE WHEN I WRITE? 

 

3) You say your heart hurt hearing me speak of MY pain, however, I did not refer to MY pain when responding to you,nor did I lash out at you. I took your words AS THEY WERE WRITTEN AND RESPONDED.  Then, on a blog I posted myself, I referred to OTHER'S pain.. Other people who held on to HOPE..."a weak word" according to your prior statement.

 

I never met my GF daughter, and I had only seen my GF once since Jr. High.... And we weren't even friends in Jr. High or later.. just played in Jr. High band together. But I knew her and the father of the little girl and it broke my heart. I was the one placing prayer request on another social media and I wrote them poems after she passed. I FEEL THINGS WITH INTENSITY..... This can be a stressful attribute. But, this is what makes me a desired writer. People tend to "connect" to their emotions when I write. You thought I wrote of MY trials and I mostly mentioned others who committed suicide I did not even know. I just KNOW their loved ones clung dearly to HOPE. 

 

Then when I did mention MY pain... It was in passing... We've each endured pain.. I mentioned a few many have been through... I didn't even mention my dad's passing in May. (I have not spoken of my father's death yet.) I mentioned pain to show EXACTLY WHY HOPE IS SO IMPERATIVE TO ALL AND HOW HOPE IS THE MOST POWERFUL OF ALL WORDS. 

 

Words hold strong meaning. You have much to learn if you want to be an actual "writer" and touch others. I have been paid for my "skills" for YEARS... I just haven't bothered to self publish a book so I can have "author" after my name. 

 

I felt compelled to write my own blog to straighten anyone out who is depressed or thinking of suicide, as HOPE IS #1 IN LIFE! For the truly weary, HOPE is ALL they have. 

 

4) You wrote: 
When I said I was going to post myself online-- the first time I have been single in my entire adult life---thankyou---The Luv Coach suggested I ask my potential online dates to call him and he would help me-- by letting them introduce themselves and then asking a few questions. 

 

IF you have not been married your entire adult life then that is called being single. If you consider you have always been "taken" that shows an inability to stand alone due to constantly "needing" a man to validate your existence. This portrays low self esteem.  

 

5) You recently repsonded with 

To make what you say POwerful Communication you use "I am" or " I have." This means you already are and have instead of wishing you will have something, someday

 

My writing touches the masses. I needn't lessons on how to reach others. However, what others are trying to covey is that YOU ARE NOT REACHING THEM IN YOUR QUEST TO SOCIALIZE HERE. You are so busy trying to "teach" others how to date, how to write profiles etc.. and now you are trying to teach me how to write.. when I AM a professional writer. ;) 

 

I write anything from analytic data to ghost writing client's blogs. Today I am writing content for a website, ghost writing a blog, and rewording and designing a much needed new resume. I've also already posted "ads" for businesses this morning. 

 

I started to tell you what is severely wrong with your profile on the profile blog you posted, but I felt it would be futile, as I do not sense you understand the lack of power in your delivery. However, should you want a PROFESSIONAL critique, I will gladly assist you. There are some seriously misguided areas which I believe deliver your profile in the wrong manner. 

 

6) I do not get intimidated. Although there are remarkable writers out there with whom I would gladly take critique and lessons from, they are not within this forum. You need to hone in on your writing skills and one day you may be one of the top writers here, but the delivery of your message is not up to par. It appears you try to jab without others seeing and it doesn't work on me. I see things others do not, hence my profession. I DISSECT EVERYTHING. People pay me because I am good at it. 

 

IE, you wrote: 

When I read about the topic of abuse in your posts it screams a need to boost self-esteem and sometimes if we have been abused instead of looking towards how we can improve ourselves we lash out at others and so we all can grow and learn.

 

When I speak of "abuse" it is primarily about my childhood, which I have grown from. I USE THIS TO TOUCH MY READERS. Again, instead of listening, you try to "teach" the teacher. I have used my experiences to assist others in dealing with their own abuse to move forward, as I have many years ago. 

 

You speak of low self-esteem, yet you are the one with pictures on your profile and an abundance of pictures on your blogs making it appear as a desperate attempt for attention. 

