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Posted on Apr 03, 2007 at 06:23 PM

I have begun writing a book on why men cheat and the motivations behind their indescetions. For you men out there, feel free to post your comments or email me directly For you woman, tune in, because this blog is going to be very interesting. The first reason I would like to put out there for discussion is that Men have to cheat, to maintain their fragile sense of self esteem.

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Posted on Apr 13, 2019 at 04:45 PM

You mean indiscretions!

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Posted on Apr 13, 2019 at 03:29 PM

Great advertising

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Posted on Apr 13, 2019 at 05:24 AM

Its not that deep. You are a man that cheats or you are not a man that cheats. If a man cheats once they are open to cheating. Who cares why, just know if that happens once it will happen a 100 times. There is no reason only their excuse. Dump asap!

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Posted on Apr 12, 2019 at 05:44 PM

Men lies /women lies. Men cheats /women cheats. Why? Lots of reasons. They all have reasons. Lol

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Posted on Apr 12, 2019 at 05:26 PM

You mention amiture...you mean if i looked to have sex with men all day long....lol .i do have better things to do each day. i'm at the age where i know how to control myself. Ancestors they lived past the age of 90 years old.

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Posted on Apr 12, 2019 at 05:14 PM

My Son is younger than you five years. I don't want to be with the much older then my age. Cuz i still had too much energy in me. And too young lack of life experience in everyways. I got Grandsons no need for me to craddle the young things.

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Posted on Apr 12, 2019 at 04:46 PM

Anytime wasted on relationship that just won't works its a wasted of time. Times does slip by each second /minutes means lost of a good chance or good future you can have or to accomplish better in life.

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Posted on Apr 12, 2019 at 04:42 PM

I understood completly. What is the point of staying in marry to a man with no sex to a man you are /have the tittle as being his wife and he's a husband to you. So you rather let him use you? Living under your roof and taking care of him while he went outing having sex with numerous women? Hahaha....mine as well stay single and do your own things. Yeahhh....we human do need each other at some point. But if he or she uses you and abuse you in everyway is no good. Mentally, verbally , and physically if he's no longer want to touch you ....as you say sexless. Move on do your own and don't use kids as an excuses to stay together if it won't works then. It won't works now. Cuz he /she learnd and knew what button to push to play with your mind.

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Posted on Apr 12, 2019 at 04:06 PM

Don't get me wrong i do like men/people in general. But im in tittle to be as picky as i like or wanted too. Is call we all do have self respects. If a man or woman too is too easy pices of Ass is no good. In life there are lots of activities to be do and to see. It doesn't have to be base on sex first right off. Need to take some time to get to know each other first. Human do have mind,heart,body and soul.

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Posted on Apr 12, 2019 at 03:54 PM

Off course they worked very hard together. Now a day lets meet up for coffee...lol and for the men of how they see it. If they have to buy dinner or whater ...even just a drink they think they are intitle to have sex with you/women right away. That's full of BS. Lol them men they are not worth of my time to spend with. Cuz they only see you/women as to use them for sex on and on. Cheap ass men.

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Posted on Apr 12, 2019 at 03:48 PM

I made an expensive mistakes then. I married him and so i divoced him too. I encourage most if not all women wheather's young or older than me. Never settle for less. The real man/men will love you and will take good care of you as his true partner for life no matter what till the end if you and him are meant to be. No matter how far or how high the mountain is. Or how hard it is. My ancestor they were together from the first day they met til the day they were gone and were barried at the same place.

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Posted on Apr 12, 2019 at 03:33 PM

No problem Odessa87. My Son is not single right now. My son is handsome and so all of my Grandsonds too. I came from the great family/back ground. Parents had strick rules. Ancestors are hard workers ,the great inventors etcs. Thanks for your compliment. I know is very hard to have two children yourself. I was never depent on childsupport. I made it of my own all the ways. Plus took great care of my parents at old age and volunteers in/on every occasion , functions , fund rasings etcs to helps people out on every needs for people who are in needs of helps. I didn't get paid for my volunteer times. Done that ever since i can remember and able to speak at the age of single digit. And still doing so. You are still young and keep up with your ambition and hard works do pay off at the end. But just make sure you do keep your eyes on the fruit of your labors. Cuz there are some of the heartless, strangers , bad ass scammers would loves to take advantage of the single/divorce mother, women at anytime they see the chance to do so. They will use you for anything.

