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Why Men Cheat !!!

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Don't chase the men ladies. Let the men chase you cuz you all are worth the chase....lol
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Men lies, women lies
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DaleDeering....hahahha....there you go that's the real answer to the true cheated men. Thanks for clairify the truth for the cheated men/women too
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AmoreMio2019, you are a beatiful woman stop blaiming yourself for your past. Love yourself more and let go of your past. A man that you said he's nice and etc...good in everything. Seems like if he's too busy for you there's no need to hang on to that relationship no more. You did let him go. So is good. Lots of fish in the ocean and don't settle for less.
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Lol men think they are horny all the time and that wonen are unhappy. Not true, some of the men cheated because their having an ED problem and so to put the blaims on women.
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Men said, women likes to use men.....lol so it seems men uses women too.
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How would any of you men feels if/when the women cheated on you in every posdible ways? Don't tell me none of you men won't feel like you got stabs in your chest. Hey , when it boil down to it either men /women weren't made from stones or steals ok
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To all of the men. If you like to more than one flavors/ women then ypu shluld stay single til you are ready to be in a petminent commitment.
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PeterJoseph, men got two heads. The bottom head and the upper head. Only if men use the upper head do the good thinking everything would be ok/without the thought of wanted to cheat. Why cheat when you got a good woman in your life.
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, that that control isn't there it doesn't mean that it is going to turn out bad what is a flag for a woman to look at in wonder about and talk about with their partner before a serious commitment.
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The wife's fabulous family all the friends but he's going to lose without serious conversation when a boy is growing up about learning discipline in relationship too serious Temptations and when the boys old enough to handle a sex conversation he now can incorporate all that he's learned in regards to the many conversations about discipline and fighting those urges now Mom and Dad tell him about the worst one of all when you're married and that's the sex hormone the men seem to have it worse than women or maybe it's just the lack of discipline it makes me think the male hormone is more in control then a man's discipline is that neon light that stop sign in the school district it has to be there so that when it snows the words are covered on the road the child still has signs that help in control his desires. Urges desires stimulations just like a cigarette you can change what you looking at and it will go away the stimulation will go away. Yeah you go to work tomorrow on the same girl is there you got to go home and tell your wife and the wife has to understand but he's talking about Temptation that's out there in the world and that he's observing it and that he's feeling it and that he's come home to tell her they must work on it and if she gets mad at him or jealous or anything like that it might not be the proper response it all depends on the partner some are weak and follow the wife and don't dare do anything and I have a happy life and some are stronger I need a strong wife to help guide them through these continual storms that will be there most of their life. So mothers and daughters and fathers should have conversations with their daughters about all the signs men display that are direct reflections of whether they really have good control or they don't. Not going to church or not going to therapy we're not talking about it or crafts conversation and foolish jokes 10 comments getting caught looking by your woman or your partner are all signs but that contro
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None of that happens so the child grows up with knowing what that means but no practice and no discipline it's like if it's no doubt and it covered the road the child wouldn't even see the words. And do you know what the snow is the snow is the hormonal Drive not to listen come a little bit of whatever you got when he was growing up and as far as discipline goes that was very little. The snow represents the sexual hormone what is produced by the brain and it keeps pushing it out and because there's no neon light on a sign in the school district that can be seen even if it's snowing or it's raining or it's dark or it's very bright and hard to see all that discipline and all that conversation does that child hat Through The Years Time After Time built a very large block of space in the child's brain and the child knows discipline when it comes to battling the sexual libido Drive that is nothing but a hormone it has nothing to do with respect it has nothing to do with love it has to do only what's a hormone in the discipline that is either there from being educated or it isn't there or at least it's not their strong enough and the snow covers over the will to resist and Men destroy their lives all because of a hormone and a lack of discipline all due to education. We Americans are so christianized at least before the 80s that we don't talk about sex to the kids are teenagers by then they've been so influenced by hormonal changes movies commercials magazines Billboards on the road conversations but they here that are lewd obnoxious lack of concern by the people that young ears are around the way kids dress the way they see adults dress and any other influence the you can think of that negates the need to resist releasing sexual hormones that soothe the nervous system related 2 the libido Drive and the ability to resist the temptation. Has nothing to do with the number of kids you have how beautiful you are everything you might do for him the wonderful job he has the fab
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Ladies there is no Gene that causes men to cheat it's a hormone that affects commands decision making. Imagine your driving in the car with Mom and Dad and you see a sign that says school zone then Dad doesn't slow down because it's Friday after classes or it is the weekend. So you grow up with the understanding but maybe you only have to stop when the kids are around or slow down at least because the kids are around or it's within the hours of school or the crosswalk person is there forcing you behave. That is a perfect example of a child who grows up never being taught by someone to obey the laws because that someone obeyed them. That someone needed to put into practice for the child the situation where they would talk about it consistently constantly through the years so the child develops not only a visual understanding but an emotional one. And Through the Years many types of conversations or had with the father for the mother about understanding consequences of breaking the rules. This child develops the spot in their brain that is like a stoplight or a lit stop sign. Now let's look at a different example that same child sees the white letters on the black car or concrete of the road and as they're approaching they see the first word is maybe slow down School District then just before the school there could be the word 20 miles an hour painted on the roof and after you might see the words end school zone. But that child goes through life just seeing those words and later in life when they can read and negotiate in their head the meaning they develop a understanding but because they never had to practice it by the time they become of driving age they've had no discipline from conversations having to slow down because the kids crossing the walk watching someone in front of them put their brakes on to slow down to 20 miles an hour the conversation in the car with a parent or an older sibling who says just seeing these words on the road is not enough. So none of t
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That such an excuse men use to take advantage of what ever situation always stating their low self esteem! They go spreading their offsprings around, Women also go through their rough tines and most don't go around. It's of for men who are involved in a relationship or married to cheat but it's not ok for the women! She might be able to find the right person so why not??
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What I don't understand when a man had a good wife cheats on her and then when she services him the divorce papers now he's going crazy doesn't agree to it and refuse to lose her!! I know that makes him scare and I also acknowledge that he took hey for granted but why all this drama and he can't let go?
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Cheating seems to me to be the ultimate form of disrespect to ones partner.  Can't think of  much that would be more disrespectful.        

 

Last time I said this I got arguments that there were things that were more disrespectful. 

 

Things such as belittling their spouse in front of their friends.  Making fun of them in front of their friends.  Those things are not nice, of course, and a constant diet of it either would break the victim or would lead to breakup or divorce.  

 

I agree that those are disrespectful.  Still on a one time to one time comparison I don't think they are as disrespectful.  

 

 

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They are afraid of commitment
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I would really like to see more discussion about different what if’s ex: Man who would never cheat runs into someone they crushed on ... given the opportunity to cheat.
What’s the thought process that man experiences from one point to the next?
What influences his decision making skills? Is there such a thing as a 100% guarantee “no cheat gene” that any human wouldn’t have a weakness for or something else medical?
Do you think nature vs. nurture has an impact on them & how so?
What’s the woman’s thought process of having sex with someone already involved?
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Funny, my ex asked me this aftee he cheated on me. I dont think they even know. If you can find out, ill purchase a book. 😍
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Not to say you cant find women fitting the same profile....but the blog is about dissecting the male mind. Lol....love to hear more....