 

I was summoned back to MM by a couple of people seeking a "calmer voice of reason" who has a direct skilled verbiage that could "in hopes" get you to see how you were being perceived. I accepted that call. This is not the first time this has been done. I am extremely articulate and skilled when it comes to voicing my opinion and being fair and reasonable with others. I have a certain decorum, (usually), and have gained trust and respect from others.

 

If you think you have knowledge to grant me, this may be true. But not in how to socialize in media. Not once in several YEARS and 1,693 posts has anyone, or any group of bloggers, tried to run me off or told me I was self absorbed or appeared desperate for attention. Nor has anyone stated I needed to stop posting. The choice is yours in how you handle criticism. If you create such mass dissention before 50 post, you, may very well be the one that needs to stop trying to teach people how to post... and learn more. 

 

Again, this is not lashing. But I DO read between the lines. I am adept at it and am PAID FOR IT. 

 

Hope you are having a wonderful day. And it is my wish you will heed my advice and move forward and start listening more than you speak. People only read long winded verbiage when they have an audience. And half the time they don't have time or tolerance for that! 

 

Thank you for your time should you read this. I am laying it on the line, as usual. 

 

 


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Posted on Nov 21, 2015 at 04:35 AM

***Hoping4Love2000*** Please forgive my over-top comeback. I really love everyone here and I like the feedback and responsiveness from the bloggers. I jumped in and accept the learning curve. I am participating so the learning happens faster and it's making it all interesting.  I am so sorry that I came back in a strong manner to what you said about my life and the truth we have is that we do not know each other and flat-out judging and evaluating is not fair or accurate because we are just guessing. My heart hurt so badly when you responded back to my post and talked about all of the pain in your life- What I wanted to give you and I apologize for being away on business and not getting back to this sooner were the tools to make what you say powerful to attract in better things than ever before. I said I prefer to uplift and encourage and was not happy that you took a negative path with me and I did not want to go there with you. That is the only reason I wanted you to know I could but I did not want to. I did not go about this correctly, but my REAL intention was to show you how to say things in a way that would be considered "Strong Communication"  I was not clear to you because what I want you to know is how to be more powerful with what you are and what you believe. I did not say that you should not have hope--- EVER---- To make what you say POwerful Communication you use "I am" or " I have." This means you already are and have instead of wishing you will have something, someday. Here's how it would be said to make who you ARE and what you BELIEVE powerful : "I am a person with tremendous HOPE." Another way to say it is, "I always have HOPE."  The having and being is more powerful than wishing something will come to you in the future. I need more time to get into more topics but I am Divorced. I have always had men in my life and I never said the same men. My relationships and life have been amazing but I did not say things have been easy or all sweet. When I read about the topic of abuse in your posts it screams a need to boost self-esteem and sometimes if we have been abused instead of looking towards how we can improve ourselves we lash out at others and so we all can grow and learn. Our experiences are our and if we share and ask questions of each other I think we all benefit. We absolutely do not have to agree with each other and that makes things even better. I would prefer that we agree to disagree and have our opinions but I would ask and definitely refrain in the future from coming on so strong to anyone in this community.  I truly love and appreciate you all. I am not here to promote the relationship/luv coach just to say that I did an "Experiment" and asked him what his opinion was on my entry into "online dating"--- and I have done my share of offline dating. Have a great day. More later. Thanks to the community for all the feedback. You all rock and I am really enjoying you all. I think that topics about dating and relationships and how to make better choices or sharing what works and does not work seem to be fair for this site. I want to share more and am not familiar with sites where you have to keep so much secretive. It is not my experience being in the public to have to hold back or limit details or how to find more of my content. It's all good and I am truly happy to be here and look forward to more Positive interaction with everyone.- YOu have HOPE and never lose it. Having is POWERFUL. 



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Posted on Nov 19, 2015 at 04:35 PM

Quoting 3345roc:

Well said my dear.  I still feel that you're way too kind but I guess that's who you are. I wanted you to know that I posted my comment before I saw your reply.


Hey Sugar! 

 

I can't state that I disagree with anything you said. Sometimes the only way people understand is to be point blank. I fail to fathom the mindset of someone who comes in and does not interract with others before posting so much. Couple this with admitting they have no dating experience as an adult because they were in a relatonship all their adult life... then add they are suddenly single (says divorce not widow) and now they have all this "advice" to give others on how to design/write their profiles and how to date.

