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Why Men Cheat !!!

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its too bad i didnt save my reply. Otherwise i would continuously post it. Whats wrong with the truth millionaire match? THere was none of the four issues you kindly have up there of"what not to post". I didnt violate any of those terms. I will from now on save my replies on bloggers to see if you eliminate honesty.

And the men who do cheat have lack of morals, values and respect, cause if they possessed respect, Cheating wouldnt occur, it would only be a thought or a little bit of imagination, and ladies if a man cant imagine you being universal to him pleasing to him mentally and physically then sorry...you will eventually lose it.
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so very true
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Not only men cheat just as many women cheat these days. People cheat because they want to it feels good the old have your cake and eat it to. Men are stuck in long term marriages that no longer have sex or romance some of you will have lived this.Not saying it's a good thing just that I understand it
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1 year ago
Cheaters are selfish,self centered people; men and women. The reason they cheat will vary by case. However, not for one minute do I believe it has anything to do with whether you allow hand cuffs in the bedroom or listen to Bach while your climaxing. It doesn't necessarily have anything to do with what you think their partner is lacking. Cheating has nothing to do with their partner. If you are unhappy; leave. If you are not sexually satisfied; work on being open with your partner or leave. If you like the thrill of the chase; chase your tail out the door. There is no justification for cheating.
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How do you rate this. Imagine your fiance cheating on you when your at home shaving your head so you dont have to watch it all fall out from having breast Cancer chmeo treatments, you want to talk about a bad boy Ill give you all you need for a cheat book but hes got to come close to topping it all.
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Men cheat because they are pigs...plain and simple.....LOL

And exactly who are these pigs rolling around in the mud with?

That's right... It takes a real sow to make a boar roar !!!

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I wonder how the original poster is doing with his "book" ???
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this reply to the "40+ interviewee" is months late but the question haunts me. First, why mention her age? And did you ever ask her why she slept with this woman?
You condidered it cheating but you yourself were a cheater at the time. Did this not give you the excuse you needed to confess your own cheating with out guilt and continue on your quest. Did it ever occur to you that you may have set her up. Sometimes we need to step out of our skin and put ourselves in another to understand and feel what it is like to be that person. I think she was lost in love.
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Well,I do NOT feel that way at all.If you are a man who cheates and think you have something to prove,wrong assunption.A "real man" does not have to cheat.He has done his homework before.He is intelluctual enough to know the right questions to ask her before.
We ALL have "NEEDS",if a man or womens needs are NOT meant, then they go to find what they are looking for else where ! Simple
What can I do to fuill your needs? What is it you need from me ?
Men need 1)sexual fulfillment 2) recreational companionship 3) An attractive spouse 4) Domestic support 5)Admiration.
Women need;
1)Affection 2)Conversation 3)Honesty & openness 4) Financial support 5)family commitment.
If these ingredients in are not there for either cheating does fall into place.
His needs are not her needs !!!!
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Monk said recently he was leaving for Paris ~ for more research maybe ???
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1 year ago
Men cheat because they are insecure and they need to feel special and wanted. Most important of all, they love the chase.

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EASY:
Men and women who don't know basic :THE NEUROCHEMISTRY OF SEX probably will cheat forever...poor people.
Those who read it and will use this "magic secret" will be very happy and will never cheat in there lifetime.
Anyway I can send this info to those who will ask me.

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I think that both men and women cheat for the thrill and to explore what they are really looking for in a man or a women. This is only my opinion.

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1 year ago
Men cheat because they can. It's based on a multitude of reasons and I dont believe all of them are due to lack of sex. It's all about the " catch" and to some men " the chase is better than the catch".

How many famous attached men have cheated on their equally famous stunning wives? Too many. And how many times do we hear that their sex lives were thriving? Too many.

Men are hunters, they like to mount, to conquer and to win. If men are raised without being taught self control, they will revert to instinct. There is a specific thrill of being able to cheat and get away with it.

Cheating, gambling, subtance or any addiction is derrived from the same thing. The brain gets rushes of seratonin, causing temporary feelings of well being and satisfaction. ( note I say temporary ). Athletes, rock stars, extremists get rushes from adulation etc....it's the same thing.

This is where the practise of self control comes into play. If someone is married or committed then they should be prepared to give up the lifestyle of mulit partners because inevitably no one wins in the long run.

Dr. Kim over and out!
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I think cheating applies to both men and women evenly but unfortunately men get more blame for it because women can talk about it but men more fragile they just hide. There are so many reasons for cheating, lack of erotic love, intimacy, trust, communication, sexual desire, rejection and of course not getting enough attention.
I have certainly experienced some real evidence to prove that. Often woman get married to someone 15 to 20 years older for security only and not love, drive them to cheat later in the relationship due to lack of physical function and attraction. Also, getting married early in age often leads to cheating. After realizing that they are growing apart then start looking for someone else who will fulfill their needs.
If men/women so unhappy with their marriage why they just not leave insisted of cheating???
I don't think there's any good reason for that...
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Well...

Drew, most women would just kick ya to the curb, or take ya down the road, and let ya go...

bE A GOOD BOY,& mAYBE... They might keep ya ! ; D
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1 year ago
Next step for me....?

Castration by a rusty spoon?
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Drew..

Listen to Lion...
LUCKY, IS GOING TO BE THE GIRL THAT GETS HIM...
If that collar doesn't work on you...
You know what the next step is....
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1 year ago
Integrity is a hard thing to find these days in many people male or female. Our attention spans are shrinking and the only thought is to instant gratification.

If you must step out of a relationship to find happiness then maybe you should not have been in the relationship to start with.

Relationships are hard work and unless both people are giving 100% which includes communication then how can the relationship survive? If their needs are not being met then the root to the cause needs to be found. How can you find the root to the problem if you are running around on your partner? When talking with your spouse and working together on finding the root cause could not only save a relationship but make it stronger.

Just because the world around you is falling into corruption and decadence does not mean it is OK for you to fall as well. Karma is a wicked and painful thing sometimes. If you cheat you could die! To many STD's that can kill are out there. Not to mention if you do go back to your spouse and share the itch so to speak.

Just some thoughts,

LP
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1 year ago
Only if you're going to hold the leash... LOL
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keywest...

; D yOu ...

NEED A COLLAR...lol