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Posted on Apr 03, 2007 at 06:23 PM

I have begun writing a book on why men cheat and the motivations behind their indescetions. For you men out there, feel free to post your comments or email me directly For you woman, tune in, because this blog is going to be very interesting. The first reason I would like to put out there for discussion is that Men have to cheat, to maintain their fragile sense of self esteem.

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Posted on Feb 17, 2018 at 05:14 PM

Normal,Intelligent,mature men don t cheat only Manipulateurs and Narcissic =sick


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Posted on Feb 17, 2018 at 05:13 PM

Mature ,Intelligent don t cheat only Manipulators and narcissics men cheat


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Posted on Feb 11, 2018 at 02:51 AM

What will make this book so interesting is because it is written by the male gender-you!

I can only speculate on why men cheat but I am not an expert on this topic.

 

POSITION OF THE REPRODUCTORY ORGANS

Let's examine the anatomy of both genders. The male reproductive organs are positioned on the outside hence vulnerable to any stimulation. The male reproductive organ is easily aroused by sight and immediately triggers a reaction on the erectile organ. It does not function with rational reasoning hence it becomes so gorged that the male is uncomfortable with the tension. So he has to release this heightened tension on the female that is readily available.  After sex, analytical reasoning begins with either regret or if it is good, a secret triste continues for the long- term as infidelity. Men can easily define the relationship either as love or sex. So the natural position of the genitals for men equip them with a heightened sexual libido to procreate and increase our census.

 

For women, the reproductive organs are internal. The most sensitive part hidden in a fold of flesh that requires an expert stimulation of touch. Most women are not aroused by sight because of this positioning. This is nature's ability to confine the female to the role of commitment so as to raise a home. The role of a woman to bring forth life allows her to be nurturing and family oriented. She is more attuned to love, compassion and empathy rather than sex. A woman in a loving relationship will remain committed to her partner irrespective of the numerous male hunters who are out their to satisfy their urge. 

 

If you understand nature's role on these positioning for procreation (though that is not acceptable for infidelity)then you will have a better clarity of why men cheat. It is an impulse at the heat of the moment to ease out an uncomfortable tension to whatever that is receptive, with no rational reasoning. For me, I will forgive him and move on as long as his heart is not there.

So Ladies, understand that sex is the food for the man as love is for the woman. Sex is ruled by the senses while love is ruled by the heart-spirit. Love is a union of two people irrespective of gender playing the masculine and feminine dynamics for growth purposes.

We are all on this site searching for the Soul's urge of that magnificent gift call love that money cannot buy. Love is that deep spiritual connection that breaks boundaries..making King Edward relinquish his birthright for American Walis Simpson that changed the history of the British Monarchy, Prince Harry introducing a black woman into an age long tradition, etc. 

Let's open our heart to the sweet fragrance that makes life worth living and fighting for. 

 

 


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Posted on Feb 10, 2018 at 12:14 AM

Very True.


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Posted on Jan 22, 2018 at 12:27 PM

Men who know how to love and are in love don’t cheat, those that do are extreme risk takers and probably suicidal as well.

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Posted on Jan 18, 2018 at 06:27 PM

woman cheat as much as men

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Posted on Jan 14, 2018 at 04:18 PM

You can't be serious!  Men have to cheat. Can I say "hog wash" on this site.


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Posted on Jan 03, 2018 at 07:44 PM

Quoting healthy59:

If you cheat you are not with the right person. You are afraid to be alone.


Now why did I get this quote???


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Posted on Jan 02, 2018 at 10:01 PM

Well not sure if Mr Beachmonk finish his book on why men cheat, I'm not sure if I have even commented on this blog, will check later. 

 

 My pence, some men are born with what I call a very wild hair in the wrong place, and until it is pluck out, or fall out, he will be wild in a many of his ways. During this time and process of his life he will have many challenges and one of them will be his inability to be faithful. Even though he has a good heart and he's trying with everything within him, this slight demonic unbalanced spirit has to be fed until he be delivered, and for many if they don't really receive the Holy Spirit it is a good chance that this will be a long and bumpy road not only for him, but for him and the individuals who have relations with him. And with that being said I know that there are many who do not believe in power of Jesus Christ as well as other means that help individuals overcome these spiritual  challenges.