 

Perhaps the real advice should be, "How to lose your husband after being married all your adult life." 

 

And if you are widowed, FLPETITE, the first thing I would tell you NOT to do on your profile is ever lie. 

 

And if you are divorced after being married forever, you need to quit giving advice on men and relationships, etc and find yourself, because you obviously haven't dated enough to have mega experience in this realm...and well...If you were married for 45 years and split, you are the last person who needs to give "relationship" advice. 

 

Just sayin... 

 

I will tell you though.. This group is very forgiving and we have dealt with spats before. If you come in and acknowledge these issues people have had over the past month and a half, and try to talk "with" people and not "at" them, you will find the blogs far more rewarding. 

 

I have to put ROC in his time-out chair sometimes, and only the good Lord knows how heated it will get over politics in the near future. We will have people with hurt feelings, and lots of laughs and people even apologize and make up. It's a part of life. But unless you open your mind and your heart to hear what people tell you, you will not fair well. We are like "FRIENDS" at the "CENTRAL PERK COFFEE HOUSE." Try a little less to convince us you know so much and a little more with showing us who you are behind all that writing you do. 

 

Wishing you the best. 

 


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Posted on Nov 19, 2015 at 02:09 PM

Quoting silverlion:

** 3345roc **

 

Wow !... You certainly can let it rip when needs be.  What a cracker, I really needed a good laugh.  Thanks.

 

Did all of that come from your ' left brain or right brain ' ?... by the way. 

 

See her blog titled " The Sensual Side of Success in Business and the Bedroom",  for more on that.

 

Keep on Rockin... Babe,

 

** S L **



I was laughing too, INSPECTOR!! I was lucky I was not drinking anything when I started reading!!!

 

Now ROC----

 

YOU KNOW WHERE YOU HAVE TO GO!! 

 

GET IN THE TIME OUT CHAIR... The real princess must break out the whip! *wink!!!


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Posted on Nov 19, 2015 at 12:38 PM

Quoting 3345roc:

Whoa there Little Miss Princess thing.  You're the one who's crossed the line.  In a bit over a month you mounted an assault on the blogs without knowing a damn thing about this  community.  You claim to be a Sales expert yet you violate almost every rule of effective salesmanship.  You don't know your audience and you talk way too much.  Do you ever just shut up and listen?

 
 
You've initiated 16 blogs and posted 58 comments.  Of those 58 comments, 51 were posted on your own blogs and a mere 7 posted on blogs initiated by others.  Those 7 comments were perfunctory and lacked thought , content  or feeling. 
 
 
I'm not a mental health professional but your self promoting pomposity suggests that you might be delusional and suffer from NPD. As I mentioned on your dating and relationship blogs your lack and knowledge or insight indicates a level of naivete, yet you choose to school a community of bloggers who, as a group, are more informed than you.  Were you a kindergarten teacher before you became a celebrity?
 
 
You recently posted a blog on profiles.  I suspect you consider yourself talented in that area as well.  You posted 26 pictures, nine of them are of you, the rest are superfluous.  Someone who takes pride in her appearance and who keeps reminding us that she's a celebrity and media personality who spends much of her time in the public eye,  should have professional headshots.  I hate to be the one to break the news that your lead picture is horrible.  Posting the least flattering picture, as your lead one, suggests that you don't know what a bad first impression it leaves.  I would suggest you eliminate that one as it belies your age and leads one to believe that your other pictures are very old.  Honestly, it would scare the paint off of a fence post.  If that comes as a surprise to you you're lying to yourself.  The fact that you posted a close up of your legs on your business card blog tends supports that theory as well.  I could get more descriptive but Hillary might get upset.
 
 
I just read your most recent mindless blog.  I always wondered who coined the term "Carpe Diem".  Thanks for that... you don't look that old, however.
 
 
I imagine that someone with your worldwide exposure and appeal has her own website. If not I'd suggest you get one, abandon this site and start blogging on your website as most of the folks here have triple digit IQs.  I know someone who is expert at building websites but she might not entertain someone who bloviates as much as you do.
 
