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Why Men Cheat !!!

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1 year ago
Very much agree, you watched Upstairs Downstairs to RG but now in the modern word the woman is the preditor, she works, wants new experiences and is very quick in in reeling in her man for a quick fling, times is a changing, just as many lady repd on the road as men, all looking for 'fun'
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During our interview process we are finding that many men admit they cheat because of a "hole which they are unable to fill".

There seems to be a bottomless pit of need where men are lacking and longing for attention and love.

Even though they are married, or in a serious relationship, they just can't seem to fill that hole.

Many of the guys we spoke with admit that they do not think they will ever get over this need problem.

What sayeth you readers?
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Lack of honest communication is the basis of why most men and women cheat, in my opinion.
There are many other issues that compound this, or peticular things they are unable or unwilling to be honest about, or to listen too.
This is the one boundary I have in my life, I won't tolerate cheaters

However, most of my friends are swingers and have some of the best relationships I have ever seen!
Some people would view this as "cheating" I don't.
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One of the best answers I have ever heard is simple...but...is so much more meaningful if the Questions proceeds it...
"Why do men cheat"...
......."Opportunity"....
Yet another thought along the same lines....perhaps for your book..or we could "co-author",which could be,to say the least,interesting to write and have appeal to both sexes when completed...
"Love for a man 'begins' in the bedroom"
"Love for a woman 'ends in the bedroom"
Ah, the differences between men and women....Exactly how many pages is your book going to be?
Ha..Ha..Ha...Good Luck on your writing adventure.
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1 year ago
She could always buy a puppy? ; )

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I honestly don't know why men cheat.... I was married to one though.

I do believe sex for a man isn't the same thing as sex for a woman.
The level of commitment for a man to want to have sex with someone (in general), can be zero. In fact, I don't even think men need to like the woman they have sex with.... it can be all physical? and nothing more.

Whereas...woman (in general) need to be attracted both physically and mentally. That takes a whole lot more effort?. (laughing)

There is a book titled SECRET LIES (LIVES) by Dr Pittman... Has anyone read it?
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1 year ago
Looking for the Mane Man , Angel LOL
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Zorrow...

I am a lioness... And I may hunt, but it's the lone lion,
that I'm after... : )
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1 year ago
Sorry Hoots.
Wow , what a sorry world we live in . Do you truly belive that, if you do it means that EVERYONE is out cheating tonite or tomorrow nite.
Boy im glad i mix with a different crowd
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1 year ago
Geez RM thats a very shallow remark, some people on here , i hope have a certain amount of scruples and morals. I have always tried to treat others as i want to be treated, but you do get hurt doing that.
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1 year ago
Angel, Sweetheart, its very much a two way thing, sexual attraction is the same for both sexes, the liberated woman is a better predator than man, i hate to admit, but think about the King of beasts, its the Lioness who goes hunting
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1 year ago
Many women feel that it's the woman's fault.....the women these men cheat with are more beautiful than the wives and so on.

I think of that character of the person... if a woman was beautiful on the outside, and knowingly cheats with a married man... she becomes ugly to me.... that is like violating trust... and without trust there can be no REAL intimacy. "Surface Love".... they will never know deep complete, trusting LOVE, or TRUE Love....and that is sad.
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Men cheat because....

Many women have no morals, or virtues..

& they prey upon weak minded,
irresponsible, unconscionable, men...
or vice versa,

Lowlifes are interchangeable
Lifespan Limited...
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1 year ago
From what i understand , most cheating men cheat with married women, who are of course cheating women. Which makes this subject null and void as its a Draw
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Hello to all,

I sat thru an interesting interview with a 40 year old divorced woman who said that she has grown so accustomed to men not being loyal that she has basically given up looking for a one-on-one relationship.

As she put it, "It's hard enough finding the right man, let alone one who will be monogamous".

What are your thoughts? What advice would you offer her?
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She is "cheating" unless she is sharing the information with her live in Partner, rare but possible.If she is maintaining intimate relationships with both it will be driving her crazy not giving away the new skills she has learnt.
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i recently interviewd a 40+ year old woman who asked if I considered her having sex with another woman, particularly a dear friend, as "cheating"..

What are your thoughts.... dear blog readers...

I thought she was...
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Well, I believe men cheat because woman are just too damn beautiful!

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Monk, This blog seems to have gone off course, and away from your subject matter. Following is a quote that states what your purpose is with this blog.

#176 Commented on 13-MAY-07

I am a member of a group therapy program and i cannot tell you how many times i have listened to woman tell the group a bout the shock and surprise of finding out that their husbands were cheating.

Many are caught completely off guard and cannot believe that it has happned to them.

They feel betrayed and often times are in complete states of denial...

My objective is to get people to understand that chating occurs frequently, that it should not be internalized and that th more...

I am a member of a group therapy program and i cannot tell you how many times i have listened to woman tell the group a bout the shock and surprise of finding out that their husbands were cheating.

Many are caught completely off guard and cannot believe that it has happned to them.

They feel betrayed and often times are in complete states of denial...

My objective is to get people to understand that chating occurs frequently, that it should not be internalized and that there are distinct reasons for their mates behavior...

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1 year ago
Maryanne says" I have read many of your posts; I find them thought provoking but limited to your view on how we should all live life."

Usually, I just either call people nuts....or I mostly give my Point of view...I do not say anything about how people should live their life.
~T~