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1 year ago

'The loveless never finds Love'.

We are all here willingly, shopping in each other's Soul. But what attracts my attention is the well- constructed prose expressing the qualities that we want. For some, the list is short while others have a long list. The common connecting denominator is 'goodness'. Everybody wants a good character and substantial value.

It's all about 'self', what we desire. But are we equal to the occasion to savour those traits when they do appear? Or do we sabotage love? Do we have those positive traits within us?

 

Or should the prayer be, 'Dear God, let me develop those favourable traits in me so that I can be of value to another Soul'.

We expect the other person to behave a sure way to make us happy and if he fails, then we break the union and move on. The cycle continues, never-ending. It is all about our needs.

But fulfilling union involves two people who are already complete and are committed towards a purpose for the overall good of humanity. It is not about expectations but instead value where they are both contributing. There is an acceptance that our wounds will naturally show up in the expression of negative emotion and we shall forgive and continue with our purpose.

 

Marriages made in heaven is work. It is a holy assignment where two people are committed to a purpose. supporting each other in an atmosphere of compassion and forgiveness. It is neither the flickering of the heartbeat nor the bubble in the stomach associated with infatuation. It is real Love.

Love occurs occurs when we become lovable. Love is kind, patient, respectful, forgiving, honest, even-tempered and nurturing. It seeks the happiness of its beloved. When we develop this intrinsic positive attitude beneath the layers of our finery, then will we attract same.

 

So it is not about searching for love but returning to love, the child in us which is our true essence. Then can we magnetise same in others and what is not will shrivel alongside our path.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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1 year ago

Thank you Amy. 

Your actions have shown what love is, without judgment nor boundaries. It's been such an awesome experience here in this network of mixed grill. I came here to attract love but also inherited genuine friendship from the womenfolk. You have been so remarkable Amy and I respect our friendship and look forward to meeting you in Houston next month.

At least you have seen that stereotypes are individual perceptions hence unreal. There are real people out here.

What we pray for is, 

'Dear God, please give me a heart of love so that I am in a tender vibration through the Law of Homogeneity to attract the same'.

 

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This beautiful admirable post is the amazing essence of you.....♥️ and THIS is why we are ftiends 👭
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1 year ago

Ok.

I am all ears

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1 year ago

Thank you

Nimaste

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Hey lovely i love u
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1 year ago

Thanks Sis,

Glad you found my blog helpful

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1 year ago

My pleasure, Scarlet.

We are here to support each other

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This is beautiful, thank you for sharing ❤️
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Amen sista
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1 year ago
That does seem the case those who have the greatest lack of love in their lives can’t seem to find it. I will have to ponder this in greater detail. We do get in ourb own way in searching for that love. We can only change ourselves. If you are having a problem with your partner in life they are the only ones who can make changes within themselves to save the relationship. If they do not then they are making the decision to break that union, whether they leave or actually divorce you.

I’ve waited 30 years for a partner to make those changes. I know stupid to wait that long. Those changes are not coming. Further more her transgressions never even came with an “I’m sorry” or any sign to change. Well I should mention for years she was skilled enough in disception to give the appearance she had changed. I Trusted without Verifying.

Although I was married I spent decades all alone void of love and passion. My biggest fear now is has this damaged me so bad I can’t love or be passionate again. I’m probably shooting myself in the foot by commenting about this on the same site I’m searching for a woman to be apart of life. I am believing that I’m a hopeless romantic and deep down in my heart and soul I know I’m a lover not a fighter.

I think most of us on the blog side, with the exception of a few, are true love seekers. And, even if we are not exact matches give support to each other to continue that search to fill the hole in our hearts that’ll give us a complete life.
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Quoting author:

'The loveless never finds Love'.

We are all here willingly, shopping in each other's Soul. But what attracts my attention is the well- constructed prose expressing the qualities that we want. For some, the list is short while others have a long list. The common connecting denominator is 'goodness'. Everybody wants a good character and substantial value.

It's all about 'self', what we desire. But are we equal to the occasion to savour those traits when they do appear? Or do we sabotage love? Do we have those positive traits within us?

 

Or should the prayer be, 'Dear God, let me develop those favourable traits in me so that I can be of value to another Soul'.

We expect the other person to behave a sure way to make us happy and if he fails, then we break the union and move on. The cycle continues, never-ending. It is all about our needs.

But fulfilling union involves two people who are already complete and are committed towards a purpose for the overall good of humanity. It is not about expectations but instead value where they are both contributing. There is an acceptance that our wounds will naturally show up in the expression of negative emotion and we shall forgive and continue with our purpose.

 

Marriages made in heaven is work. It is a holy assignment where two people are committed to a purpose. supporting each other in an atmosphere of compassion and forgiveness. It is neither the flickering of the heartbeat nor the bubble in the stomach associated with infatuation. It is real Love.

Love occurs occurs when we become lovable. Love is kind, patient, respectful, forgiving, honest, even-tempered and nurturing. It seeks the happiness of its beloved. When we develop this intrinsic positive attitude beneath the layers of our finery, then will we attract same.

