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Men lets chat about your photos...

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Maybe its because I've worked in a variety of roles in the entertainment industry or that I've spent time with a bunch of high profile people but...

I can tell a lot about you from your pictures!

Please make it harder for me to know so much about you from your pictures! 🤦🏽‍♀️

Here's some hints and tips:

1. Your featured pic needs to be a Clear photo of You, just you, no sunglasses!

2. Avoid pictures of you with your ex or another woman, even if they are scribbled out. (Poly are exempt)

3. Feature only yourself in your pics I want to know you, and not be distracted by your friend who's hotter than you.

4. Have professional photos done, or have someone else take a pic if you!
You have friends, right? Perhaps try the timer setting on your smartphone
Getting photos done is a Social Distance Friendly Activity!

5. Avoid the car seat selfie unless you are a professional stunt/off-road/race car driver.

6. Those photos where you were the groomsman at your friends wedding are nice but I can tell those are wedding photos especially when you post more than one pic from the event.

7. Please post recent pictures, your baby photo is cute, yet I want to see men not children

8. If you have facial hair show a pic without it if you can.

Some of these tips go for everyone, if there's anything I missed comment below!

*Pic taken today by my kid (aka my personal photographer)

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September 4
The wedding photos truly irritate me lol
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September 4 Total posts: 5
The truth hurts sometimes, doesn't it? :-)
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August 28 Total posts: 13
😁😁😁😁😁😁😁 go awayyyy

I quote you
"And in the same vein, women drop your sunglasses, stop using those ridiculous "make me look like a cat, dog or mouse etc., " stop, please stop, using "sexy" and "granny" in the same sentence (I shiver as I write this), ..."
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stop using the "make my wrinkles disappear" photoshop app, if you headline yourself as happy at least have one photo where you're smiling, and PUH-LEEESE, STOP PUTTING TRIPLE X'S all over your name, showing revealing photos and objectifying yourselve
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And in the same vein, women drop your sunglasses, stop using those ridiculous "make me look like a cat, dog or mouse etc., " stop, please stop, using "sexy" and "granny" in the same sentence (I shiver as I write this), ...
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Make your main photo recent! I don't like clicking on photos and seeing the gradual decline in looks. Who are you fooling?
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Smile! I want to see your smile. Dating is grim but don't look like you are in pain!
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August 18
Exactly. And have at least one without you wearing sunglasses.
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Great post! I would add:

1. A close-up of you smiling in a couple of your photos.

2. At least one full body shot.

3. Don't wear hats and baseball caps in every photo on your profile.
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August 17 Total posts: 17
great question and thank you for asking!
Are you in your authenticity by slapping up any photo of you and not putting in any effort to attract the person you want?

Second question is, has it been successful for you?

If this approach hasn't worked for you, be open to trying something different.
If it's worked for you, then there's no reason to change a thing, right?🤷🏽‍♀️

Last questions: Do you think someone who puts no effort in attracting someone is attractive?

How could that reflect on who they are as a person?

Also consider that women put on makeup, get their hair and nails done, get nice outfits to look appealing...thats a lot of effort simply expected of us!

Getting a clear picture taken by my kid was less effort than dressing nice and putting on a bit of makeup, and taking the time to post this blog.

At the end of the day you are going to do what you are going to do, this post is to help improve your odds.
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August 16
Why can't men just post a photo of themselves and be done with it? As long as the photo is authentic, the single woman can decide for herself if she wishes to respond.
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August 16 Total posts: 17
I've noticed that too! It's a problem with the formatting on this site, clicking the pic will give an expanded full view.
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August 16 Total posts: 17
my little one says thank you
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August 16
Your personal photographer took a great shot of you. Good shot and you are beautiful
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Your picture is beautiful. The only statement I would add is that I see a lot of pictures wherein the heads are so high on the picture they get cut off, unless intentional but I don't think so.