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Reading Messages before we respond to them. NOT PROFILES

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Hello everyone, I am not doing very well today and I really wish I can say otherwise but It is the truth and my English is going to show so for that I do and will apologize for it right now. I do not want to go into what is really what I am going through at the moment or all that jazz lets me easily say that 1-10 I am at an 11 and that is all. But inspiration hits and you know when that happens you need to let it flow and let the dust settle where it likes.


Common courtesy, which is something that I was to do from a very young age. from opening a door for a lady, walking on the street side if walking with someone, always saying hello when someone said hello to you or ahead nod you nod back or hat tilt. Well, more than likely would it not be the same way too when you are replying to a message that you actually read the whole message before replying to it. If anything you may actually get their name out of it and some other key details out of it they the person may of shared with you.


So why Jacob are you bringing this up this seems like a very bizarre thing to write about. We all know it is a good idea to read what is written to us it is the polite thing to do or delete it and not respond to it.

Well, I have had ten people in a row over the last few days message me and ask me my name when I have clearly told them my name at least three times in the message beforehand. Please do not get me wrong I am used to not having my name remembered and being called everything else under the sun and moon but to be asked. " Hello how are you what is your name when I can see my name just a line or two just above the question they just typed." I am not trying to be nit-picky here But we are educated, intelligent individuals we take time to write and to put a little bit of ourselves into that little quip even in our profile give it some respect read it acknowledge the person that is writing it I am not saying you have to like what they are saying or even like the person but just acknowledge that person. If you are going to write back to them show them the respect that you read what they wrote to you.

I am off my soap-box

Acknowledging one another being is to acknowledge oneself and admit your own weakness to truly grow and become fruitful.


Amendment: For some reason, some of you keep thinking this is referring to our profiles I clearly do not talk about our profiles here I am talking about our chat, PM, MESSAGES, IM, TXT. No profiles at all. It is always clear when they do not read our profiles enough of us complain about that and how to spot one that does not do that. I have seen 1 in 30 that is a scammer. But I keep seeing comments that continue to make remarks that I am talking about profiles where there is nothing about the profile in my post so I am having to make this statement here. I hope this is clear now. But this also shows that most are doing the same thing and not really reading the post and just seeing the title and not even reading it and wanting to post a remark that has to do with the content of the blog. Something to think about.


Jacob Sr.

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As this is a dating website, with profiles of members looking to meet others of interest on what is written in their profile, one assumes that the “Messages” and “Blogs” are related to this site.


If the comments or replies are being interpreted the same way, then it is understood as replied to, that it is about communicating via message on this website about profiles. Not about other media: chat, PM, MESSAGES, IM, TXT.


This may not be the format for “Reading Messages before we respond to them” if the message is from other social media networking sites and not this dating website.


Millionaire Match is all about the profiles, sending, and receiving messages to individuals personally and Blog about the experiences!



Just sayings.... It is all good!

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I am going to give it a stab:


It appears that they have not taken the time to completely read your profile. Had they read your profile, the message would start off with “Hi Jacob Sr. or CRISCO2319”. They are trying to have a conversation with you based on your pictures. Thus, “what is your name; what are you doing tonight…”



Someone will message me and ask a question and I would answer it (had they read my profile, they would have known the answer).



I then ask them a question. And they reply as if they have not read the message, did not understand the question, ignoring the question, trying to change the subject, or talking to several people and getting the messages mixed up, or they will have an already typed reply, (because their reply has nothing to do with the message, I just sent them). They are scammers!



Which, I consider to be rude! Thus, I politely reply that they seem not to answer my questions. Therefore, I am not interested and wish them good luck with their search. Then I get this immature reply, “I did answer your questions”.!?



When the messages, questions and replies do not match up, chances are that they are scammers.

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October 17
of* not or
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October 17
yeah lol I could say I'm flying to moon Alice. (the response) what are you doing tonight? a continuance or preset responses. like the ones that call you, they sound like people, even says its a person. but hangs up when caught.
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October 17
you talking about me? you're entitled to your opinion. HOWEVER, it doesn't make you right.
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September 30 Total posts: 20

Crisco2319 ,

I absolutely agree with you ...Maryclaire

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I agree. The ones who don't respond to what you say or pay attention are probably the same kind of people who don't listen well when having a conversation. If you can't acknowledge what's been said in a message, how can you in a conversation?
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September 28 Total posts: 2
I Agree
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Yes. I think that's the biggest problem. Where are the real people? This is supposed to be top of line app for dating stable grown- ups. But seems like everyone is in hiding or something is very wrong.
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I wish not to appear rude but I was not talking about profiles here at all, I did not mention profiles, I clearly stated "Reading Messages before we respond to them." not profiles. As in the PM that we send to each other or the Chat.

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September 23 Total posts: 1
I agree 100%!
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It's not that people don't read your profile, it's that their profiles are not real.