Quoting egypt33:

I've joined this site about three years ago and never dated anyone I've met here. I have talked with several men, but most of them simply dissapear after winking at me or sending me a message. I've answered politely, I've shown my interest (if I like that person), and then...nothing. Others exchanged a few messages with me, but they were definately not interested in meeting me in the real world.
What's the point in setting up an online profile and sending messages if you are not willing to actually get to know the person you are contacting? I'm starting to believe that most profiles here are either fake or they simply belong to some people who don't have any serious intentions...All I wanted was to meet an intelligent person, to exchange ideas and get to know each other, and then meet face-to-face and see what happens next.