 
I'm not certain but I do believe that most of the folks here wouldn't shed a tear if you left.  You probably haven't noticed that your blogs get very little traction and few positive comments.  You're so tightly wrapped in your own little cocoon that you appear oblivious to the world around you.
 
 
If you do decide to stay, a little bit of humility might be in order.... you are not the smartest person in the room, you are not the prettiest person in the room and you are not the most "maze bright" person in the room.  When you insult Hope you insult all of us.
 
 
Namaste, Carpe Diem or better yet let the day grab you and shake some of the nonsense out!


** 3345roc **

 

Wow !... You certainly can let it rip when needs be.  What a cracker, I really needed a good laugh.  Thanks.

 

Did all of that come from your ' left brain or right brain ' ?... by the way. 

 

See her blog titled " The Sensual Side of Success in Business and the Bedroom",  for more on that.

 

Keep on Rockin... Babe,

 

** S L **


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Posted on Nov 19, 2015 at 09:50 AM

MISS MARY!!!! 

 

HOW ARE YOU? Are you near Paris? 

 

What a flood of emotions over the past few days!!! 

I'm still crying off and on. 

 

As for the blog-- after reading ROC's comment, I guess I'm still the mellow one.. LoL...

 

ROC--- Thanks for defending me, hun. I just call it like i see it. I do not profess to be all sugary about it. 

That would be impossible! 

 

I'm just me! 


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Posted on Nov 19, 2015 at 01:26 AM

 

***@FLPETITEPRINCESS***

 

After what happened in Paris I don' have the apt to write any comments on any blog but now I have to do this because the blog is going that far ..

 

I was the 1st one who said no to your relationship coach because I don't have the reason to do it ..Im old enough and well experienced when it comes to dating . I have dated well eligibled guys  and married a wonderful man ... 

 

But I have a notion , correct me if Im wrong , that you are doing some favor for your friend "the coach " ...Its his job and that is how he is earning money ..advertising by convincing the people here to try it ...The trouble is Advertising a business is not allowed here in MM ..I hope you realized that .. Have a nice day ...


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Posted on Nov 18, 2015 at 10:22 AM

Quoting FLPetitePrincess:

***Hoping4Love2000*** You need to get a life if I asked a simple question and you psycho-analyzed , sliced me and diced me good without knowing me-- Just for the record--when it comes to communication-- The word HOPE is a weak word and my life has been amazing--- With body and brains I do not have to hope for anything or need a relationship coach- I have a business colleague who I have known for more than 20 years and he is a relationship coach. When I said I was going to post myself online-- the first time I have been single in my entire adult life---thankyou---The Luv Coach suggested I ask my potential online dates to call him and he would help me-- by letting them introduce themselves and then asking a few questions. He jokingly called it the Luv Test. All kidding aside, it's really nice to have people who care about you and who are willing to take a few minutes of their time to help you and with good intentions that I meet someone with good intentions. Now that I have taken more of my time to explain this to you and the world of people who choose to read my blog it's up to you if you want to foolishly keep calling me names or judge my life on one sentence. You would be better off trying to be a friend because I could show you about real, sincere communication that is done with intentions of bettering people lives. If I want to do standup comedy I'lll go perform at a club. If I want to create controversy I will go on the air and broadcast a talk show - so let me know if you want to show the world your personality and get farther than this blog. For those of you who are out there. I ask, would a relationship coach who cares about your finding real love be a good thing or a bad thing. It was a question, not a declaration of anything more or less and quite frankly- it's created comments and controversy so it must have been a good questions. For anyone who has time enough to cut me down for entertainment purposes just note- I have the written and verbal skills to slice you, dice you and spit you out for lunch and it's not what I want to spend my time doing. I am here to meet an amazing man and create a magical chapter in my life and this is way too much time spent on responding to stupidity.=If you are looking for an educated women who loves life and who gets out in the world, let's connect-sooner than later because life if so precious and it's time to enjoy it. I decided to blog because it helps me stay in the flow of writing and I know that media popularity and influence comes from consistency of participation to build a following. I'm writing on Millionaire Match and when I find my perfect match I am sure he will have other ideas about where my hands should be. Love you all. Have a great day.



Hi FLPETITE, 

 

I wasn't dicing you. Just saying it how it is. Sorry, but since you have no experience in dating, you say, YOUR ENTIRE ADULT LIFE... 

