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Posted on Apr 03, 2007 at 06:23 PM

I have begun writing a book on why men cheat and the motivations behind their indescetions. For you men out there, feel free to post your comments or email me directly For you woman, tune in, because this blog is going to be very interesting. The first reason I would like to put out there for discussion is that Men have to cheat, to maintain their fragile sense of self esteem.

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Posted on Aug 20, 2018 at 07:03 PM

They think with whats in the pants instead of the heart!!!

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Posted on Aug 20, 2018 at 06:52 PM

Cheating nowadays is easier than ever. Emotional affairs occur more often than ever. This often escalates to physical affairs. When this occurs than the relationship a person is in is weakened because emotional aspects given to another. Cheating also occurs when needs not met because the couples are not expressing boredom, changes in partnerships that decrease overall intimacy.. Excitement of unknown, new interactions creates brain changes , feel good chemical. Many reasons , many scenarios..Increased cultural acceptance, media exposure via tv shows.. etc etc

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Posted on Aug 18, 2018 at 12:14 PM

I think it’s more of a biological thing. Men’s biological job is to spread their seed to keep The race alive. They have to fight their biology every day to be monogamous. Society has placed conditions on our biology. We’re not allowed to just kill rape and pillage. Are natural animal instincts are changing because we are evolving into conscious beings . We have become civilized. We have to make conscious choices on how we want to show up in the world. I know a few people who have relationships that are not based in monogamy. However they are transparent and communication is open . I think everyone should have a choice on how they want to relate. If you don’t want to be monogamous, then don't! Don’t lie about it be open honest about your desires thoughts and feelings. Let your partner know where you’re at. I think a majority of the pain and being cheated on is the betrail. If you’re open and honest about who you are then it’s not cheating.

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Posted on Aug 15, 2018 at 07:54 PM

Well I think men cheat because they want to taste some other significant one.

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Posted on Aug 11, 2018 at 02:54 PM

Quoting author:

Do all men cheat?

Nope, all men do not cheat,  this is a post blog from 07.


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Posted on Aug 11, 2018 at 02:49 PM

 

My last say to this topic is both men and women cheats .

There are so many reasons why we do it ..We are not supposed to be looking for who is to be blame because " it takes 2 to Tango " ..2 people are involved in every relationship and both

have their own share for a succesful marriage and a bad marriage.

 


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Posted on Aug 11, 2018 at 02:37 PM

Quoting author:

Do all men cheat?


 

My answer is " NO " .. I know a lot of men who are true to 

their women ..


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Posted on Aug 11, 2018 at 09:05 AM

Mr Beachmonk is really putting the cat among the pigeons and getting lots of reaction. This is always going to be a controversal subject.

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Posted on Aug 11, 2018 at 09:01 AM

I think that if a man or a woman lack abundance in their relationship &/or life they will frequently look outside themselves to fill the gap when really they need to look inside to seek out the reason why.... and then decide what to do... and yes, if that means moving on, do so,... preferably without cheating... just be brave and move on. One could say a cheat is sort of a coward who can't face reality. Yeah! A continual cheat is actually a man or woman that is lacking in some emotion... perhaps emotionally immature. Ummm! Yeah... I think so... and I think many men and women will have cheated in some way or another but will never admit it.

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Posted on Aug 10, 2018 at 09:51 PM

Do all men cheat?

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Posted on Aug 10, 2018 at 09:21 PM

Cheating begins way before one individual slips into the sack with another; it begins when you're not willing to take that phone call, or pick up a few extra things for the other, or your no longer willing to motivate, inspire or intrigue. People have a tendency to relegate cheating to sex, and it is my perspective that it goes much deeper than that....

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Posted on Aug 06, 2018 at 04:27 AM

Honestly, if a man is not completely happy sexually and he’s not made to feel that he is “the king of his household’ he will continually subconsciously look to find his “kingdom”. By the way, unless a man is gay, it takes a man and a woman to cheat. Most times a woman knows that the man is in a relationship. In your writings blame the woman as much as the man!!!!

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Posted on Aug 05, 2018 at 11:03 PM

I think the man or woman that cheats are eternal infantile minds, because once you understand that you aren’t perfect, nobody is! Nobody will fill all your needs! The needs are yours and you have to handle with your needs! You have to be mature enough to be grateful and satisfied with your partner! And most of it: try to look all the good things always in your partner! Easy to conquer a different woman each day... Difficult it is to conquer the same woman for a life time. For those kind of men my infinity respect!

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Posted on Aug 05, 2018 at 10:36 PM

The Universe & Beach Monk,

Did you know men are not the only ones with testosterone. The woman’s body also produces testosterone. Little known fact.

Jay

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Posted on Aug 04, 2018 at 04:17 PM

If you want man stop cheating allow him to marry more than one.

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Posted on Aug 04, 2018 at 03:34 PM

That's... that's not how testosterone works.


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Posted on Jul 27, 2018 at 09:42 PM

Women and men cheat. It's one of the consequences of original sin
We have lost sexual integrity and everyone must fight this concubescence. Some more than others
People cheat to satisfy their egoes,, their selfishness , and their lack of sexual maturity. Social media such as TV , books and theatre have made sexual licence a good to persue. When is the lastvtoke you have read a story or seen a movie that makes it ok to fornicate before marriage, cheat on each other or engage in perverted and unatural acts. We are all to blame and to suggest that the majority of men cheat is absurd. Contraception has made it easy for women to cheat as well
Hurray for the sexual revolution! More secual diseases, infidelity , divorces, abortion, sexual deviancies and gender confusion. Good luck in writing a book that surpasses the wisdom of the Saints.

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Posted on Jul 26, 2018 at 11:12 AM

Over the years I frequently heard the phrase men are cheaters. That was born out of a survey taken in the late 1960’s.

Just a couple of years ago that same survey was given once again. The researchers actually located and resurveyed almost all the same women who participated in the first survey. The article released about the resurvey stated that the researchers we amazed that they located and resurveyed almost all the same women.

The resurvey showed that 56% of women married or in a committed relationship had affairs and regularly cheated on their partners. Only 44% of men married or in a committed relationship cheated. So the researchers questioned the woman as to why such a difference in the results. Those women said, that when they took the survey the first time it was the 1960’s and good girls don’t sleep around and society came down on those women. So the women admitted to lying in the first survey taken in the 60’s.

All these decades women have been demeaning men as cheaters and it was the women who have done most of the cheating.

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Posted on Jul 23, 2018 at 07:37 PM

I totally disagree. Maybe that is some men's excuse ,But what about women.

Why do you think they cheat.

This comment should have never been posted because ,I think you may be making an excuse for yourself.  who knows?



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