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Why Men Cheat !!!

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And also keep in mind cheating is not just sexual. You can have apple Sonic relationship and especially when you're younger high school or early twenties and if people have decided not to have sex for various reasons like I did until I was a little older someone can still cheat on you and it still hurts even if your platonic so it shouldn't be suggested it's all sexual. I was cheated on when I was in a 6-month relationship when I was younger twice and someone has the nerve to suggest because I wasn't having sex with a guy in both instances they actually have nothing to do with sex. In hindsight I realized they didn't know how to break it off with me and get out of the relationship I just went on to the next woman I would have been perfectly fine with them saying I'm Just Not That Into You Anymore. By the way that's a great book if no one has read it don't read the Venus and Mars One women have to realize and men have to realize when they're not attracted to someone anymore and that's why I highly suggest you don't live together too soon and don't have sex too soon for the most part of my life if you wait a little longer before you actually in an intimate relationship there's a whole lot less cheating cuz people know what they really want. But of course it also has to do with family upbringing and what's acceptable and codependency and just Integrity of the individual and all of that is before you even in a relationship. That's why on a dating site you don't look at hobbies and interests for commonality you look at your morality and integrity and outlook on life for a partner.
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1 year ago Total posts: 72
that's a really good response
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As long as you're not being Prejudice and think only men cheat there are people that are prone to cheating before they get out of a relationship and some that would never do that and get out of relationship I don't think it has anything to do with men and women alright or any gender. And it's also from the person they're with. The expectations of what's in a relationship also lends itself to that. So putting that up there with three exclamations after it I don't know?
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1 year ago
I think they also cheat because no one is truly meant to be monogamous. You can have someone for life but it doesn't mean they will never be interested in anyone else no matter how much they love you. Love is so infinite there is always more than enough. Some women and men have just become possessive over others and don't realize that connections with others is needed for spiritual development. Of course no one wants to be cheated on but we also can't control the actions of others and i think that's where the true problem lies.
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Why don't you start with why you cheated (if you did) so we know where you are coming from.

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I wouldn’t care if my wealthy husband is cheating as long as he’s not into drugs or forcing me to do non vanilla sexual things.
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1 year ago
Why do hogs roll in mud? A better question is : DOES ANYONE CARE ABOUT THOSE HOGS ?
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1 year ago Total posts: 12

 

Please do not talk a cheating man as same as a woman who wants a piece of cake at midnight or simply as " an open relationship"

If a raising penis doesn't have a conscience, don't try to convince me the limp one does .

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Could be interesting , a real honest truth about men ... stroke that EGO !!
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1 year ago
Why cheating men ....and women are irrelevent to those of us who have evolved beyond high School drama, petty filled , infintile, child's play- Because we have established a level of self awardees which does not require any form of validation from people who are still attempting to grow up🙂
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Nice

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Lack of true personal integrity. Oh, there can be lots of contributing factors but it boils down to integrity. A relationship ends up being a compromise to the least common denominator of what both sides find acceptable. If either side cannot abide by that and/or things change...then it is better to end a relationship than to cheat and destroy it from within. But life is messy and integrity is not valued as it should be by too many people.
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Holy wtf I’m laughing my ass off literally.....wow! Wait men have to cheat to “maintain” their self worth... or I’m sorry fragile sense of self esteem. Sweet heart your cute but your good looks are not gonna get you by on this.
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I see more responses from women than men? As an honest man, i was married 17 years, when my wife gained weight she became insecure, regardless of what i did or said she would constantly hide herself and tell me not to look at her. She also got breast implants, even though i asked her not too, i prefer small breast, but she did it anyway. It was a botched job that left scars, big scars. Every time i wanted to have sex she would decline, didnt want me looking at her, after being shot down enough i quit trying, when she would want sex, i would so no. This was 7 years in to the marriage, i did end up cheating at 10 years with another married person whos husband was cheating with his ex wife. In the last 7 years of marriage i cheated with 3 ladies, 2 being one time things and the 3rd, we enjoyed each other a few times with great sex, and thats all it was, great sex, no relationship.
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It is summed up quite simply by an ex friend of mine.

He married his woman because she was the best he could get at the time.

 

Yep until he cheated with my wife.

 

Of course he could. He was better off than me and showed her some high life.

It didn't last forever and he ran back to his wife having destroyed my marriage.

But once she had a taste of this high life she cheated multiple times afterwards until I found out.

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Italian men cheat.. they are known for having mistresses they don’t want to have sex with there wife’s..
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1 year ago
cheating is never about the other individual. We all get to choose who we want to be in this life whether it's cheater liar Thief scumbag or otherwise. Your choice your decision but you are not free of the consequences of your choices. ... And your partner can also choose to walk away from horse manure. Cheers.
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I raised six children. I was pitted as the bad parent. The last seven years he stopped confiding in me, I lost my best friend and lover. No explanation, just bed and snores.
We paid so much attention in our kids. We had no room for each other.
He’s turned my adult kids away as I am the crazy one.
I want love, I want intimacy, sex somehow is brought up. But if there’s no chemistry
Adios.
Seven years YEARS later, super high blood pressure and shots to control it. But a man who doesn’t share, makes me the bad guy, he’s poisoned my kids. I had a knee replacement and no one came to help me, not one child.
I need to move forward now. Don’t bring me down.
I can’t even walk to the bathroom...
Eggs and toast yummy not. No shopping.
I could have cheated multiple times but I was married and I did not want to be the topic of every situation,,
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1 year ago
You’re closer tgan you think. Men cheat because women don’t understand them, or care to. When men / people aren’t validated, they seek validation. It’s the number one need in any relationship whether its friends or marriage. Man or woman. It’s more than sex. It’s being respected. Once that is lost, so too is the relationship.
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1 year ago
I for one am getting kind of sick of seeing posts and articles which talk about how to"keep a man" or how "keep a man loyal" how to keep another woman"stealing your man" how to "train a man to be loyal"

This is all Ludacris. First of all, I for one do not want to keep the trash. If someone wants to take my trash for free I will gladly give them a tip. Anyone who would allow a another individual or any outside force to drag them away from a good thing is not worth keeping.