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  • View author's info Author Posted on Nov 25, 2012 at 02:09 PM

    Im just so tired of guys contacting me for only one thing. I feel that its not my fault that I am attractive, so why is it fair for a guy to treat you like thats what you asked for. give me some suggestions on my profile as to wether I am sending the wrong message to men.

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  • View author's info Posted on Dec 18, 2012 at 09:57 AM

    Aww.. You are quite welcome sweetie. I wrote ads for a living so I have become extremely proficient at not just writing them, but reading them as well... 
    Try changing your wording. IF you change your wording, I see nothing wrong with your photos. Nothing wrong with being an attractive woman and showing this in a classy manner...
    Best wishes dear..... ;)
  • View author's info Posted on Dec 16, 2012 at 08:11 PM

    Thank you 4everloyal for reading my post and taking interest :)
  • View author's info Posted on Dec 16, 2012 at 08:08 PM

    Thank you Hoping4love2000, those were things  I really did'nt think about lol.Perhaps I will get more detailed about my likes and qaulities, i just did'nt want to come off as a total prude in the beggining you know lol.
  • View author's info Posted on Dec 09, 2012 at 04:11 PM

    Listen, you are not a child, you know what your photo looks like, you know exactly what you are doing. Please!!!!
  • View author's info Posted on Dec 06, 2012 at 11:10 PM

    As a former advertising executive, my thoughts:
    Men first view photos.. You have 2 in bathing suit- very nice body, this alone is not a big deal... But it is what it is....
    In other photos you are "posing" with pouty lips in one, the "librarian look" in another... appears you are trying to look sexy.. (of course sexy is good.. I do sexy... ) and then in your beautiful dress you designed.. I love the bottom! Very unique! ;) 
    I could get past the photos and not think sex if I were a man...  if you didn't couple them with what little verbiage you used to describe what you seek.. 
    First, you only mention ALCOHOL and then dancing. A couple of drinks is not so bad.. but then to put dancing? It appears you do not seek a "genuine" relationship, (which is fine if you don't seek one.. nothing wrong with that.. ) But dancing is not being able to spend time getting to know a man... (Neither is movies BTW...)
    You also mention "fun" several times... You have that you aren't sure if you want children (that leaves you out to many men seeking a future family) 
    and THEN... 
    Hook, line and sinker???
    You said, and I quote:
     I would like to meet a nice man who I can take care of and we can create some lasting memories.
    The initial part of your sentence SCREAMS you are seeking a man for sex when you couple this with sexy photos in bathing suits, keep mentioning "fun", your date begins with alcohol, you've given the man no insight to who you are in your profile and now you say you want to "take care of a man?" 
    Do not misunderstand me.. If that is not your position I do not feel men should approach you in that manner.. BUT.. Although men are visual.. They also can listen better than we think.. It appears you either wih to "support" a man.. or satisy him other ways.. Either way... ends up SEX.. 
    Hope this helps sweetie... I wish you the best..And if I were you, I'd just change the wording in your profile to tell the men a bit about you.. and leave out "fun" and "taking care of!" You can't talk to men like that unless you are wearing a burlette sack!! They don't know how to take it! I feel the jerks are going to be attracted... and the "good guys" won't approach you B/C good guys seek "more."~~ ;) 
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