After many years of meeting the wrong men and praying I would one day meet the right man... I did. He is an incredible human being and a wonderful partner. I am looking forward to life with him.
I had been asked many times to compromise on my profiles to find someone who be "more" compatible with me. I refused to compromise. I would rather have spent my life alone. I had basically given up on meeting anyone through any of the sites I had tried and I was going to delete my subscriptions. Your site was the last of the three I was subscribed to that I was deleting. When I opened the site, I saw the profile of someone who had most everything in common with me. We began communicating via phone and text. We met for our first date and have been building the most beautiful relationship I have ever had. Neither of us can believe how well we work together. I have not met anyone in my entire single life who remotely came close to this perfect match. We both consider ourselves very fortunate. I have read testimonials before, but thought they were fabricated. I can honestly say, if this is what others have found, the testimonials are not fabricated.
We emailed a few times and then spoke on the phone. I'm a firm believer in face to face communication and we met after about 2 weeks as he was leaving on a vacation shortly after we spoke on the phone. We met for dinner when he returned. There was instant chemistry and familiarity when we met. We both grew up in the midwest and had a lot in common. He was actually looking for a girlfriend and really had no plans of remarrying again. We have both been divorced over ten years...Anyway, it was just "right" from the beginning. We are both in our late 40's and just knew..
I was originally attracted to your site because I was looking for an "employed" professional. I had been on another site and was meeting gentleman that were unemployed. I wasn't looking for a millionaire just someone with a decent career. What I did find on your site was that the few men that I did meet face to face were highly professional and entrepreneurial. In our age group it is so difficult to meet quality people in general, that I thought trying your site and just internet dating was a viable option..and it was! hope this information helps you. We are elated and getting married on the 22nd of this month!!
We corresponded for two weeks via email and then a brief phone conversation to set up a date. We met in Manhattan at a restaurant for dinner. I have two tips for any couple meeting for the first time on dating site:
1. Have accurate photos
2. Be yourself.
From the beginning there was one man that really caught my attention. Reading his profile it seemed he was looking for the same thing as I was. I decided to write him a mail on which he responded immediately. We have been talking to each other for about two weeks now and it is amazing how much we think alike.
Because we both have our own business it was little difficult to match our agendas for a meeting but it is planned in about a week. Because of the seriousness of our conversations we both decided we would not look any further and end our subscription.
I found a great guy on this site. It's an interesting story in that he winked at me on June 24, 2012. That same day, I sent him an email that he did receive. I then never heard from him until Aug. 22, 2012. At that time I have 6 mails hit my email account stating that I had messages from the same person. When I opened up my page on your site, there were 6 emails from my new guy all with dates as far back as June, 24, 2012, the day I sent my first email. I never received any of them until Aug. 22, 2012. There was one dated June 24, 2012, June 30, 2012, a couple in July and a couple in August.
Lucky for me this guy didn't give up. I was just left wondering why he winked at me and I never heard a word after. As it turns out, he had given me his phone number in a couple of the messages so I immediately text him and we began talking. I happened to be out of town on business, of course, so we talked via phone and text for two weeks. I met him the day after I returned home and we've seen each other everyday since we met. It's only been 4 days but I can tell he is an amazing guy. I am hanging on to this one. He even lives in my city...amazing!!
Met someone from this site and we are interested in
growing our relationship and do not want others to intefere with our focus. Thank
you as the quality of people on this site are of higher standards for the majority
and i was very pleased with my membership.
I met my match after about 10 days on the site. I continued to keep corresponding with others but my connection started to grow predominantly out of emails exchanged back and forth over the MM system. The way her profile was written and the way she expressed herself in her communication really connected with me. I wrote my profile in such a way that I would know if the woman responding to me understood what I was looking for in a woman. My eventual match did recognize my message clearly. We transitioned off of emails to phone calls within about 8 days. We then converted over to our own personal emails...we both did backgrounds on each other and continued to correspond covering a myriad of topics. We connected so I flew from Atlanta to Indianapolis to meet her. While tentative at first for obvious reasons we quickly picked up where we left off previously and had a phenaomenal weekend...and we text and talk each day. I will be seeing her again in a few weeks. Great prospective :-) So it has been about a month now. Thanks...while there are a number of women on the site from countries like Russia and China appearing to want a green card...on the whole the quality of the women on this site is far and above any other dating sites I've been on. In fact I won't ever use the other dating sites again. You do a good quality job of attracting the right people - more sophisticated.
I met her a couple months ago, we had a nice dinner and I adored her. Unfortunately she informed me about a week later that she had met someone else. I accepted that and deleted her phone number. About a month later I saw her profile again and for the heck of it I wrote to her and said,"If it doesn't work out with that guy try me again! You're still the nicest one I've met!"
She responded shortly after. She had just broken off with the other guy. So we made a date and I planned a very romantic evening. I even bought a new outfit for myself , had a dozen roses at our table and we have fallen madly in love.
