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Posted on Apr 08, 2018 at 03:21 PM

Why does it seem that most prefer thin and atractive, the surface being most important. Others prefer a fuller figure or a unique look. I want to think most of us, men and women alike look past the figure and find what's in the heart, soul and personality. Be honest what's your preference and why, have you thought about before?

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Posted on Apr 12, 2018 at 10:02 PM

I for one find looks to be surprisingly important in a romantic partner, which may seem unusual for a woman. If I'm not attracted to him then I'll only ever feel a friendly sort of love, and I tend to feel friendly love towards most people I know. It's easy to love someone, but to be IN love with them I also need attraction. That doesn't mean he has to look like Chris Hemsworth (though I wouldn't complain), but if I don't find him attractive at all then it would never work no matter how kind or wonderful he is. I'm less concerned about money even than I am looks. Some people may think that makes me shallow, but everyone is looking for something in particular and some are pickier than others. I would never think that even if someone is wanting a particular look that that's all they want, I doubt they would be happy with someone whose personality doesn't suit them, but I do think it's ok to want attraction and my feelings aren't hurt if someone simply isn't attracted to me.

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