Im pretty new on this cite, but have been on others and notice that so many guys message me claiming to be a nice guy, but then they say things like "most women on here are gross", and they just complain or just say mean things, or are judgmental, a few call their ex a B*tch, but yet they claim to be a nice guy... I dont think they are liers but I think everyone just has different definitions of a nice guy... I think a nice guy is respectful and even if she is a b*tch, then a real nice guy still would not call her one, I think you guys should be more specific. Are you a nice guy sometimes or only toward some people? or are you just a nice guy period? I feel like some of these questions like, are you a nice guy, honest, or judgemental should be multiple choice questions the answers being: sometimes, always, only toward some people, or when it benefits me
Radical racer thinks when a woman calls you a nice guy that it means that guy is boring. I do understand that SOME people would think that as a negative term but not everyone uses "Nice guy" in that way.
Geez, I am starting to get a little paranoid that EVERYTHING I post online has been and will be misconstrued. I have typed "You seem like a nice, normal guy" and meant it as an compliment.
OP, you're right to question someone's niceness. I really dislike when someone in the frame of a joke is mean. They then say something like, "It's a joke, get over it". Their true colors show through that they lack respect and they are...racist or sexist or crude, etc.