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Posted on Apr 03, 2007 at 06:23 PM

I have begun writing a book on why men cheat and the motivations behind their indescetions. For you men out there, feel free to post your comments or email me directly For you woman, tune in, because this blog is going to be very interesting. The first reason I would like to put out there for discussion is that Men have to cheat, to maintain their fragile sense of self esteem.

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Posted on Jan 13, 2019 at 07:26 PM

Lololol, Its a dating site my man! How about discussing the holocaust??? Is this some twisted way of making yourself seem honest and trustworthy? How about try another direction in lieu of tossing everyone under the bus! Lolol. Can anyone say... bad form?

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Posted on Jan 08, 2019 at 12:23 PM

I agree with most of it


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Posted on Jan 06, 2019 at 03:20 PM

Why do men cheat? Why do women cheat? Same basic  underlying reason for both sexes....... Something is missing. There is no one outside to blame. If you are in a relationship (married or not) and your partner is cheating, it is not the 3rd or outside person's fault. It has happened, or is happening, or will happen because needs are not being met. Plain and simple. Instead of looking to blame someone else, perhaps first one needs to look within themself or their relationship and see what is missing. Obviously, communication is a major item that will be missing. If more people would openly communicate about their intimate desires, there may be less deception and cheating, less bitter divorces, less marriages overall, or more open relationships. I personally am a very open-minded woman and am comfortable with my sexuality and in my own skin.  Too many people, men and women alike, do not realize the importance of intimacy and affection in a relationship. If your sex life is just "ok" or "good enough", DO NOT GET MARRIED!!! If you go into a marriage and the intimacy and affection have already left you craving more, it is not going to work. Why waste your time or the others. One will end up cheating and it will end in bitter divorce or you'll be in separate bedrooms but remain together for the kids or because you'll lose a fortune if you divorce her thus really, you end up unhappy. Your partner needs to excite, inspire, and make you feel good. They should respect, support, appreciate, and believe in you. If they don't, move along. It is our own choice to be happy or not, and everyday either side goes on making excuses or pointing fingers is just another day they are wasting. Time is valuable and you'll never get it back. If you're going to cheat, invite your partner to join or seek to find a solution. Cheers to all 


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Posted on Jan 04, 2019 at 03:16 PM

Quoting laguerita90:

I believe me cheat becouse their are too many women out there who flaunt at married men. It makes it hard for them to say no, when all they do at home is argue and bicker.


If a man cheats it is because he chooses to do so.  Yes there has to be a woman involved, but he like she has a choice.  Why he chooses to do so????  We can come up with a all kinds of reasons.  Still, usually no one is holding a gun to his head and making him do it. 

 

Why do women cheat?

 

 


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Posted on Dec 30, 2018 at 04:54 PM

Lol. My ex wife cheated on me during the engagement. She said she couldn’t marry me without telling me one month before the wedding. So women cheat just as much. As for men self esteem is not the best answer. Men cheat when their wives do not take care of their physical needs. Read the Bible and you will see that the woman’s body in marriage belongs to the man and vice versus. Neglect is a big part of the women’s liberation because women today do not know how to submit to their husbands. They want to be the husbands and that’s why many will remain single. Men want a wife not a roommate.

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Posted on Dec 30, 2018 at 09:29 AM

Let’s put it this way and sum this up with science by saying, there are only about 12 animals that stick to theory, “till death do us part.” HUMANS are not one of those animals. I would love to interview a penguin and see their take on the sitch.😂 With that being said, I think it is possible to be faithful to one person by choice. Logically, 98% of people in those situations have thought about what it would be like to be intimate or have a relationship with someone else.

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Posted on Dec 29, 2018 at 01:34 PM

People think sex fixes problems. It does not. People lack. Communication. When disagreements happen it's because both sides are hard headed and have to be right. It only makes matters worse. Then slowly that manafest inside and more things start to stir. It then exposed and then hate and rage become you. Then they loose feelings and some other person catches their eye. That personality or look or smile, it's who you used to be, but in someone else. That is why they go. If you just take down time and talk on both sides and LISTEN not just talk, then it doesn't happen. Relationship are give and take. Choose your battles. Remember that means some times just let it roll over your shoulder. If its a problem just talk about it. If its worth it, then make it work. If not, cut your losses and move on till you decide what it is in your life that you want.

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Posted on Dec 27, 2018 at 11:50 PM

I believe me cheat becouse their are too many women out there who flaunt at married men. It makes it hard for them to say no, when all they do at home is argue and bicker.

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Posted on Dec 27, 2018 at 02:51 PM

Because they were getting the same piece of meat time after time. It gets boring.


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Posted on Dec 27, 2018 at 04:24 AM

There are actually hundreds of excuses we can use as to why anyone cheats, but the truth of the matter is if we can't love and respect our creator as well as be true to him, how much more will we ever be true to one another.

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Posted on Dec 26, 2018 at 05:38 PM

I mean those men has not really encounter in relationship

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Posted on Dec 26, 2018 at 05:37 PM

Men can cheat when they are not contented in relationships. Men are need attentions and fragile heart their feeling usually those men has no relationship in their life

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Posted on Dec 22, 2018 at 08:52 PM

It was Tiger Woods fault. He made me do it!

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Posted on Dec 20, 2018 at 01:17 PM

I am sure not all men are cheaters.


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Posted on Oct 24, 2018 at 06:13 PM

this thread is 11 years old.


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Posted on Sep 09, 2018 at 06:05 PM

Have you ever cheated?

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Posted on Sep 08, 2018 at 01:11 PM

Because they believe they won't get caught and its easier than talking to their partner about what's missing from the relationship.

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Posted on Aug 30, 2018 at 05:00 PM

@Author

Yup, my point exactly. 

If blaming hormones (universal across genders at that) was an acceptable excuse at action,...

Well then women couldn't be blamed for going on a murder spree every month...

(JK, not actually advocating for mass murder of men)


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Posted on Aug 30, 2018 at 01:27 PM

@Author
yes you're right, i guess it works both ways and in the end, to make it short and sweet, there is no respect

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