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What is this site really for? You tell me.

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Also, if this site is so terrible let me refer you to the many other sites you mentioned.
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I disagree with you as I do not think there should be an overall opinion of everyone on this site. You are not the only financially secure female on this site like you often refer to. I am not in search of a “millionaire” per se, nor do I want to be someone’s meal ticket. I did intend to find a man with some ambition and drive. Someone hardworking, honest, respectful, and kind. It is so common for most to complain and criticize, yet so rare to compliment. I have met a wonderful person through this site that I would not have met otherwise. You might concentrate on the person as opposed to what they have acquired and you might be surprised. I am sure you have good qualities but your need to degrade others because they are searching for a meaningful relationship is definately not one of them. Change your attitude and lose the bitterness and you might be surprised. That coming from someone who is also financially secure and very intelligent. Good luck to you.
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1 year ago Total posts: 8

To the ladies who found time to comment on my post:

 

I am not here to attack anyone but I direct you to the homepage of this site.....

 

"Millionaire Match - The Original and Largest Millionaire Dating Site Since 2001"

 

"Are you a successful single who makes over $200K/yr and wants to meet attractive singles?"

 

"Are you an attractive single who wants to meet attractive, successful singles with verified income?"

 

I suggest that we all visit the planet Earth here a little more.  This is NOT eharmony, Match.com, Christian Singles, or Zoosk. This site is about finding someone with money even if you do not have any yourself.

 

How many women on this site have actually made it financially?  Let's start with that point.  You be the judge for those who want to judge me.

 

Unless you are actually self-made and financially successful (like myself and who is here to find someone like that as my relationship baseline - which I think is normal for someone in my position or not - I do not want to be a meal ticket for some man who has not been successful) then you are on here gold-digging.  Sorry.

 

So I again direct your attention above to how I started this post.

 

I do not mind taking "bitch bites" from other women on here, but let's get to reality.

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1 year ago
Quoting Jules4u2:

Pay no attention to the person behind the screen. Me thinks the lady duth protest too much. You sound like a warm hearted person attempting to give her heartfelt advice. Unfortunately, your words of wisdom fell on deaf ears. I wish you much luck in your search. 😊
 

@Jules4u2 ,

 

I agree with you .Faith as I used to call her is a nice Lady and 

a warmhearted person.Not only that she is also honest and

straightforward .I know her from the time she join the Site .

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1 year ago Total posts: 1
Pay no attention to the person behind the screen. Me thinks the lady duth protest too much. You sound like a warm hearted person attempting to give her heartfelt advice. Unfortunately, your words of wisdom fell on deaf ears. I wish you much luck in your search. 😊
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Your vocab is so well put together, (Im not a millionare, and I dont act like one)
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1 year ago
Some rich older men want the younger “Barbie” looking woman no matter what their net worth is...and too those men...GOOD FOR THEM! I don’t blame them one bit! And same for the woman who do the same thing!
I met a Millionaire from this site in which he contacted me...Relatiinship wise it did not work because he wanted to take care of me and I was too stubborn to allow that. We are still in contact regularly, he is my best friend. Looking back I wish I did allow him to take care of my girls and I.

No one has to reply to anyone who contacts them. We are all on here for some kind of personal desire... I do not judge anyone...male or female for what they want in life.
I personally would love to find a man that I could be that stay at home wife/mom...that is only because as a Registered Nurse who gets mandated a lot...I feel I am at work more than I am at home. I also have that personality to wear I would love to make sure my man is happy and satisfied in every way. There are men out there who also want that.

I do not judge anyone who has commented....you only get one life...and live that life to fulfill your dreams and wants. I wish everyone luck in their search and who cares about others profiles...rich or poor...everyone has a right to look for love...
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1 year ago Total posts: 8

Dear isitfate4unme:

 

Kindly allow me to comment on your comment.  Thank you.

 

You are a 54 yr-old never married woman and looking for someone in the age of 38-60 (cougar maybe?)  You say that it is "not about money."  You say that you were "drawn to this site because men like to treat a lady well here."

 

And you are telling me that I am the one sounding like a gold digger and am "shallow."  Oh and don't let me forget: You say that "I don't know anything about love either."

 

You are 20 years my senior and you may be the consummate relationship expert - but I doubt it - if you have never been married.  But I admit that I certainly am not an expert on love.  Most of the over-50 and never-married women which I know in town here (I know a lot) are not considered marriage candidates to most local men I know either - despite how "slick" their profile reads about their purported relationship desires.  Sorry but reality can be cruel.

 

Can I say "LOL" here?  Ok then statistically speaking, maybe NOT 100% are gold diggers but that is about as funny as the men (usually 18-22 and usually with no admitted assets and not even residing in Vegas) sending me regular emails and telling me that they are very interested in a relationship with me.