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Posted on Apr 12, 2019 at 11:26 AM

@eastern2015, thank you for taking the time to answer my oh so “serious” question.

I’m half Caucasian and Asian (Filipino) too. I’m sure your son is handsome; and he probably gets his looks from his adorable mother. Is he single? 😏😜

Our age difference has nothing to do with this topic; my dad is petty and immature for his age, and he’s pushing 70. Lol (Not implying you’re immature). My point, not everyone over 60 is wiser than me. Also, you don’t know my background; I guarantee I’ve experienced a lot of things you luckily haven’t had to go through.

I hope you enjoyed reading my profile. Was I everything you were hoping I would be?
Clearing something up; nowhere in my profile did I state I’m holding my breath for a man to come along and take care of me. Not that it’s everyones business, but I’m a divorcée, with 2 young kids – I work hard for everything we have. I don’t collect a child support check at the end of the month or ask their father for anything; I don’t need it. I enjoy my independence very much; but I like and miss commitment and sharing my day with someone I love. Just like you, I control my life, my decisions, and I definitely don’t let anyone take advantage of me.

Back to the topic at hand...Yes, divorce is hard and it’s not always an option. The men I’m referring to are those in sexless marriages, otherwise happily married. I already explained my thoughts on this; just read my comment again. Nothing B.S about a couple discussing their sex life or lack there of. You know what’s B.S? Women who think their husbands will stay faithful in a sexless marriage; it’s ignorance if you ask me.

Suppose a man does leave his wife because his sexual needs weren’t getting met; do you think he would be commended for this? Probably not, he would get so much hell and grief for his decision.

It’s obvious we disagree on this; and that’s fine – the world would be a boring place if we didn’t have our freedom of opinion.

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Posted on Apr 11, 2019 at 07:25 PM

Don’t speak for all men… As you seem very narcissistic and want to placate to the sensitive side of women that strap onto this website! Do yourself a favor and all of us a favor, and just shut up!

https://youtu.be/xIqYDl7EhRc

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Posted on Apr 11, 2019 at 03:37 PM

Why Men Cheat and Gentlemen Do not Cheat!

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Posted on Apr 11, 2019 at 12:43 PM

Therd are bunch of other good reasons why I'm on mm as well as when I'm not on mm site. I hope i answer to some of your serious questions. Oooo....my Son is mixed cacasion and im Asain. Again, im not in the racial descrimination things. What the indiviual does good or bad good lord up there knows. All i know is i practice good in my heart.

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Posted on Apr 11, 2019 at 12:32 PM

Lastly don't need to chase a man/men. And it isn't why im on mm site. There are some other good reason of why im on mm. Not on here to do any bad things to other hunan. Im on the good, Sincere side. Human on earth is suppose to like and love each other and be kind and help each other out when we can. Feel bless that we are still alive and breathing. Jealousy. Envy , arguement and fight is just a wasted of valuble time.

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Posted on Apr 11, 2019 at 12:21 PM

You mentioned divorce is very hard. Yes, it is. If things don't work out between the the couple. Why wasted anymore time on stayed together? Its a stage of denial. Why forces to make it works when it haven't works. Its a toxic relationship to stay in when you'd akready tried after try. Its not healthy for both parties. Especially not heathy for the kids to see/hear the Mom and the Dad fights and arguements over some BS. In everyway you look at it from outside in., not good. Now a day lots of resources to be help and get helps and move on.

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Posted on Apr 11, 2019 at 12:04 PM

Im a doer not just all talks. I don't like any man/men to give me orders cuz I'm my own "BOSS". My ancestor taught me well to made the living in the honest ways. Treated other poeple in the way you wanted them to be treate too

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