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It is, what it is.

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Why is it, that anytime I mention my plans of having my first child alone, the man Im telling it to says "Why don't you just let ME be the daddy?" without thought, no hesitation, he just blurts it out.

First off, No. Lol, thanks, but no.

Number two, the SECOND you change your mind, about the whole situation and want rights to the kid, or a family member of yours pushes for SOME TYPE of custody, considering you KNEW what this was, the whole point of this means nothing, and its just gonna be ruined, and im not spending years of my life fighting over a child til theyre 18 with a man I never even loved, who convinced me to let him give me a child.

Three, EVEN IF, you are the prince charming in my magical, illogical, most imaginative dreams, you'll obviously have to prove you are as healthy as you say you are, which still ruins the whole point of my situation.

So to conclude this whole thing, no amount of money, protection, stability, queen-like fairytale life pitch you try to sell me is gonna change my mind. Not even the sweet simplicity of you, could do the trick, so idk what to tell you, I just dont.
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April 5 Total posts: 29
@THE_UNIVERSE some just dont understand that having the power to make, in your eyes, a perfect family to you is the happiest a person can be by eliminating the one thing that can destroy it in thw blink of an eye, but not any chance of a regular relationship. Then there's the religious, who see it as unnatural, selfish, and wrong to have a family this way. So i guess this is one of thise things only a woman will genuinly understand.
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@TRANSPLANTKID My health does matter, which is one reason im having a child. If I wasnt healthy, I wouldn't be having one.
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why does their health matter to you when your health doesn't even matter to you?
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That's how entitled it feels to your body. This is a perfect opportunity to re-iterate how you don't need him for anything and would rather have no-one than him when it comes to starting a family. Does he not realize that sperm donors have to be exquisitely attractive, intelligent, educated, interesting, and vetted? ... And that you have pages upon pages of options to choose from?