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Posted on Apr 03, 2007 at 06:23 PM

I have begun writing a book on why men cheat and the motivations behind their indescetions. For you men out there, feel free to post your comments or email me directly For you woman, tune in, because this blog is going to be very interesting. The first reason I would like to put out there for discussion is that Men have to cheat, to maintain their fragile sense of self esteem.

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Posted on Sep 09, 2018 at 06:05 PM

Have you ever cheated?

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Posted on Sep 08, 2018 at 01:11 PM

Because they believe they won't get caught and its easier than talking to their partner about what's missing from the relationship.

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Posted on Aug 30, 2018 at 05:00 PM

Yup, my point exactly. 

If blaming hormones (universal across genders at that) was an acceptable excuse at action,...

Well then women couldn't be blamed for going on a murder spree every month...

(JK, not actually advocating for mass murder of men)


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Posted on Aug 30, 2018 at 01:27 PM

yes you're right, i guess it works both ways and in the end, to make it short and sweet, there is no respect

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Posted on Aug 29, 2018 at 10:43 AM

... men with low self esteem need therapy and should never be married because they are immature and can not comprehend commitment

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Posted on Aug 28, 2018 at 10:25 PM

He spends a lot of time chatting on line to search rich ladies, meet them for his own benefit sexually and financially

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Posted on Aug 28, 2018 at 10:23 PM

He is telling lies and make use of ladies online to meet his needs

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Posted on Aug 28, 2018 at 10:20 PM

I have a friend who date and have sex with several ladies he chats on line at same time

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Posted on Aug 28, 2018 at 08:44 PM

Cheaters, whether they are men or women are cowards. Unable to express their thoughts or emotions in a mature manner with someone who they are so deeply connected to intimately. Everyone has their own reasons but I want a partner who has the courage to be honest and respectable to the person who they choose to spend their time on. - age, location or vocation has nothing to do with it. Being a good person comes naturally.
My heart goes out to anyone that’s experienced that kind of betrayal.

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Posted on Aug 28, 2018 at 05:43 PM

First chapter: Because you believe in finding the love ora man a virtual page?

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Posted on Aug 27, 2018 at 11:11 PM

Now that they are older... they don’t have a zipper they have a diaper. Where’s the 20 yr old. Off. Doing ..........What!!!!!!

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Posted on Aug 27, 2018 at 11:07 PM

Lol. That’s hilarious.

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Posted on Aug 27, 2018 at 11:04 PM

Nor interested in a cheater. Rather be alone.

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Posted on Aug 27, 2018 at 11:02 PM

Then why chose a man so low? Really. I’m looking for someone higher. 007

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Posted on Aug 27, 2018 at 07:50 PM

For me modt men cheat when they are not happy in their relationships

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Posted on Aug 27, 2018 at 07:50 PM

Real men don’t cheat. The ones who cheat are insecure little boys.

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Posted on Aug 26, 2018 at 11:54 AM

Quoting author:

I think it’s because clothing manufacturers put faulty zippers in their pants. Why do women cheat?


 

@ace1349 , 

 

How about a " CHASTITY BELT " for both which could only be

open at home ..Lol


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Posted on Aug 26, 2018 at 10:53 AM

I think it’s because clothing manufacturers put faulty zippers in their pants. Why do women cheat?

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Posted on Aug 26, 2018 at 02:04 AM

Most men probably cheat because they have been cheated at home.  The meaning behind this is, and as the saying goes, if you don't keep you man fed at home he will go out to eat.  When women lose their traditional roles of women hood and spend more time staring at their phones, or yacking with their girlfriends, instead of being fully engaged within your relationship, both men or women will go seek out others who will pay attention to them and fulfill their needs.  That is what a relationship is all about.   I have been single most of my life, but do recall many times when going out to eat and observing other married couples, and just watching them interact or lack there of.  Many just sit there and eat their meals and rarely even have a conversation.    WOW that hits home.  I refuse to be in that sort of relationship.   No way... 

 

Relationships are to be engaging with your best friend, and have many common interests together.  As they say, Those who play together stay together.  I would like real love, and everybody needs to dump the cell phone nonsense and start talking and opening up one on one, and building those deep bonds and appreciation for each other.  Being kind and helpful in a relationship goes a long way, and tell your GF / spouse how much you appreciate them for being there.  And when you walk through your house door, the home is the place where you keep out the rest of the clutter and junk of the world, It is to be the safe place and refuge and build a big moat around your relationship to keep out all those who wish to sabotage your happiness.   And always, shower your mate with plenty of adoring kisses, and it does not always need to lead to sex.  Go hold hands and laugh into the sunset together, and share many good times and build some great memories together.   Anybody who cheats fell out of love with their mate.  And should not even be in a relationship, as you are a dog if you do.    Remember karma...    


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