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Why Men Cheat !!!

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Some men just lack the inability to maintain a committed relationship. Some men, lack sense of empathy, sense of boundaries, the value of monogamy, and simply unable to care about or appreciate consequences of their actions.
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Strange is never better. It's just different.
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I think it all depends on what values we have. Men or women cheats I think it’s different for everyone. We can cheat because sex doesn’t mean so much to us and we don’t feel guilt after doing it, that just doesn’t make you a good person. Some people cheat because they are stuck in relationship and it is just more difficult to get divorce than find a secret lover. Some men are more loyal than women it all depends on your agenda in life . If you are looking for healthy loving relationship you pretty much are not going to be a cheater. If you are looking for relationship that will give you some sort of comfort in life then you might go for someone else .
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1 year ago
Well man cheats because they’re horny all the time.woman cheats because you’re unhappy.
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1 year ago
good to know
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1 year ago
Cheating is never based on the content to harm. I think it’s more of an “I can” then I want to. If candy is waved in your face and your able to eat it. In the moment it’s very easy to fall in and take it.
Woman today cheat way more then men and the reason for this is she is not getting what she needs. If I woman is completely satisfied she Won’t go else where and this is a Fact. Men cheat cause “they can”.
But I truly believe that if a man is fully satisfied in all aspects and is a happy man. Chances are they won’t cheat cause they don’t have the need too.
But in the end if you feel the need to cheat, then you should be living a single life. Their their is no need to cheat. Plus let’s be honest does anyone really wanna be with a cheater. My answer NO! Lol
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Between the ages of 18 to 29, among married adults, WOMEN actually cheat more than men, according to The Institute for Family Studies.

After age 29, men cheat more.

Interestingly, over the last 30 years, women are cheating more. Just thought these facts should be included in a well-rounded discussion.
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1 year ago
My take is how does ones action has so much power over one that it pushed them to cheat? Cheating is like slapping your self expecting the other person to feel it. If you are not happy and with several conversations nothing changes isn’t the right thing for you to walk away as the relationship no longer serves you.
Narcissistic individuals wil day they make me do it but in essence that’s just your character flawed
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I am of the following opinion:

 

I personally believe that the reason men cheat is as simple as they choose to cheat! They have two choices: 1. to cheat. 2. Not to cheat. It is at their own discretion which path they opt to ‘choose’ at any given time. ‘Reasons’ for cheating are nothing more than ‘excuses’ for cheating! If people are unhappy in their relationship, they have the option to walk away from it, be outside of the relationship and enter into any other behaviour they seek. This would not be cheating. However, to stay in a relationship and continue to pursue another is as simple as ‘choosing’ to do so.

 This type of behaviour does not deserve an ‘excuse’, much like criminal acts that are committed. There is no ‘excuse’ to commit a criminal act, much like there is no ‘excuse’ to commit adultery. At most there are mitigating circumstances, but this does not justify the act, it merely demonstrates that the person had a choice but for one pending reason or another opted to go with the ‘wrong’ choice.

 

I have never been cheated on, nor have I ever cheated on any other, for the simple reason that I choose not to. If I am unhappy with an element of a relationship I opt to walk away, as opposed to stay committed and choose to cheat.

 Cheating shows a lack of morals and principles. It is a degrading character flaw. Men have no more needs than women do! Yet justification and reasoning is sought for their behaviour by way of an excuse of how a woman made them feel. ‘She drove me to it’ is by far the worst excuse I’ve ever heard. Men need to be ‘man enough’ to accept that they cheat because they choose to! The only exception is being under duress!

 

Those are my thoughts, feel free to disagree or agree ;-)