Yes...alot of emails..our profiles were compelling...then we went to talking on our phones and we immediately clicked....mature more classy choices on your site...I have been on other sites and got extremely frustrated..told my friends these sites don't ever work. For a good reason you attract the right people. I've had 3 quality dates since I signed up...all three fantastic women and a fourth this Thursday is scheduled...she is the one that will have me silence my profile for a bit..extraordinary woman! Thanks and Ciao, Hunter
Hi, well actually I had nearly 400 views and nearly 50-60 in my favourites and I know many had put me in their favourites also, but the one person who stood out the most is the one and only person I actually meet the other day after 1 month of chatting everyday on messenger and email and texts. I think the important thing is to give the other person something to look forward to each day by receiving either an email, text or something that makes that person feel excited. By doing that it draws in that person closer and they begin to feel a certain amount of trust. Trust is important, more so for women, as there are a lot of guys out there who just want to get one thing, and I know how it much feel for women having to filter through the players and the real men! I've actually used a similar site 13 years ago with my last partner and although we are only just no together, we did have a child who is 3 years and we do still talk as we need to do so for our child, but we have kind of moved on in terms of the relationship. this hasn't stopped me from using a site again as I do think it has many positive ways in which is good for couples who are trying to meet. There is obviously the control that each person has which gives it the safety factor. So I would suggest it to others to use for sure. So this person I meet just the other day, it went really well and we met near her home in a public place and we went for a meal and had fun. We spoke a lot and I really think she is a nice person and I think there could be something there! I'm yet to really find out what she is really thinking but the impression she gives is similar to mine.
Time will only tell if we get to stay together. We are keeping an open mind and as we are both local to each other so we will certainly see more of each other. Hey, you never know, we might even come one of your success stories that might appear on your reality show.! Who knows! LOL. Well if you want I'll keep you posted on how things turn out, and if not and someone else happens to end being the right person, well time will only tell. I guess the key is to just have an open mind and as long as both parties know what the expectations are then no one should get hurt. I never want any person to get hurt and for me I was always brought up to treat people in the way you expect to be treated! I have 3 sisters and I would like to think that I treat women in the same way as I would expect other guys to treat my sisters. With respect! I think that as long as people take things slowly and don't go into this with huge expectations, then I don't think anyone can get too disappointed. As I say, safety is got to be the main thing and as long as sincerity is shown on both parts then that is got to be a good start.No one can control the outcome but if it was meant to be then it will, and if it doesn't then maybe good friends can come out of it. Now in my book that's a win-win situation. I hope I gave some feedback that helps in these matters and I will keep in touch and let you know the outcome. Have a nice day. Phil.
My boyfriend and I talked on the phone two weeks prior to meeting and we had emailed back and forth several times on the site for over a week prior to meeting. We initially planned a phone call but because he had plans with family that ran late we had to put the phone call off, which I thought was fishy. But he called when he said he would the next time. He is very busy with his work, which is not unusual for his level. The conversation went well, I could tell he wanted to get to the elimination round.
I truly didn't care if I was in or out and was ready to stop dating for a while at this point anyway, I had not had any prior dates from MillionaireMatch. I told him everything he wanted to know, including why my first marriage ended after 15 years, which is that my husband had decided to become a woman, that is enough to scare some men off right there. He wanted to know if I was ready for a serious relationship. That is precisely why I was dating, which I told him. Our conversation went over an hour and went very well. We decided we wanted to meet and left that open because I still was not sure what my schedule was with my THREE children (again another scary factor for some men). So, he rang me less than a week later and asked if we could get together. I wanted to see him, but I had made plans with a girlfriend to attend a play, she was not sure she was going to make it due to her work schedule so I told him I would have to get back to him.
I was going to be disappointed if I didn't get to meet this man who declared after I first "winked" at him on the site that we were a "match". So, I told my friend that I would prefer to meet this man that I've been trying to meet since she was unsure she could make it before doors close. I met my date at the theater and he was more down to earth and normal than I expected. I typically never made the first moves on the dating sites, but I did wink at about ten men on the same day that were all from the Houston area. I am sure glad I did that because I am so glad I met this one. He was the first man I met from the site, I don't ever want to meet another man. We had the best first date ever watching the Santaland Diaries that I had gotten tickets for and we walked to a historic hotel nearby that he knew of for dinner. He landed the first peck on the lips there. I usually do not want to kiss on the first date, but as we talked at dinner that night I could not help but think "Is this guy for real?", so his kiss was welcome. We have now been dating for almost eight months.
Initially when dating online, I had many rules for myself. I would not meet for more than a drink (waste of time, I thought). I would not initiate contact by emailing or winking. I am glad I bent the rules and decided to have a real date with a man who could carry on a good phone conversation and I winked at him first. I am a busy mom and I don't want to waste my time, but it is an investment of time. I had several REALLY bad dates for over 2 years before I met this man. I could write a very detailed book about those dates. But it was all worth it to meet the right person. My guy was also ready to throw in the towel, so keeping the attitude that they also have to take time out to make plans, be on time, shave, and generally carry on a good conversation and then pay the bill is a good start. It's a mutual effort.