 

So I think that maybe, just maybe, you being here on this site to find an "emotional relationship" is a little bit of a stretch.   FYI  the quality of men is far better on Match.com and even Zoosk.  "Just sayin" if I may use that vernacular........

 

And FYI #2 per your comment:  I don't need to gold dig as I have my own assets.  I am looking for someone equally as successful.  Imagine that on this site!  :-) 

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1 year ago Total posts: 8

Dear "seekinghusband9" - I am not judging and only making observations after being on this site for several years - yes, YEARS.  I am looking at your profile and allow me to make another comment w/o judging (of course).

 

You are a 40 yr-old woman who claims she is in a relationship but wants to be a "trophy wife" with the "most plastic surgeries"  You say that you also want to look like a "fake barbie" and you want to stay at home all day and not want to work.  Correct?

 

I guess that you believe that you are owed this somehow?  That you might have some sense of entitlement that "somebody" owes you these things for some reason (as I have always aspired that one actually has to earn some things for his/her self in this world and which I did starting in my early 20's) - when YOU have never earned anything for yourself?  Do I have this right from your message telegraphed in your profile?

 

I believe that this is the classic gold digger definition.  Or am I wrong?  Good luck finding someone on this site who wants to do all of this for you under your terms?  Seriously.

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We are all adults and should know how to filter the garbage out.
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1 year ago Total posts: 31
also agree on this
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1 year ago

I will say that unlike most of the people on here that have been very judgemental of you I'm not that kind of person because everyone is entitled to their own opinion I will say that from your profile as well as this blog post you appear to be very short-sighted and maybe I could be wrong about that and if I am I apologize. but it just appears that you are very short sighted and maybe that's just from your experience alone which you obviously you wouldn't be able to relate to other people's experience other than your own and that's perfectly fine. You just sound very persipicaious and loquacious that's all.

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1 year ago

Well I for one have never at any point since I have created my profile here on this have advertised that I am a millionaire I am a man who's very transparent so I have no problem whatsoever putting into my profile how much money I make and what I expect from a potential partner. 

 

Yes by definition the purpose of the site is to locate someone whether it's a male or a female who is financially successful that is the purpose of the site. I mean people can try to twist it all around and make it be like all well you know it's not that but that is the purpose of the site when it was established. Me personally I am not seeking a millionaire but I have made it very clear that I do not get romantically involved with any woman who makes less money than I do and I have my reasons for that. And I'm sure that it may offend some people and piss them off and that's perfectly fine but it's a preference for me because of what I stand for what my character stands for with my Integrity stands for what my morality stands for and I know what it takes for me to be happy with a significant other because I know myself and how I am and I am going to be the same man 5 years from now 10 years from now 20 years from now so yes I would want someone to accept me exactly as I am right now because I'm going to be the same person in the future that way I can accept them as they are right now and that way they don't have to change for me and so that's why I have very strict requirements which I know a lot of people are not going to meet.

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Not to sound rude, but while I partially agree with some of your statements, this does not apply to 100 % of us women.

Are there an abundance of very attractive women, that appear to be gold diggers? Yes, but not 100 %, by any means.

For someone of your intelligent, and “self-made” status, you have much to learn when it comes to love. I know many happily married people, who don’t BOTH come from money. If you are on here only looking for a millionaire, then you could very likely be missing out on the man of your dreams.

Find a man that is rich in character, qualities, ethics, morals, intelligence, and personality, and you’ve struck gold.

Furthermore, you should consider that YOU are sounding like a gold digger, and quite shallow. Find the man that will treat you like a million instead, and you’ll one day look back and thank me.

That old saying, “money can’t buy love.” is true for many of us. Stop looking for a man who has millions, and look for the man that has love...love for you, and only you. Find the man that will be chasing YOU for a lifetime, instead of chasing money.

The biggest treasure one can have, is someone that treasures and loves us unconditionally, and is that ONE that completes us, and fits us perfectly. Soulmates come in more categories than “millionaire.” 💕
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1 year ago Total posts: 18
Wow, this was a great topic to hit Clara. It really hit a nerve. What I think you are driving at makes a whole lot of sense. I would assume the intention of this site on the surface is a place for millionaires to find commonality.

The true meaning in its creation would be for millionaires to find a trophy. In both cases so many are well off the mark trying to see if they hit the lottery. In this case they really do not belong any more than a tennis player trying out for football. But hey, this is America. Just block ‘em.

However, the site should take the certifications with a more serious nature for certifying millionaires AND filters for the pictures. I find the deception allowed more obnoxious.
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1 year ago
Totally agree
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1 year ago
I think you are right on your end. But every millionaire girl will not look for millionaire guy.
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Ok ladies and gentlemen I'm going from here
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Mrs. Claro, we are looking for something that someone may be lucky and fall in love with
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most women do the same for looking for money and millions🌹🌹🌹🌹