There are two sides to the coin. Wink means what? Dating request? If I wink you and you get defensive and begin suggesting things your are not sure I had in mind then you have a prejudicial problem. On the other side if a wink equals dating then the lady has a right to tell you she doesn't date certain types of people. There is no reason to suggest she is racist because no one knows her experience with black people. My late grand mother used to say when a snake bites you when you see a worm you will run for your dea life.
With that said, my love for people and places has put me in contact with differnt types of people on earth. Everybody is differnt; black white, indan, chinese Arab you name it. Never put everyone in the same basket. An American white woman screwd me, but I have a more friendlier relationship with them than black women. I am not saying I do not like black women. I simply do not have more opportunities around people of the black race as I really would love to.
We should really consider building healthy relationships by just trying to think positively without prejudice. It makes us look very stupid; black, white, colored chines or whatever you may call yourself. If you are a white person and you have never met very cool black people you need to make an effort, be positive about them and visualize yourself meeting really good black people. Give time for your vision to mature and you will be amazed how some black people you will meet can positively influence your life.The saying that when you go black you do not go back is not a joke.
If you are a black person and you have not had an opportunity to meet good white people you need to make an effort, be positive about them and visualze yourself meeting really good white people. Give time for your vision to mature and you will be amazed how some white people you will meet really care and can positively influence your life. Remember we attrack to us our experiences through our thoughts and actions.
The ignorant racist class; both white and black have no idea what they are missing trying to peck at each other. In California there are communities of brethren living together that do not know race. The lifestyle is begining to attract People all over the country. The first thing you realise in us is that we care for each other. We are conscious of what we put in out bodies; water, food, lotion, environment medication, spirituality and more. We are highly conscious of the good things of the earth that makes us avoid chaos and sicknesses. Very few of us have the major illnesses that plagues the rest of America. Your health is the first thing you will gain back when you join conscois living. The greatest experience you will ever have in life is living in a mixed community where race or skin color does not really matter.