I am glad I bent my rules and made the first move online. I had thought if they want to know me they would reach out, but some men who I might have been willing to get to know had eliminated me thinking I would not be interested in them. In fact, the man I am dating saw my pictures on another dating site and based on those thought I would not be interested in him. I disagree, I winked at him on MillionaireMatch.com. I initially made the mistake on my profile on another site of saying what I don't want, and I did much better finding what I want when I stated honestly what I wanted. I think men should do the same on theirs.
There is a lot of speculation on the site about if it is "real" or "does it work". All I know is that it has worked for me to find a man who accepts me and my children, which was the goal, not to find a millionaire. The site is as real as the people on it. I would recommend for the site to allow some interaction from successful members to new members of the same sex.
Regarding my girlfriend, she was listed in my compatible matches. I sent her an email, and we started corresponding. This leads to some very good phone conversations, and ultimately I decided to buy a plane ticket and go visit her in Montreal. Since then she has been to visit me twice, staying for several days at a time. We are currently planning a trip to Maui in August, and a meeting with the parents in September...so all going very well. We both believe we are the perfect match for one another. I know she does not mind me telling you this, but she is Viangel from your site. My relationship is serious and we have already been talking about marriage...but need a little more time together.
I actually conversed with quite a few people on your site, and it is by far the best site I have used. Match.com has too many scammers and people in general who are not serious. Eharmony wants to match you with who THEY think is best...not you. I think the fact that you take the time to verify pics, income, and education means that you reduce the chance of having scammers on your site. And the women are serious...not simply looking for millionaires but they want some one who is successful and real...and I wanted to find some one who was "real" as well. Truthfully, I emailed and talked with several high quality women from your site...I was really impressed!
Keep doing and encouraging the verification process...I really think that most women are not looking for a "millionaire" as much as they are looking for a man who is successful and has a real job. I am a physician not a wealthy businessman...I don't own a yacht and travel on commercial (not private jets). Ha. No one I met seemed to care...or maybe I just attracted this type of person...at any rate, I appreciate your website.
I came across my wife's picture and profile. I loved what I read, and sent a wink. She responded! We continued to email each other for three month. She lived in LA, and I lived in Midwest. Email turned to love, the love got stronger and stronger.
We decided we needed to meet, I travelled to LA to meet face to face, hoping we could also have that magical chemistry! We are both waiting patiently, and so excited for that moment. We could harly wait! For that moment!
The day arrived finally! The moment our eyes met...we knew...chemistry was there, and the magic was there!
From that day on we never separated. After spending a week together, that was enough to ask her to move with me to Texas. And I gave her my hand, and she took it without hesitation! We left for Texas a week later together. I asked her to marry me after six months, and "SHE SAID YES".
We got married two months later!
We are so madly in love with each other! We are so happy together, and we are so compatible! We have never been as happy with anyone in our lives. It is a true blessing, and a miracle!
We want to thank MM match, from the bottom of our hearts for being the reason we found each other!
Thank you all for your hard work, and God bless!
I am very pleased to tell that when I meet the man with the same values as mine, as well as same goals. I didn't want to keep looking for more. I am very willing to give it a chance. I wanted a serious relationship, and believe this is it. Thank you very much.
This was a wonderful website. I was also on match.com and eharmony and found the most success on MM!
I have found someone and we're planning on marriage. We had been looking at each others profiles for months before he finally messaged me. Days later he drove an hour to where I live for our first date (dinner) because I had to work early the next morning.
I had started moving in with him after 2 months and am interviewing for positions in Chicago. He is already engagement ring shopping. Things moved fast but at our age when you meet the right one you don't waste much time!
Be happy to share my success story. We started email for about 2 days, then moved to phone calls. I live in New Jersey and he lives in Florida via way of Australia. We spoke every night for hours for almost 2 weeks and decided it was time to meet, so he flew into NJ at the end of those 2 weeks for a long weekend at the beach.
We just knew it was the real thing even before we met. Maybe through the hours of open conversation, he hearing me supporting my friend who was in a hard place, and me loving his music. But he left and returned to Florida and within 3 days packed some things and drive from Florida to New Jersey to stay for the summer. He's still here and I really don't plan on letting him go back, lol.
Phil and I started talking online in April. I loved him before I ever met him which wasn't until the end of May because he lives on Maui and I live in Portland, Oregon. I spent four wonderful days with him at his home in Hawaii. We continued talking about EVERYTHING and before I left he booked a flight to Portland in June. We are planning a life together living part-time in Arizona, part-time in Hawaii and part-time traveling.
Feel free to ask him for more details. Philip G. Smith (Philipjazz). And thank you. I've used several dating sites since my husband died in 2008 but yours worked for me in a big way.