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Should you respond or not?

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Should you respond to a post if you do not meet all of the individual's requirements. I usually don't respond if a male has certain preferences; specifically the "hot" or very hot preference. I don't consider myself hot, I think I am an average, professional female, who looks pretty okay for her age.  Would love to hear from others!

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If you only fail to meet a few minor requirements, go ahead and email them. "Hot/Very Hot" is in the eye of the beholder, you might as well give it a shot. The trick is figuring out the difference between flexible requirements and and strict requirements. I've gotten messages from some women even though I was outside their preferred age range. I got the impression they listed some requirements just to prevent a flood of emails from men.

 

Also, some people seem to have very unrealistic requirements that no one can meet. If they go for weeks and months with no Mr. or Ms. Perfect showing up, they may eventually learn to settle for an actual human being.

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You are all hot to trot! Just use your skills to sell the deal.fun.fun.fun.honesty.then close the deal.beauty starts from within.best of luck to you all.hell ya! You will all be winners.paddy has spoken! Haha!
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I agree, let him decide what he likes. You are beautiful. I dont respond if they are looking for 30 to 50 and are 60 +
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Let him decide if you are hot.  His definition might differ from yours.  Who knows what he means?  

 

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I look for friendship first, if you cant stand to be away from that friend there's a spark waiting to be ignited.
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Hi EverLoyal, my view is to reply, because dating interest are dynamic. However, I error on the side of caution to stay inside their requirements when sending a wink.
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Why not respond???/  Life is precious.  Go out there an be BOLD!  Nothing beats a failure than a try.

 

 

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You decide if you like him.  Let him decide if he likes you.  

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1 year ago

 

Yes I answer to all Post just to say thank you and goodluck  .

..Male members here knows how to interpret messages so 

no worry ..they will understand you if you are  not interested.