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WHY TO BE SO BEAUTIFUL AND SUFFER FROM YOUR BEAUTY?
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Posted on Sun, Nov 11, 2012 15:05

HELLO ALL
I AM NEW ON THIS SITE AND WOULD LIKE TO ASK OTHER WOMENS OPINIONS ABOUT THIS QUESTION:WHY IS  GIVEN BEAUTY TO A WOMEN IF SHE JUST SUFFER OF LONELINESS ALTHOUGH SHE IS SO BEAUTIFUL AND NOT ONLY... ?

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Posted on Sat, Aug 10, 2013 05:00

http://m.youtube.com/watch?v=hibyAJOSW8U&feature=player_embedded&desktop_uri=%2Fwatch%3Fv%3DhibyAJOSW8U%26feature%3Dplayer_embedded




“Schauert euch mal, wie schön wir Frauen eigentlich sein könnten – Wir sind das aber nicht….!
Ist aber kein Problem, kauft euch einfach diese Zeitschrift/ dieses Diät-Wundermittel/ diese neuartige Anti-Falten-Creme und ihr werdet – quasi über Nacht- genau so schön!”






Deine Schönheit braucht keine Mittel -

Amor ist nackt und liebt keine künstliche Schönheit.

(lateinisches Sprichwort)




Es schien mir absolut unlogisch und rätselhaft, warum wir Frauen, die wirklich bezaubernd aussehen, so kritisch mit sich selbst umgehen. Warum wir jedes Detail unseres Körpers mikroskopisch genau anschauen und dabei jeden noch so kleinen “Fehler” entdecken.

Und diesen übertrieben kritischen Blick auf unsere Aussehen hat JEDE Frau hin und wieder, unabhängig von unseren Alter oder unseren tatsächlichen Aussehen.

Nach hunderten Gesprächen mit den verschiedensten Frauen kam ich zu folgendem Schluss: Es ist ein GEFÜHL, tief verwurzelt in unseren weiblichen Auffassung von “Schönheit”. Dieses Gefühl ist dafür verantwortlich, dass wir Frauen so über-kritisch mit unserem Äußeren umgehen. Und dieses Gefühl hat meistens NICHTS mit der Realität zu tun.

Woher aber kommt diese Empfindung: “Ich bin nicht hübsch genug” ?

Wer oder was hat diese verzerrte Wahrnehmung in so viele Frauen eingepflanzt?

Neulich stieß ich auf ein Video, das recht eindeutig darstellt, woher diese unrealistische Einstellung vieler Frauen zum Thema Schönheit kommt:



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Posted on Sat, Aug 03, 2013 15:12

The original question nearly makes me want to puke. Maybe the one that thinks/he/she is beautiful is incredibly stuck-up and shallow that it is clear to everyone therefore they are lonely because their so called beauty is on the surface only?



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Posted on Thu, Aug 01, 2013 19:52

lovely lady



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Posted on Thu, Jun 06, 2013 13:46

you just need to be self-confidence, believe in your beauty power and you find Prince Charming!



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Posted on Mon, May 27, 2013 08:41

there is a study about this subject conducted by psychologists from different countries:
1) men are afraid to be rejected so they dont even try
2) such women have much higher standards to a man they want so - more difficult to find one that fits their standards



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Posted on Sun, Feb 10, 2013 14:38

I belive i understand you to a  certain point,when somebody sees a beautifull woman alone,meaning single,they all star wondering why is that so. they come to an conclusion that either she has  high standards or theres somethin wrong with her,psychologically.
I belive you can benefit from it,but also lose,it all depends on the person standing on the other side.
we all like to see something nice to our eye,nevertheless some people simply dont want to know nothing about  us beside what they see,and make superficial conclusions.
In all cases,I still wouldnt change the way that I am,cause theres so much more beside the look that matters. and there are still people who are willing to go beneath the surface.



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Posted on Sun, Dec 23, 2012 11:49

Such a stupid question. If god has given you beauty, you can not complain about it. Maybe the reason a women suffer is not about the beauty on the outside, but the uglyness inside.



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Posted on Sun, Dec 09, 2012 15:14

beauty is all very relative.



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