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Posted on Dec 16, 2017 at 02:28 PM

This blog is about me and about another women in all over the world! I live in Romania i wass born in small village i have a modest family ! When i have 18 years old i study in Bucharest the journalism i have 2 job to pay my rent and my school! But economic crisis come and i lose one if my job, one friend help me to go in Germany! I work 4 years there i meet a guy and i meeried with him my bad, he cheat me beat me and left me with 2 kids Now i am single and scared ...i am afraid to love again😔 Why some pople have a human body but a monster soul? Why today the family , the true family is a beautiful fairy tale?? Why amost all use people and love things? why not vice versa??

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Posted on Nov 07, 2018 at 03:56 PM

My heart cries because there is so many inhuman human beings out there who leave kind hearted people scarred & scared to love and trust.
Love is a beautiful thing and should not be feared.
I would suggest trying self healing, then when you are ready, you will welcome love again.
ChiffionLove, you are a beautiful women 😚

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Posted on Nov 07, 2018 at 06:37 AM

Thank you!


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Posted on Nov 06, 2018 at 11:24 AM

Here's a secret, seek a human being who values what you are more than how you look. You are more than just a physical appearance, and those people who cannot understand this you must let go of. Because those people don't deserve to be called human beings.

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Posted on Oct 29, 2018 at 02:22 AM

You have said a lot , but after reading it all i think you had more to say

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Posted on Oct 28, 2018 at 12:38 PM

thank you

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Posted on Oct 28, 2018 at 12:33 PM

you have right. Now i am single with my kids, is hard but i feel is more better alone!

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Posted on Aug 14, 2018 at 08:58 PM

Im cancer as well. Notice alot on this site. R we all damed to be good people that gets the bad end of the stick.

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Posted on Aug 14, 2018 at 08:56 PM

Im sorry you went through that issue. Love doesn't hurt you. It lifts you and makes you soar through life . Sometimes were r born in tough situation. I wish you love and happiness.

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Posted on Aug 07, 2018 at 10:41 AM

Thanks The Universe for the spelling lesson. I just can’t type in these tiny text boxes and can’t use all my fingers on these small smart phone screen keyboards.

I have been around people who believe your way to get rid of a problem is ok. And nothing you say is lost on me. I continue to learn.

I’ll hope for peace and understanding in your life. I wish you success in finding that spouse who will fill your life with happiness and balance.

Stay Safe, Be Happy - Jay

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Posted on Aug 06, 2018 at 04:15 PM

It's Krav Maga. I've mastered it, much like the nuances of global political systems.

 

It appears thought the purpose of the meat grinder is lost on you. To put it simply: no body, no problem.

 

- Sincerely, the lady who is definitely not typing this from the inside of a cell. ;) 

 

 


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Posted on Aug 05, 2018 at 10:29 PM

The Universe,

In the US we have a Constitution that governs our government leaders. In socialist countries the government believes they know best. Unfortunately those leaders are actually passing those gun control laws to remove weapons from the their citizens so the population can’t fight back against an over controlling government. This just happens to be the same hidden reason some US political parties are trying to do the same thing here in the US. Enough talk about something that right here and now Adelina can’t do anything about.

If Adelina can afford it all around the world Romania as well there are self defense centers. Start now and soon Adelina could develop skills that would be legal to use to protect herself and children. The top most effective system I know of is Israel’s Krat Magra (this spelling could be wrong). Not a standard martial art like Karate. Must be a direct no nonsense get the job done fighting self defense in a safe center with instructors who have integrity.

No meat grinders. That will place her in prison for life and God forbid the children ever have to go into orphanages in an old Soviet block country.

Thanks for this discussion. Adelina needs to read about all this.

Stay Safe, Be Happy - Jay

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Posted on Aug 05, 2018 at 11:13 AM

I see your point. Yet those laws don't stop anyone from bashing their abusers skull in with a frying pan and putting its body through the meat grinder. My original post was more "law abiding" according to Florida law, and I was trying to be less victim-blamy and more encouraging. Being born and raised in Russia, I am more than aware about society's expectation of tolerance for abuse, and the laws that protect abusers. I jut want women to stop believing they are weaker than men, because we aren't. 


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Posted on Aug 04, 2018 at 11:00 PM

To The Universe

Romania is a socialist governed country that has strong gun control laws. Private citizens are not allowed to carry weapons it’s illegal. It is those same kind of laws a lot of people here in the US want to pass. The result of those laws like Romania and other European countries have leaves honest citizens like Adelina at risk.

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Posted on Aug 04, 2018 at 04:22 PM

I am glad you made it out alive, lady. I highly recommend you get a concealed weapon, so the next vermin who raises its hand at you gets pumped full of lead. (And the current one if he is stupid enough to come back)


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Posted on Jul 28, 2018 at 01:52 PM

Hello Adelina, Sad too hear about your relationship but know this in life, with the Great and the awesome during her dream comes and not-so-good lined with struggles tears and even heartbreaks just to name a few on our way towards reaching success to the top of the mountain ... Whatever that may be for you. It is when we go through the dips and the valleys that when we finally reach our destination that we are better able to appreciate the views views from the peak. Enjoy life no matter where your at as our time here so short. Hugs with love Deb

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Posted on Jul 28, 2018 at 01:48 PM

I did not click like on your post because I did not like what I heard. This should not have happened but in this world of deception it occurs frequently. Adelina I urge you not to rush into finding another man. I feel your pain. I see your need. Wanting to provide a family safe environment for your children. A partner in life for you. Those evening stoles in the park as a family. But, your children also can not take another man like the one you had. I urge you to take your time in this selection. I believe Romanian woman are strong woman like German woman. (I was born an American Citizen in Germany (still am a German citizen).) Use that strength. Trust but verify. A feeling in your gut is telling you that your senses are seeing something not right in a man you may have feelings for. If you can not verify do not continue with building a relationshipNever do it for the sack of your children. I have heard of woman marrying for the sack of their children and then she just takes the brunt of it just to have a roof over her children's heads and food on the table. You are strong. Build a large web of friends. Join a Church and be active in that Church. For now you may have to be mother and father to your little ones. Better than getting a man that will beat you and this time your children on a rushed bad decision. 

 

Have you ever misplaced something. You looked for it every where day after day. Then a few days, a few weeks, a few months later after you stopped frantically looking for it there it is. Adelina stop the frantic search, focus on raising good children, focus on helping others (through Church or a charity), focus on making Adelina a stronger independent woman with a good character, a woman other woman seek out for guidance. When you least expect it, there he is. It may be through a website like MM or it may be when you stop to get coffee. There he is. 


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Posted on Jul 28, 2018 at 01:45 PM

Hello Adelina, Sad to hear regarding your relationship but know this, in life with the good and the awesome there will be tears, struggles and lessons along the way

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Posted on Jul 28, 2018 at 10:56 AM

That’s really sad I’m sorry . You will be find ❤️

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Posted on Jul 27, 2018 at 10:41 AM

Nice pic

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