 

Allow me to clarify....

 

ANY man who is "okay" with having to be "connected" with someone BEFORE he dates you, well he would be a man to be extremely leery of. 

 

WE DON'T DO THAT! 

It's INVASIVE, INAPPROPRIATE, and in a sense, demeans the potential date --- albeit I do not think you mean to do so, but it is how most would take it. I DO understand how you feel it is "for you" but that is mistake #1--- Men don't want to seem like they are "applying" for a position anymore than a woman does. This is NOT a business proposition. Men like spontaneity... well, at least they do if they are any good between the sheets! ;)  

 

Lighten up! I took your post as it was written. Don't discuss politics around here for certain, if you do not want to get chewed up. We are all pretty good buds... But we "go to toe" at times. I'm certain this election will be downright nasty in ways.. COME ON HALL MONITORS! HA! 

 

You stated NOT to ask friends.. to ask a coach, and now you say the man is your friend of 20 years? Further confusion here. You stated....


 

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For women, for all these years, we've phoned a friend instead of a relationship coach. The friends also can be too close to your situation and you may not reveal to a friend what you might tell your relationship coach who is specifically working in the area of your best interest in having a real, loving relationship. 

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Sorry, but that sounds as if you are telling everyone to go get a coach. I disagree! I say.. ALLOW LOVE TO HAPPEN!!!

LOVE IS BASED FIRST ON CHEMISTRY... And no "love doctor" can predict that!

 

 

This is a public forum. One should know when they start blogging, they are up for being criticized, scrutinized, punned... and also good compliments. (YOU SHOULD SEE THE HITS I HAVE TAKEN OVER THE YEARS! HA!) 

 

IE: I complimented you on your sound advice for "opening up" and seeing beyond the spectrum of dating on another blog. WHY? Because in that blog, you sounded intelligent and you also were expanding your wings and broadening your spectrum in dating. I applauded you. 

 

HERE? Sorry, Petite. It just sounds quacky at best. 

PEOPLE DO NOT ASK A STRANGER TO CALL OR SPEAK TO SOMEONE TO SEE IF THEY ARE A FIT. 

It's coffee for Christ sake! That would make it appear the person was not even worth your valuable time if the "coach" said-- NO FIT. How pompous! 

 

You are a grown woman and if you are seeking advice from your "coach" on dating, my advice was to STOP! 

 

Look FLPETITE--- Allow me to explain how it works in "blogland." 

We share our opinions, thoughts, ideas.. etc.. 

 

And sometimes toes get stepped on... 

 

People here understand... I DO NOT SUGAR COAT... 

But I have made it for years now without being run off, and am accepted for my "non conventional princess ways.." 

 

I call it like I see it... and I can take a blow....

 

HOWEVER----

(UGH.. I dislike this part.)  

 

I DO wish to apologize to you for being so bold and making it appear to you I was demeaning you. PETITE, I think you have some valuable assets and some insight to offer to us in blogland and the world...

 

I just do NOT think your niche of wisdom is in dating.

Collecting advice from a woman who has not dated her entire adult life is akin to getting advice on sex from a virgin who has watched a couple of pornos.  

 

But I did not mean to hurt your feelings or insult you...

 

Now, I must run off and "find a life!"

 

CHEERIO~~~ 

 

 


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Posted on Nov 18, 2015 at 03:16 AM