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1 year ago
The men’s cheat because it’s attractive to a beauty and body.... then come the rest... but if the woman’s doesn’t give the men’s what he wants.... he will go.....and find what the fantasy allows men to looking for... good luck. It will be very interesting book. Do not stop 🛑 make it happen for the woman’s. 🙏🏼
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Well, we all have our opinions and it's only an opinion. So, here is my opinion. I currently have been with a woman who is an escort. She tells me she loves me. Every day she tells me those words. Then, those words do mean a lot. But again, they are just words of love. She and I haven't had sex for over 6 months. Every time I make an advance, there is always something that is not right to let us enjoy each other. Yet, she always have me feeling as though she really does love me. As of yet, I haven't cheated on her even though I have seen other men with her knowing what she is doing. Yes, it kills me and really hurts inside but I still love her. Now, she has moved back home with her mother and brother and his girlfriend. We hardly talk anymore. Yet, I'm still faithful. Now, here is the kicker. Yes I have thought of cheating on her. Why? I miss the intimacy, the touch, the kissing, the feeling of being special to this woman, the caressing and hugging. When she was living with me, we cuddled every night and held hands along with intertwining our feet. The smell of her, the touch of her ass up next to my stomach, gave me the feeling of love. There is nothing better than having your woman lay as close to you as possible where you smell her hair, her skin her warmth and most of all, her heart beat. Even though I love this woman, she and I will not have a life together, for her heart is not at the same intimacy and affection and sincerity as mine. I know this to be true. Yet I have been faithful to her. Will I cheat on her? The answer is no but when I do see another woman, our relationship will be the same, friends. The new woman will most likely have my full devotion if it isn't a one night stand. See, men require certain things from a mate. A man can be faithful to the end because he has the choice. But he will cheat because he chooses to. This will give him what he desires so much from his woman that he is not receiving. A man needs the touch and love of his
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Hm! 💏 someone else new is seen 💪 to some degree.
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I have an older friend. He is in a sexless marriage and cheats. Not often and with one co worker. He says he loves his wife and is very careful not to hurt her. I wonder if it is him who is only in the wrong ? If you are denied passion, intimacy, feeling wanted isn’t it normal to seek it somewhere else. I’m not saying it’s right. I just think I cannot judge. Every situation is different
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Here.I have never cheated my boyfriend. Not everybody is the same. I am not a cheater at all. Every relation is different. By my experience not men cheating but ,they are mommy boy, tbey are child at their minds; lazy , losers, a lot of reasons
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1 year ago Total posts: 2
completed agree. There are men with not brain and with no heart that enjoy made someone suffer and like cheat because some of them no know what they really want and do not give the value to the woman beside him
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Lololol, Its a dating site my man! How about discussing the holocaust??? Is this some twisted way of making yourself seem honest and trustworthy? How about try another direction in lieu of tossing everyone under the bus! Lolol. Can anyone say... bad form?
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1 year ago

I agree with most of it

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Why do men cheat? Why do women cheat? Same basic  underlying reason for both sexes....... Something is missing. There is no one outside to blame. If you are in a relationship (married or not) and your partner is cheating, it is not the 3rd or outside person's fault. It has happened, or is happening, or will happen because needs are not being met. Plain and simple. Instead of looking to blame someone else, perhaps first one needs to look within themself or their relationship and see what is missing. Obviously, communication is a major item that will be missing. If more people would openly communicate about their intimate desires, there may be less deception and cheating, less bitter divorces, less marriages overall, or more open relationships. I personally am a very open-minded woman and am comfortable with my sexuality and in my own skin.  Too many people, men and women alike, do not realize the importance of intimacy and affection in a relationship. If your sex life is just "ok" or "good enough", DO NOT GET MARRIED!!! If you go into a marriage and the intimacy and affection have already left you craving more, it is not going to work. Why waste your time or the others. One will end up cheating and it will end in bitter divorce or you'll be in separate bedrooms but remain together for the kids or because you'll lose a fortune if you divorce her thus really, you end up unhappy. Your partner needs to excite, inspire, and make you feel good. They should respect, support, appreciate, and believe in you. If they don't, move along. It is our own choice to be happy or not, and everyday either side goes on making excuses or pointing fingers is just another day they are wasting. Time is valuable and you'll never get it back. If you're going to cheat, invite your partner to join or seek to find a solution. Cheers to all 

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I believe me cheat becouse their are too many women out there who flaunt at married men. It makes it hard for them to say no, when all they do at home is argue and bicker.
If a man cheats it is because he chooses to do so.  Yes there has to be a woman involved, but he like she has a choice.  Why he chooses to do so????  We can come up with a all kinds of reasons.  Still, usually no one is holding a gun to his head and making him do it. 

 

Why do women cheat?

 

 

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Lol. My ex wife cheated on me during the engagement. She said she couldn’t marry me without telling me one month before the wedding. So women cheat just as much. As for men self esteem is not the best answer. Men cheat when their wives do not take care of their physical needs. Read the Bible and you will see that the woman’s body in marriage belongs to the man and vice versus. Neglect is a big part of the women’s liberation because women today do not know how to submit to their husbands. They want to be the husbands and that’s why many will remain single. Men want a wife not a roommate.