You attract what you are Romance

  • View author's info Recommended Author posted on Aug 24, 2012 12:27

    Do you agree or disagree with this quote? 
    “You attract what you are, not what you want. So if you want it then reflect it!” -Tony Gaskins
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  • View author's info posted on Jan 07, 2014 13:11

    maybe sometimes...

    shouldn't be an 'always' or 'never' type basis

  • View author's info posted on Jan 04, 2014 14:08

    I disagree. There are so many variables that attract people to you. Some of them may or may not be based on what/who you are but what you are perceived to be. 

  • View author's info posted on Jan 04, 2014 09:12

    i agreee but depending on what type of you....your presenting as.....I my self am a casual dresser.. I have many beautiful garments but am more comfortable in flats and jeans.. also because i have animals... . but if you were to speak to me I am highly intellectual and enjoy conversation thats worldly or scientific by no means fiction as a place in my brain. I  have dated down intellectually and was in a very ltr just doesnt work out...the mind has to be stimulated as well as other aspects of a relationship. 

  • View author's info posted on Jan 03, 2014 19:40

    Good old "Quantum physics". The power of positive energy will attact what you want. Believe it!  :-)

  • View author's info posted on Dec 18, 2013 19:17

    Some times, it depends, in my opinion we are all different people and in the same time we are all the same ( humans ). Everybody attracts people that are atracted to them at that particular point of their life  and vice versa .You will also see different people atracting eachother.  Atract a man that is compatible with my desires and personality is the best for me because this way we can meet each others needs.

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  • View author's info posted on Nov 25, 2013 07:30

    I totally agree with this statement. I am currently in the process of finding my true self. I feel I have grown out of all of my friends except maybe 1 or 2 because we are on the same path and help each other grow. I continually look for people who have the same goals and challenge me to continually grow into who I see myself becoming.

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  • View author's info posted on Nov 05, 2013 12:54

    I't been true on occasion in my life.

  • View author's info posted on Oct 20, 2013 23:54

    It is true on some level. Because you will mostly attract those where you socialize in real life (not always online). But then again, you do attract who is interested in what you are when they may be the polar opposite. It's all about balancing each other out. One may be wild and the other down to earth, one may be a dreamer and the other a realist. But it also boils down to how much do you support the other's life goals. The relationship cannot be altruistic because in the end it may bring unhappiness because the altruistic one may feel unfulfilled for not having taken their own personal goals into consideration.

  • View author's info posted on Sep 30, 2013 15:50

    not true

  • View author's info posted on Aug 16, 2013 16:04

    Very cut and dry statement and filled with problems, such as: we are multifaceted  human beings presenting different self's to the world.  We may be a parent in one role, a child in another, a boss in another.  We may feel competent in one role, vulnerable in the next.

    We are not one thing.  We are made up of many energies.  Who we meet has a lot to do with with where we are at the time.  Where do we find ourselves?

    Let's not select someone by default.

  • View author's info posted on Aug 05, 2013 13:13

    Quoting Orlando__:

    Do you agree or disagree with this quote? 
    “You attract what you are, not what you want. So if you want it then reflect it!” -Tony Gaskins

    Remember, that thinking of Attraction is driven by what your thinking about most of the time.  If you're attracting what you dislike the most, your attracting the sum of your fear.  More accurately are attracting what you THINK you are.  You could be lovely and smart and sadly taught by predominate relationships that your invisable and dull mentally, you'll attract the level of comfort of your self perception.
  • View author's info posted on Jun 20, 2013 16:23

    I was told once that we attract those who are at the same emotional level as ourselves-not always a reflection of chemistry or our needs,
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  • View author's info posted on Apr 04, 2013 19:03

    I completely agree with the statement.

    As humans, we attract what we become. It's a delicate blend of what we are now and what we are attempting to become as we grow that brings us closer to those walking the same paths.
  • View author's info posted on Apr 04, 2013 11:28

    As William Shakespeare said,,,,Love looks not from the eyes ..but from the mind..
    I love this quote as I think this is so very true in my experience.I know I am always drawn to someone of a similar mindset to myself....regardless to a great extent of age or looks.and it has worked vica versa
    However...I have to admit I have also attracted my fair share of clowns!  haha  : ))
    ..altho none on this site yet  thankfully!..
  • View author's info posted on Apr 03, 2013 13:47

    i think i disagree. if people are too much alike i think things might be a little mundane. shouldnt we learn and maybe take with us the good qualities that we "adopt"  or learn from others close to us that we admire and / or respect?
  • View author's info posted on Feb 19, 2013 09:07

    I disagree, we do not attract what we are at all. For example if youre a beautiful person , do you always attract beautiful people ? not all the time, you end up attracting the wrong attention in retrospect. The weirdos, the geiks , people the totally opposite of yourself. I wish I did attract what I really wanted.
    Thats just how I feel about that sayin.
  • View author's info posted on Jan 22, 2013 18:55

    Might be true in some circumstances like smile and the world will smile back..i also agree that we also can attract what we might need at a certain moment anddisattract what we dont...but they also say opposites attract for a reason meaning sometimes opposites complete eachother while the same can get into a i would say its innocent lamb will definately attract a vicious wolfe etc...the human mind is very complex and there are many sensoric strings floating which either get picked up or picks up...waves..hence attraction is somewhat unexplanable to a precise point.
  • View author's info posted on Dec 26, 2012 21:03

    I dont agree, Ive been on  a few dating cites and I never attract someone like me, I have a degree and am always looking for someone who is educated but I always attract the opposite, I am very positive and some of these men just tell me sad or negative stories no matter how I try to turn the conversation around Or I will try to chat about meaningful things and they just want to talk about " your cute " or "what are you doing tonight"
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