***Hoping4Love2000*** You need to get a life if I asked a simple question and you psycho-analyzed , sliced me and diced me good without knowing me-- Just for the record--when it comes to communication-- The word HOPE is a weak word and my life has been amazing--- With body and brains I do not have to hope for anything or need a relationship coach- I have a business colleague who I have known for more than 20 years and he is a relationship coach. When I said I was going to post myself online-- the first time I have been single in my entire adult life---thankyou---The Luv Coach suggested I ask my potential online dates to call him and he would help me-- by letting them introduce themselves and then asking a few questions. He jokingly called it the Luv Test. All kidding aside, it's really nice to have people who care about you and who are willing to take a few minutes of their time to help you and with good intentions that I meet someone with good intentions. Now that I have taken more of my time to explain this to you and the world of people who choose to read my blog it's up to you if you want to foolishly keep calling me names or judge my life on one sentence. You would be better off trying to be a friend because I could show you about real, sincere communication that is done with intentions of bettering people lives. If I want to do standup comedy I'lll go perform at a club. If I want to create controversy I will go on the air and broadcast a talk show - so let me know if you want to show the world your personality and get farther than this blog. For those of you who are out there. I ask, would a relationship coach who cares about your finding real love be a good thing or a bad thing. It was a question, not a declaration of anything more or less and quite frankly- it's created comments and controversy so it must have been a good questions. For anyone who has time enough to cut me down for entertainment purposes just note- I have the written and verbal skills to slice you, dice you and spit you out for lunch and it's not what I want to spend my time doing. I am here to meet an amazing man and create a magical chapter in my life and this is way too much time spent on responding to stupidity.=If you are looking for an educated women who loves life and who gets out in the world, let's connect-sooner than later because life if so precious and it's time to enjoy it. I decided to blog because it helps me stay in the flow of writing and I know that media popularity and influence comes from consistency of participation to build a following. I'm writing on Millionaire Match and when I find my perfect match I am sure he will have other ideas about where my hands should be. Love you all. Have a great day.


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Posted on Nov 16, 2015 at 11:34 AM

Quoting FLPetitePrincess:

***Hoping4Love2000*** Thanks for participating in responding to my blog post about whether someone should have a relationship coach. For those people who are going to be dating people with high-visibility it is not unusual for someone to check out the potential dates. Many high profile people get photographed or filmed and so being prepared can be helpful. It might not be a person who calls him or herself a "Relationship" coach, but someone might want to know a little bit about the person they are interested and intend to date. 


Hi FLPetite.... 

 

I thought this was a blog about what YOU did to a potential date, not a blog about what high profile movie stars with their heads stuck up their ###, or frumpy people who think they are more important than they really are, may do? (All of this, regardless, is a bit flaky at best. I guess you are the type that if Kim Kardashian does it, so do you?)

 

Didn't YOU ask a man to contact your "relationship coach" so the coach could see if he was compatible? 

 

Sorry hun.. Comes off as being FLAKY and a fruit loop. I wouldn't have gotten mad at you as he did. Not worth it.. I would have just taken a deep breath and thanked my lucky stars I dodged a bullet. My apologies for appearing rather brash, but I am not big on sugar coating. "I ain't WILLIE WONKA! LoL..  

 

You are 57 years old. If you don't know yourself well enough to know what type of man you need, then take some self awareness classes, do some meditating and yoga and have a long talk with yourself. It's called "soul searching." You should already be aware of your desires as well as what type man works best with your personality. 

 

Get out from behind the "relationshiT coach" and LIVE LIFE!!!

 

You are 57. Sadly hun.. the odds are that 2/3 of your life is DONE.

 

So DITCH THE COACH AND GO LIVE THE REST OF YOUR YEARS!!! 

 

And quite seriously.. if you make a mistake with a man, 

at least you can say you had fun while doing it!    *wink! 

 

Gosh, where is Phyllis Dillar when you need her? She would have a field day with you! (And I say this lovingly. It is just that funny that you can't see how silly this nonsense is. PLEASE, PLEASE, PLEASE TELL ME YOU DON'T VOTE! ;) 

 

I wish you the best sweetie. 

GO MAKE A HUGE MISTAKE WITH SOME GUY COMPLETELY WRONG FOR YOU!! THEY ARE THE MOST FUN!!! ;)

 

Oh, and when you do.. COME BACK AND TELL US ALL ABOUT IT... WE ARE NOSY THAT WAY! 

 

 

AND FOR THE ONES WHO COAX ME ON HERE.. SHAME ON YOU FOR MAKING ME YOUR FALL GUY!!

 


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Posted on Nov 15, 2015 at 10:19 PM

***Hoping4Love2000*** Thanks for participating in responding to my blog post about whether someone should have a relationship coach. For those people who are going to be dating people with high-visibility it is not unusual for someone to check out the potential dates. Many high profile people get photographed or filmed and so being prepared can be helpful. It might not be a person who calls him or herself a "Relationship" coach, but someone might want to know a little bit about the person they are interested and intend to date. 



