• Everything You Need to Know Before Dating a Social Media Influencer Posted by Admin

    People have learned new things because of social media, such as hashtags. The power of a social media influencer is quite impressive. While their lives are exciting to follow, one thing that remains is the desire to find that special someone. The following are some ways dating an influencer is different.

    Living Through Social Media

    People expect a social media influencer to post videos and pictures constantly. Some of the posts may be about a product or service they're promoting. Sometimes, the images are just about living.

    If you're going to be dating an Instagram influencer or a Facebook influencer, you need to accept that this person lives through social media platforms. Your partner may start filming or taking a picture while you have dinner or while you're trying to enjoy a day at the beach.

    If you give your partner a gift, it might be judged on their social media platforms. Everything you do with a social media influencer might be hijacked one way or another by the job, which could make those gifts or activities feel a little less special.

    Focus on Image

    Image is a big deal for a social media influencer. Influencers make a living off of their image and appearance. The person you date knows this very well and has to take it quite seriously.

    This isn't to say that normal people don't care about these things because they do. You probably wake up in the morning and put some thought into your appearance. That's normal, but an influencer's image is a part of the brand. This means the influencer you date is going to take extra care with this.

    Your partner may talk about image, invest in it, and spend time cultivating that image. If you've never been with a person like this, this might hit you hard. The lifestyle demands that the person you're dating be a little self centered. Understanding this may help you see why it's not guaranteed you'll be a part of your partner's social media world.

    May Not Exist On Platforms

    Yes, dating a social media influencer could mean you won't exist on the person's platforms. Some influencers might bring partners into their world slowly, but that's not always the case. Sometimes, depending on the type of account the influencer is curating, you may not be on there at all.

    Remember that their image is important to them, and you simply might not fit that look, no matter how much you try to fit in. Don't think this is your fault. Some people just don't fit a particular brand, and that's okay. This kind of stuff matters to an Instagram influencer or a Facebook influencer.

    Influencers invite the world to participate in their lives, but everything is carefully curated to maintain that special quality that makes their fans fall in love with them.

    Accepting the Attention

    Another truth you may need to get used to is that you're basically dating a celebrity. Granted, these folks aren't as famous as movie stars or huge pop stars, but they are recognizable enough. You'll experience this to a certain extent online, but you may also see it in real life.

    Maybe you'll have to give the person you're dating some time to take pictures with fans or mingle with them from time to time. This could happen while you're doing a little grocery shopping. A fan may interrupt any activity you guys do together.

    The chats with fans could take a long time, especially because a social media influencer knows that fans could badmouth them online, which could hurt the brand. That propels them to be as accommodating as they can be should they meet fans in person. This brings up another thing you need to be ready for.

    Dealing With Jealousy

    Dating an Instagram influencer or a Facebook influencer also means you're going to have to learn to keep your jealousy in check. An influencer may have fans that take fandom a little too far. Your partner is going to get messages and advances all the time. This is something you should be okay with.

    Each relationship is different. Maybe you're okay with a more open relationship, but if you're not, you're going to have to talk to your partner about all of this. You won't be able to stop advances, but what you can do is trust your partner. It may be that the Facebook or Instagram influencer you're dating uses sex appeal to win fans over, which means being attractive to others is a part of the job.

    If you understand this, you should have a good relationship with your partner.

    Time to Self

    Time will be precious when dating a social media influencer. These folks have to live and breathe social media. They don't only have to worry about posting a video or a picture; they also have to make sure those images or videos look perfect. To do this, they have to worry about lighting. They have to worry about what they say. If they're taking a picture, you can expect them to take it a few times until they get the right image.

    On top of that, you also need to keep in mind that these images and videos have to be edited, and that takes some time as well. This isn't counting the time influencers may spend with a professional photographer, doing makeup, or choosing the right outfit. All of this takes time out of the day, which means you should learn to be a part of the process to spend as much time as possible with your partner. The more you understand your partner, the more you'll be on the same page, which is vital when you're dating someone like this.

    Confidence is Real

    Fans tell influencers they're great all the time. They are beloved people. That is going to go to their heads a little bit. This isn't to say that influencers are conceited or anything like that, but they're going to feel confident about themselves and their knowledge.

    This is something you want to prepare for if you hope to date a social media influencer. You might date someone who feels powerful, and you need to embrace that fully.

    Maybe the person you're dating wants you to balance the power dynamics in the relationship, or maybe you're just going to have to accept that your partner is the one with the power in the relationship. Power dynamics in relationships are more important than people think. Each relationship is different, and it's up to the couple to figure out the formula. To accomplish that, you need to learn to be upfront.

    Be Open

    Power dynamics may be a bit different in these types of relationships, and that makes communication even more important. You need to say what role you want to play in your
    partner's life. As you are upfront about your feelings, your partner should adjust things a bit.

    On top of that, be open to adjustments that your partner wants you to make. You can see that influencers don't have a lot of time, so the more direct you are from the beginning, the faster you can come up with solutions together.

    You can't help who you fall in love with, and hopefully, you can make adjustments in your life that'll help you accommodate this lifestyle your partner is leading. It'll take some time to get used to some of these changes, but if you think that your partner is worth it, you should do it. At least, this guide will help prepare you for this.

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