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YOU have a SECRET that only YOU and I know (smile)
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Posted on Fri, Feb 14, 2014 12:32

Wiser men than I have experienced Love and romance and tried to explain it. But who can know or understand what thing it that attracts one person to another. Is it their eyes, their smile, their personality? Is it all these things ? Or perhaps it's some totally difference combination of things. Which brings me to my point. We all fear the things that we don't understand. Foolish men use to think that when LOVE processed their heart they couldn't possibly behave as they did under their own power . Thus they foolishly reasoned that women must have put a spell on them. YOU and I know that LOVE is not like magic, it is magic. What can change everything is the wink of an eye. I know YOUR fear is that if you allow someone to become as close to you as love requires them to be they might break your heart. In the matter of your destiny, there are many roads that you may take. But in the matter of LOVE there is only one road. YOU must pledge your heart to someone. The only question that remains is will you follow your heart to love and happiness or will you let your foolish pride stand in the way ???  



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Posted on Sun, Feb 16, 2014 15:16

Quoting askmrknowitall:

Quoting Jenkneee:

Quoting askmrknowitall:

Shhh, yourself (smile), read your profile, and looked at your pictures. Your secret would be that YOU"RE spectacular all of the time. (smile).

Always remember little one: no distants is to great if at the end of the journey one finds what one was looking for (smile). But it appears that you did the right thing in the case that you discribe. To many negatives to over come. Sometimes love is not enough.

Hello :)

 

   Thank-you but no one can be spectacular 24/7, it just takes too much effort!!  lol 

 

 

It's hard to admit that sometimes love isn't enough but I think there would probably a lot less divorces if people looked at everything before saying vows and signing a contract. I love LOVE and it is the best thing in life but what is realistic?  I used to be what I call a fixer, some of us women think love is enough, we can fix what we don't like about him or fix what we don't like about our lives together in general.  After decades of trying to fix him, I finally gave up. 

 

 

What we love about someone is important but we have to be able to tolerate what we don't love at the same time.

You are correct in your assessment. Love is not an exercise in finding the perfect person, rather love is an exercise in finding that person who's flaws are acceptable to you, while at the same time your flaws are acceptable to them. Given that we are all flawed, it's just a matter of degree (some greater than others). As to whether, or not you're spectacular 24/7 (smile). This is not a flirtation. But rather a observation  of fact. What I said to you didn't just apply to you, there are other women on this site to which that applies. Everyone can see that you're beautiful. But not everyone can see what I ALSO saw (smile). I'll quote to you from one of my poems what I saw. "  I can recognize you anywhere. Because you see, there is more to you than just the physical you, 
and I can see and feel this essence when I'm in your presents. 
Your essence is like Diamonds and Gold and other thing that we consider to have great value based upon how rare they are" end quote. You see it is that which you cannot see which makes you (and some others here )spectacular 24/7.  Well little one, it appears that you had a secret that only I knew (smile).    

What kind and thoughtful words...thank-you. I'm sure someone will come along and appreciate all the good things you are and the rest will be accepted. That goes for everyone!!

 

 

 

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Posted on Sun, Feb 16, 2014 13:33

Quoting Jenkneee:

Quoting askmrknowitall:

Shhh, yourself (smile), read your profile, and looked at your pictures. Your secret would be that YOU"RE spectacular all of the time. (smile).

Always remember little one: no distants is to great if at the end of the journey one finds what one was looking for (smile). But it appears that you did the right thing in the case that you discribe. To many negatives to over come. Sometimes love is not enough.

Hello :)

 

   Thank-you but no one can be spectacular 24/7, it just takes too much effort!!  lol 

 

 

It's hard to admit that sometimes love isn't enough but I think there would probably a lot less divorces if people looked at everything before saying vows and signing a contract. I love LOVE and it is the best thing in life but what is realistic?  I used to be what I call a fixer, some of us women think love is enough, we can fix what we don't like about him or fix what we don't like about our lives together in general.  After decades of trying to fix him, I finally gave up. 

 

 

What we love about someone is important but we have to be able to tolerate what we don't love at the same time.

You are correct in your assessment. Love is not an exercise in finding the perfect person, rather love is an exercise in finding that person who's flaws are acceptable to you, while at the same time your flaws are acceptable to them. Given that we are all flawed, it's just a matter of degree (some greater than others). As to whether, or not you're spectacular 24/7 (smile). This is not a flirtation. But rather a observation  of fact. What I said to you didn't just apply to you, there are other women on this site to which that applies. Everyone can see that you're beautiful. But not everyone can see what I ALSO saw (smile). I'll quote to you from one of my poems what I saw. "  I can recognize you anywhere. Because you see, there is more to you than just the physical you, 
and I can see and feel this essence when I'm in your presents. 
Your essence is like Diamonds and Gold and other thing that we consider to have great value based upon how rare they are" end quote. You see it is that which you cannot see which makes you (and some others here )spectacular 24/7.  Well little one, it appears that you had a secret that only I knew (smile).    



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Posted on Sat, Feb 15, 2014 21:17

Quoting askmrknowitall:

Shhh, yourself (smile), read your profile, and looked at your pictures. Your secret would be that YOU"RE spectacular all of the time. (smile).

Always remember little one: no distants is to great if at the end of the journey one finds what one was looking for (smile). But it appears that you did the right thing in the case that you discribe. To many negatives to over come. Sometimes love is not enough.

Hello :)

 

   Thank-you but no one can be spectacular 24/7, it just takes too much effort!!  lol 

 

 

It's hard to admit that sometimes love isn't enough but I think there would probably a lot less divorces if people looked at everything before saying vows and signing a contract. I love LOVE and it is the best thing in life but what is realistic?  I used to be what I call a fixer, some of us women think love is enough, we can fix what we don't like about him or fix what we don't like about our lives together in general.  After decades of trying to fix him, I finally gave up. 

 

 

What we love about someone is important but we have to be able to tolerate what we don't love at the same time.



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Posted on Sat, Feb 15, 2014 11:23

Shhh, yourself (smile), read your profile, and looked at your pictures. Your secret would be that YOU"RE spectacular all of the time. (smile).

Always remember little one: no distants is to great if at the end of the journey one finds what one was looking for (smile). But it appears that you did the right thing in the case that you discribe. To many negatives to over come. Sometimes love is not enough.



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Posted on Sat, Feb 15, 2014 03:47

Here's the secret only a few know and appreciate, I can be spectacular at times.  Shhh, don't tell anyone.


 

Referring to your question, I know it has never been a case of pride for me but sometimes there have been other reasons for not taking the chance to know if love could have happened. My biggest reasons being that I had plans to move far away and the other one was that he is in the military.   I'm a realist.  I tell you what though, I have never forgotten those chances I didn't take.



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