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Posted on Nov 15, 2015 at 09:52 PM

***SL*** I did respond to you and my comment to your wanting to discuss this topic is that we take it to our online talk show first before any video. 



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Posted on Nov 15, 2015 at 02:48 PM

Quoting FLPetitePrincess:

It seems that everywhere I go and all of the networking events I attend, there are so many people who work as coaches. I've encountered the life coaches, the personal fitness training coaches, the financial coaches, business success coaches, and communication coaches. I finally realized that what might be missing from finding the perfect match could be a relationship coach. 

 

At first, I ask a man who wanted to go on a date with me if he would do me a favor and call my relationship coach. He got so upset and defensive and changed into this angry man and I was baffled. I explained that the coaching was not for him--it was for me. My relationship coach, a man named Bruce, wanted to be introduced to my potential dates -who could be my potential partner- to help me make better choices and not mistakes with dating the wrong men. 

 

Why is it that it is so easy to think that we do not need help when it comees to love and relationships but we could use help in almost all other areas of our lives- with the exception of what we are experts at in our field of business or work. Do we have to look down on people who could help us get out of our own way or people who could help us see what we can't see because we are just too close to the situation? 

 

I told my relationship coach, Bruce that this man was super upset and would not make a call to him to say hi and let him know that he wanted to date me. I have done business with the Luv Coach for more than 20 years as he is also a talk show host and author, like myself. Recently, when I said I was going to take the chance and post my profile online he recommended and advised me to ask my potential dates to call him and introduce themselves and he let me know that they should pass the "Love Test." 

 

It would be really awesome to see what would really happen if people began using relationship coaches so that they could avoid more bad choices and focus their time and energy on choices and decisions that could be beneficial to real, loving relationships. 

 

For women, for all these years, we've phoned a friend instead of a relationship coach. The friends also can be too close to your situation and you may not reveal to a friend what you might tell your relationship coach who is specifically working in the area of your best interest in having a real, loving relationship. 

 

How many people want to have help with finding a partner and making a relationship work well. The divorce rates and the number of people singe seem to indicate there's a real problem. 

 

Let me know what you think about what it would be like to have a relationship coach to guide you, to ask questions and to discuss what it will take to help you have love in your life. 



My best guess is,

 

If at the age of 57, a woman (or man) fails to understand how to USE THEIR PICKER.... 

It may be best to toss in the towel.... 

 

I mean, seriously people... Should any of you need a "relationship coach" TO FIND AN APPROPRIATE DATE... Just become celibate or shoot yourself already. We aren't 12... 

 

Sounds more like someone is in serious need of self-awareness classes, not a relationship coach. 

This isn't rocket science.

 

Further.... 

 

What kind of person in their right mind would ask a "potential date" to call their relationship coach? 

 

ANSWER? NONE..

Not in their right mind at least! 

 


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Posted on Nov 15, 2015 at 06:15 AM

Quoting 3345roc:

He's working with athletes?  That's a surprise because I was going to ask you whether you ever suggested that he hire a fitness coach... he's getting a bit paunchy around the middle.

 

It's hard to tell how old he is because when guys dye their hair that particular shade of black it tends to make them look older.  It seems he spends a great deal of time indoors, which is a good thing in his case.  I've seen guys with similar dye jobs and it looks purple in the sunshine. If he were my friend I'd suggest he hire a hair and clothing stylist as well. Confidentially,  I wouldn't buy condoms from the Luv doctor.

 

On a positive note, if the Luv thing doesn't work out for him he could always fly out to Vegas and become a Johnny Cash impersonator.

 

Namaste... hope this helps. 



I have a very simple belief system:  If it looks like a duck;  if it acts like a duck;  It likely IS a Duck!!  

Quack, Quack!!

 

OK....we need to quit now.  ROFL. 🐬


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Posted on Nov 15, 2015 at 06:06 AM

Quoting Dakota35:

Well Diana at least you are in luck, these days they have so many new "appliances" to choose from in whatever color suits your fancy.  Yes, a new AC unit would be good as you don't want to over heat whiles using those new "appliances". 



Lolol....ok Dak. I will certainly take your comments into consideration, but it's been a long time since I've overheated.......unfortunately!!!!


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