I have seen not only that there actually are eighteen year old girls here on MM, which is kinda scary, I think, but also realise there are lots of mature (well, mature according to age!) men here truly seeking eighteen year old girls, believing they are women. Oh, for Gods sake, what is wrong with these men?! Do they really want to date a girl who is young enough to be their daughter, or sometimes even their grand daughter?! And what on Earth do they have in common? Money? One lack, one don't? No, try to wake up next to a woman, and feel satisfied she wont ask for daddys black card but mererly a good morning kiss...
I want to make my opinion clear. I am a twenty year old young woman. I got my own money and live a quit good life, there is only one thing missing - a man.
The reason why I signed up in this site and not an average dating site is because of the standar. Not on their bank account but in their head.
My opinion is based on a short sentence "rich people were not DUMB enought to get rich".
There takes a lot to be dumb and rich.
What about a young woman who wants a economically stabil man. We know that every night when we go to bed there is room for mistakes the next day.
There are different reasons for differnent men. But make no mistake that 18 year old girls serve a purpose. And can be healing in some way. Judging is a fools game. Don't waste your time.
We all know what kind of purpose they serve!! As far as healing goes,.. really? Haven't quite heard of it in that way but if you want to put it in those terms. You are trying awfully hard to make it seem acceptable. I guess we can all assume which way you roll, lol. And yes, we are allowed to judge righteously.
An 18 yr. old may have developed a bustline but she has not developed her character enough to be with an older man. Of course the men here have expressed different opinions than the women. I think it's ridiculous for older men to even consider the idea of being with a girl that young. Notice I typed "girl" instead of woman. When I see a male's profile where is is considering someone that young , then I cannot take him seriously.
Were the tables turned and it was older women who were open to boys that were 18, most people would be very judgemental. I think MOST women would not even entertain the idea. I would be in total "Mom-Mode if I were communicating with an 18 yr.old boy. "Did u clean your room today?", What grades did you get?", "What do u want to be when you grow up?" etc.,etc. The idea of having romantic feelings for a boy is absurd.
I would think the more younger a girl is when keeping her company, the OLDER the man would feel. Does this young one know anything really that is important. Even if she was Booksmart, it doesn't help the situation. Music for example, the music he listened to when he was young is something she may not relate to at all. He probably had headphones and gigantic speakers and listened to MUSICIANS who were able to perform exceptionally on their own without studio help. Do you think her auto-tuned crap in a tiny plastic case is something he appreciates? * I may have just added too much of my own opinion on music there,lol.
I would much rather be with someone who can relate.
of course all of this is based on the belief that an 18 year old has no value other than being young...
I know some young women that I'd rather have conversations with than most any one older... they are bright, educated, witty, funny and charming... and I know some 65 year olds that will never achieve any of those things.
Neither value nor maturity has anything to do with age and the simple posting of this topic prooves that!
Hey, I agree with you 100%, but for a man, the younger girl he has, the more youthful he feels! Its when he gets ill, or just needs to talk, that is when he will realise he needs a woman who cares for him, not just his bank account!