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Posted on Fri, Aug 24, 2012 12:27

Do you agree or disagree with this quote? 
“You attract what you are, not what you want. So if you want it then reflect it!” -Tony Gaskins



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Posted on Tue, Jan 07, 2014 13:11

maybe sometimes...

shouldn't be an 'always' or 'never' type basis



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Posted on Sat, Jan 04, 2014 14:08

I disagree. There are so many variables that attract people to you. Some of them may or may not be based on what/who you are but what you are perceived to be. 



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Posted on Sat, Jan 04, 2014 09:12

i agreee but depending on what type of you....your presenting as.....I my self am a casual dresser.. I have many beautiful garments but am more comfortable in flats and jeans.. also because i have animals... . but if you were to speak to me I am highly intellectual and enjoy conversation thats worldly or scientific by no means fiction as a place in my brain. I  have dated down intellectually and was in a very ltr ....it just doesnt work out...the mind has to be stimulated as well as other aspects of a relationship. 



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Posted on Fri, Jan 03, 2014 19:40

Good old "Quantum physics". The power of positive energy will attact what you want. Believe it!  :-)



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Posted on Wed, Dec 18, 2013 19:17

Some times, it depends, in my opinion we are all different people and in the same time we are all the same ( humans ). Everybody attracts people that are atracted to them at that particular point of their life  and vice versa .You will also see different people atracting eachother.  Atract a man that is compatible with my desires and personality is the best for me because this way we can meet each others needs.

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Posted on Mon, Nov 25, 2013 07:30

I totally agree with this statement. I am currently in the process of finding my true self. I feel I have grown out of all of my friends except maybe 1 or 2 because we are on the same path and help each other grow. I continually look for people who have the same goals and challenge me to continually grow into who I see myself becoming.

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Posted on Tue, Nov 05, 2013 12:54

I't been true on occasion in my life.



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Posted on Sun, Oct 20, 2013 23:54

It is true on some level. Because you will mostly attract those where you socialize in real life (not always online). But then again, you do attract who is interested in what you are when they may be the polar opposite. It's all about balancing each other out. One may be wild and the other down to earth, one may be a dreamer and the other a realist. But it also boils down to how much do you support the other's life goals. The relationship cannot be altruistic because in the end it may bring unhappiness because the altruistic one may feel unfulfilled for not having taken their own personal goals into consideration.



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Posted on Sun, Oct 20, 2013 20:57

I always felt opposites attract. 



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Posted on Thu, Oct 17, 2013 20:31

Orlando your just fishing



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Posted on Mon, Sep 30, 2013 15:50

not true



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Posted on Fri, Aug 16, 2013 16:04

Very cut and dry statement and filled with problems, such as: we are multifaceted  human beings presenting different self's to the world.  We may be a parent in one role, a child in another, a boss in another.  We may feel competent in one role, vulnerable in the next.

We are not one thing.  We are made up of many energies.  Who we meet has a lot to do with with where we are at the time.  Where do we find ourselves?

Let's not select someone by default.



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Posted on Fri, Aug 16, 2013 01:46

I disagree with the quote.  If someone is just like you, where is the fun at that relationship, it would kill passion.  I think people attract what they need, or I should put it in other words, people get attracted to what they need; so two people becomes together to create one complete.



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Posted on Mon, Aug 05, 2013 13:13

Quoting Orlando__:

Do you agree or disagree with this quote? 
“You attract what you are, not what you want. So if you want it then reflect it!” -Tony Gaskins

Remember, that thinking of Attraction is driven by what your thinking about most of the time.  If you're attracting what you dislike the most, your attracting the sum of your fear.  More accurately are attracting what you THINK you are.  You could be lovely and smart and sadly taught by predominate relationships that your invisable and dull mentally, you'll attract the level of comfort of your self perception.



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Posted on Sat, Jul 06, 2013 23:42

I attract what I want and what I dont want, But only stay with what I want. 2 people just alike for me = boredom. I would not want a clone. Two people that complement one another with similar interest is a start, but  not all the same interest because then your partner becomes your backpack and  Everyone needs to breath thier own air sometimes, even in a relationship.



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Posted on Thu, Jun 20, 2013 16:23

I was told once that we attract those who are at the same emotional level as ourselves-not always a reflection of chemistry or our needs,



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Posted on Tue, Jun 18, 2013 03:36

Hmmm....thinking about the men I usually attract the most....I for sure hope not....



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Posted on Sun, Jun 16, 2013 15:17

Disagree!!!



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Posted on Thu, Apr 04, 2013 19:03

I completely agree with the statement.

As humans, we attract what we become. It's a delicate blend of what we are now and what we are attempting to become as we grow that brings us closer to those walking the same paths.



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