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Why Men Cheat !!!

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I've been sjngle over two decades and im glad im not living under nobody's rules. Thanks myself and good lord up there and good lord below.
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1 year ago
Divorce is not easy, it’s complicated, a long process and it’s painful for everyone. Sometimes divorce is not an option. Unfaithful men still love their spouses; before you say that’s not possible, think of all the times you hurt someone you loved. Last but not least, men stay for their children; they don’t want the relationship to suffer. When 85% of the marriage is great, but the remaining 15% (sex) is not, do you give up your family, disrupt your children’s lives, so you can have your physical needs met? Or do you choose to keep your family together and quietly get your physical needs met on the side? 15% makes up a very small portion of the marriage; most men don’t want to sacrifice their family for it; this is also why men who are caught choose the wife over their mistress.

If you’re married and ignore your husbands sexual needs, don’t be surprised when he strays, even if everything else is wonderful. Remember, men need to be loved physically.
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1 year ago
My thoughts aren’t going to be well received by the women (and maybe some men), I’ll probably get a deluge of backlash; but whatever.

Firstly, serial cheaters are assholes and kind of gross; right? Someone who goes out into the world to continuously cheat on their spouse with multiple women is a jerk. I think we understand why these men cheat, nothing complex about it; they just want to “get it in”, because they can. These are the ones with a sex life at home, but it’s not enough for them, they are addicted to MORE. They have zero control of their urges and are too weak to resist temptation.

Now let’s discuss the “good guys”; you know, the men who are devoted to their families, adore their spouses, support, provide, sacrifice, the ones who have and do it all....

What about them? On the outside they have everything, and the perfect relationship, except their marriages are lacking sexual intimacy. The wives don’t want to have sex, they push their husbands away, and block all attempts at physical fun and affection. They give their wives a wonderful life, and all they get in return is a cold response to their desires. These men typically don’t go out and cheat – right away that is. No, they wait, they give it time, they blame themselves, often making excuses for their wife’s lack of sexual intimacy. They have an open dialogue about the issue, they suggest marriage counseling or anything else they feel might help the situation. Resentment builds, he’s hurt, he turns to porn, he’s unhappy and after a year of no sex he considers an affair – not multiple sex partners, just one girl who can fill the void. At some point they accept their wife for what she’s not, and for what she is; she’s a sweetheart, a doting mother and wife, the glue of the family, she’s his best friend who happens to have a low a sex drive. When you choose to withhold affection and sex from your husband; an affair happens!! What are these guys to do; live a sexless life until they drop dead?
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Im in love with flowers ( nature) they don't give me any hard time but made me smile all day long
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Some men and women too like to take control of each other. No need to do that either. Just live life and be happy.
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I might have mispell some of the words lol even phone went nutsy....hahaha...!
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Well said, Maryclaire2000. But under any cercumstances there's no need to cheat at all.
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1 year ago
Men & women decide have an cheat.. just like they can decide not too.. If there was any once of temptation before the relationship started they never should of got involved with someone in the first place. Now is there literally bat shit crazy then they fell they are Entitled to do such a thing. And you should learn the common characteristics of personality disorders (narcissistic personality disorder).. BTW they’re the same Characteristics characteristics for both genders. It will save you a lot of time, money, and heartache.
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Some men cheat because the woman they’re with uses sex to try and control them. Conditional love is not love.
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Human are imperfect. Men lies and women lies.
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1 year ago
Quoting latasha3167:

Men cheat because they can...simple as that..as long as women keep accepting role “side chick” men will cheat
 

It always takes 2 to Tango . Blaming 1 side is not correct .

 

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You are a narcissric sociopath and need to be councelled. Wow
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Men cheat because they can...simple as that..as long as women keep accepting role “side chick” men will cheat
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There you go rmac22. No one made him to cheats. Men cheats because he let his bottom head do the thinking for him.
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Well said, Cuptid007.....hahaha....!!!
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If he cheated onece , he'll cheat again. No trust. No commitment. No relationship.
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To the person who said, allow a man to marry more than one so he'll stop chaeting....lmao....you are full of BS. Is not right and not fair for the women. What make you think you are the only man on this earth?...ooooo...weehhhhh....hahaha.....too funny......lol
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Afraid of commitment doesn't give the excuses to cheated on your partner.
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You are so right on that SagYesLove.