 

So it is not about searching for love but returning to love, the child in us which is our true essence. Then can we magnetise same in others and what is not will shrivel alongside our path.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Hi Miss CassicBeauty 40, I had to return and say hello,  my bad.

 

 

 

 

Sincerely,  Mr Born1top. 

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Quoting author:

'The loveless never finds Love'.

We are all here willingly, shopping in each other's Soul. But what attracts my attention is the well- constructed prose expressing the qualities that we want. For some, the list is short while others have a long list. The common connecting denominator is 'goodness'. Everybody wants a good character and substantial value.

It's all about 'self', what we desire. But are we equal to the occasion to savour those traits when they do appear? Or do we sabotage love? Do we have those positive traits within us?

 

Or should the prayer be, 'Dear God, let me develop those favourable traits in me so that I can be of value to another Soul'.

We expect the other person to behave a sure way to make us happy and if he fails, then we break the union and move on. The cycle continues, never-ending. It is all about our needs.

But fulfilling union involves two people who are already complete and are committed towards a purpose for the overall good of humanity. It is not about expectations but instead value where they are both contributing. There is an acceptance that our wounds will naturally show up in the expression of negative emotion and we shall forgive and continue with our purpose.

 

Marriages made in heaven is work. It is a holy assignment where two people are committed to a purpose. supporting each other in an atmosphere of compassion and forgiveness. It is neither the flickering of the heartbeat nor the bubble in the stomach associated with infatuation. It is real Love.

Love occurs occurs when we become lovable. Love is kind, patient, respectful, forgiving, honest, even-tempered and nurturing. It seeks the happiness of its beloved. When we develop this intrinsic positive attitude beneath the layers of our finery, then will we attract same.

 

So it is not about searching for love but returning to love, the child in us which is our true essence. Then can we magnetise same in others and what is not will shrivel alongside our path.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Good people rebirth more good people,  factories makes products, and if they make a bad product, there will consequences  and repercussions. We learn certain aspects of life from a variety of individuals and circumstances that we encounter,  but if you have a difficult time determining which are the absolute best situation for you and your future it will  cost you both time and money. So we learn our secular education form either a public or private Institution, / home teaching,  and depending on what they taugh / teach you will  be the out come of who you are or will be. 

 

But there is always that chance that many deny good teaching and embrace bad teaching, because of a chemical imbalance to do that which is right. So when we make movies, and music, about humans being cruel and unfaithful to each other and don't inform them that this is not good behavior and it is not wise to mimic this entertainment, and that it can be very costly. 

 

So our teaching institutions teach certian curriculum mathematics, english, science, social studies etc, and no classes on moral values, good manners, ( not all teaching institutions ) vow keeping, how to date, how to treat a lady / man, how to court. Yes yes yes I know we Are supposed to receive this teaching at home, however many homes have been neglected from good teaching for hundreds of years, ( that's why the world is full of corrupt individuals in every country )!!! So the saga continues, I fill so sorry for the younger generation,  one because those who were responsible for making the world a better place has let them down, by promoting a dark side rather that truth!!! Men and ladies both are spinning things their way whether it's right or not, ( not all, but the majority is ruling,  the scales of justice is shifting towards the dark side / unrighteousness )!!! 

 

I once waz / was aloud to share in a group about how messed up / jack up men were in there thinking and behavior,  ( once again not all, but the scale is way off in the wrong direction) , but what astonishment me waz that ladies were beginning to follow. I told a group of ladies ( yes I told not shared) once how shock I was at how they were willing to follow men off a dangerous cliff just to be in the game, that rat race game of dare that you could either lose your life or your family all over sliver and gold or self gratification. 

Hummmmmmm which way is the world spinning, clockwise or counter clockwise???😱😠👿👹🤡😡💀☠👻👽😠 who created these emojis, hummmm?

 

Honey there is so much more but I have already spent to much time here today, but I will return to share more if they let me.

 

Let me say this, and I know everyone is not a corrupt person, but many have a dr. Jekyll and mr. Hyde spirit lurking somewhere within them, ( not all ), and many when they enter into a relationship in their younger days in their  teenage years early 20s sometimes they don't know what they really want they haven't figured out who they are yet, and then there are other times when people change and that's what's really sad, especially if they change for the worse and not to better.

 

I change but it was not by my might not by my strength,  but by God's favor and love He had for me, and for that I am truly truly grateful. They say good guys finish last, and I'm ok with that I would rather finish last knowing that I have done that which is right in the eyes of God than to finish first and be displeasing in his eye. It has also been said that good things come to those who wait. So I wait!!! 

 

So as always be careful and safe. 

 

 

Sincerely, Mr Born1top. 

God bless love and peace. ⚘⚘⚘⚘⚘⚘⚘⚘for ya.....

 

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1 year ago

I agree with you absolutely Leah. Thank you

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1 year ago

Thank you for your advice

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1 year ago

 

@ClassicBeauty40 , 

 

Don't forget " Love begets Love " ..if you give love you will get 

love but in some instances  not from the same person ..you 

are going to harvest it in many ways according to my experiences..Keep giving love ...

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Yes!! It is returning to love... being love, the child. We are LOVE. 💗🙏🏽💗