 

 Being born with uncontrollable addiction has been a way of life for centuries for both men and women. But an Early Education into Christian doctrine, and good spiritual teaching has been a wonderful antidote to balance such a dysfunctional Behavior, knowledge is power. So for my pence this is a very serious situation and circumstance. So a key point to this equation would be to be equally yoked. And before we go any farther Look up the word yoke, it is only proper that we have the correct definition, I only say this because during my time of teaching many did not know what a yoke is. We are talking about the yoke that is use on animals, will explain later, on its on blog.

 

 

 

 Yours truly Mr Born1top. 

 God bless love and peace. 

 

Please excuse the errors. Will try and correct soon...

 

 


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Posted on Dec 26, 2017 at 05:59 PM

If you cheat you are not with the right person. You are afraid to be alone.

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Posted on Oct 01, 2017 at 01:33 PM

you right.....but what if man cheat not through sex

but just in order to feel a deeply connected friendship with certain woman??........because cheating is one doing not only by sex, but also when one has something very dear to his heart where he feels to be his real himself mutually with certain woman and it is hidden secretely from his wife

 

 


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Posted on Oct 01, 2017 at 08:15 AM

Quoting rmac22:

Hey pretty lady. 

 

Maybe that is why there are so many cheaters. 



 

Hi DIANA, 

 

Good to see you ..

 

RMAC ,

 

I remember a qoute in the Bible " GO and MULTIPLY " ..


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Posted on Sep 30, 2017 at 09:53 PM

If you put 10 women in front of a man he would like to sleep with all of them.

 

If you put 10 men in front of a woman, she will look and choose the best one among them and sleep with him.

 

And that has been the difference in our DNA and the secret of survival, purification, and refinements of our race, and characteristic to produce better thoroughbreds of all races across our planet for thousands of years. 

 

The more you pull on the rein of thoroughbreds, the more he wants to run...!! It's simply in his blood..!!

 


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Posted on Sep 28, 2017 at 06:09 PM

Quoting Diana3316:

Hmmm....yes Rmac.  Cheaters have more children than non-cheaters.  Perhaps it's in their DNA due to evolution.



Hey pretty lady. 

 

Maybe that is why there are so many cheaters. 


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Posted on Sep 28, 2017 at 07:54 AM

Hmmm....yes Rmac.  Cheaters have more children than non-cheaters.  Perhaps it's in their DNA due to evolution.


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Posted on Sep 21, 2017 at 02:12 PM

Men don't need to cheat, he need a few wifes to fallow his desires and fantasies...That's why Arabic men have a few wifes loving all of them! So they don't need to cheat!

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Posted on Sep 05, 2017 at 05:56 PM

Hey you, cheating is necessary for a man when a woman is not more attractive in her daily life; when a mother is just a mother and not his wife and woman before or at the same time oggi a mother. It's your nature and we're quite stupid or ingenuous sometimes. P.S. you look so good! Kisses from Italy

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Posted on Aug 20, 2017 at 06:25 AM

interesting responses posted on the topic of cheating be it the male or female in a relationship. If i may widen the perspective here by eliminating the gender standard in this topic by including unconventional relationships that are becoming more accepted in todays equal rights with same sex marriages being legalized and gender identification with transexualism both male and female we are still a race prone to cheating for all the reasons posted. yet i have not read where the cheater has been coerced to do so from a partner that is non supportive, perhaps abusive, or demeaning. is never happy with their partner who can never live up to some ideal that was probably there before any commitment was ever made. devorce is rampant in our society because its easier to end it then to stay in a relationship that is doomed why cant we be smart enough to know the first time a person treats you uncaringly by calling you names, lieing, or any form of abuse dont we end it then no need to cheat.

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Posted on Aug 18, 2017 at 05:28 PM

Low self-confidence and complex . Those who are physically not attractive


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