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Posted on Thu, Aug 16, 2012 09:11

What is the most desirable trait another person can possess?



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Posted on Wed, Apr 02, 2014 16:12

Kindness. 

 

Loyalty, Honesty, Integrity.. these all apply on a more.. relationship-based spectrum, in my opinion. 

Whether that's just as friends or more. 

Still, they are all good traits to have, that's true.

 

However, a single act of kindness can mean a great deal to someone. 

It can be something they remember forever. 

Something that keeps them smiling. 

 

Even if they never see that person again.

 

So.. for me, I think true kindness would be a very admirable trait. 

 

 



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Posted on Mon, Mar 31, 2014 05:39

Most desirable trait:

My vote is LOYALTY. I am agreeing with @sweetlyamazing 's post.

 

Hands down, loyalty sums up all the traits that are important like the ones everyone has already mentioned but in my opinion it includes:

- Trust

- Respect

- Honor

- Commitment

 

I would say those are 4 strong platforms of a relationship. When I say relationship, it applies to a friendship or an intimate relationship. Whichever applies to your original question, you would know. Since this is a dating site, I am going to assume an intimate relationship. Which brings me to my next point.

 

The question at the top of this blog is " What is the most desirable trait a person can possess?"

 

A sensible answer would be one of the many that have posted on this forum of what their definition is or their opinion in words. Maybe even a picture of what they see as the most desirable trait to possess.

Pureness, warmth, caring, consideration, humility... just to name a few that are above this post.

Some on here have added a picture onto this forum along with their answer, I'm assuming to make their response stand out. This doesn't make sense to me hardly at all. A trait is not something you can offer or present. A trait is not determinded by any physical advantages or gifts. It is something you have and the backbone to what you stand for. The reason why you would have morals and values.

It is something you are, not something that has to impress anyone.

So like I said in the beginning, my opinion hands down, is definitely loyalty.

Being true to yourself, no matter what. People that possess this most desirable trait don't have to try, it just beams through their skin. 



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Posted on Thu, Mar 20, 2014 20:23

I love humility in a match. Humor, intelligence, kind-heartedness are all great things...

 

but humility (as Su 5ie said) is huge for me.



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Posted on Wed, Feb 26, 2014 19:05

A very sincere interested great listener

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Posted on Tue, Feb 25, 2014 12:41

The ability to LOVE, and to be LOVED in return. Because love is the embodiment ( the total ) of all of the other desirable traits. 



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Posted on Mon, Feb 24, 2014 10:34

Fearlessness



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Posted on Sun, Jan 12, 2014 11:49

intelligence.



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Posted on Tue, Jan 07, 2014 15:26

Great feed back everyone!! :-)  But Id like to add " A Beautifull Inner Soul".



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Posted on Sat, Jan 04, 2014 16:03

Appreciation is the most desirable trait another person can possess. There are countless more desireable traits; however, I think having an appreciative heart (Gratitude, thankfulness, gratefulness) ranks the highest because it encompasses ones personal life and work life. Loyalty, honesty, kindness, chilvary, and integrity are character choices which changes based on a situation. Situations and persons does not alter a person whom has an appreciative heart.  Some traits of an appreciative heart are:


  • He or she would be thankful for a glad of ice water or 100 year aged wine.
  • Waste is minimized
  • Efforts are acknowledged
  • Moments are maximized
  • Time is respected
  • Intimacy is respected (Note: my definition equates intimacy to be of a bigger value than sex)
  • Order is welcomed
  • Opportunities to learn are seized
  • Important relationships honored
  • The daily actions speaks louder than words



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Posted on Wed, Dec 18, 2013 20:16

That is probably the saddest thing I've heard....but unfortunately, lack of manners seems to be the way the world is heading. The best compliment I am given as a parent, is that my children (5 & 8) have beautiful manners, which to me are the basis upon which all those other traits are built....call me old fashioned.....



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Posted on Tue, Dec 10, 2013 17:41

Quoting Lotus7330:

Intigrity .  I am sorry to say , for a year , The two gentlemen I have dated   Both  were lacking the  integrity they claim to have.  i start believing , it is not their fault , it is mine who I did not believemy-intuition      

 

Hi Lotus7330,

 

I totally agree with you, however I would expand the comment to “high moral values”,

 

And yes it’s sad that there are so many liars out there but it’s also true that all of us (women) tend to believe anything even when deeply in our hearts we know something is wrong.

 

 



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Posted on Mon, Dec 09, 2013 20:11

Intigrity .  I am sorry to say , for a year , The two gentlemen I have dated   Both  were lacking the  integrity they claim to have.  i start believing , it is not their fault , it is mine who I did not believemy-intuition      



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Posted on Mon, Dec 09, 2013 17:57

Loyalty: regardless of the circumstances at hand you know that person will stand by your side and respect you no matter what. Therefore you two already have the understanding that you are on the same team. 

Now in regards to what I mentioned above that means once loyalty is established other values already fell into place. You can't have a winning team with out effective communication and trust in eachothers abilities. When one is weak the other is strong and when the team is losing they are willing to fight to keep the team in the game. They are also bonded. 

I believe in order for loyalty to be established you must have trust, honesty, clarity, respect, communication, a game plan and a team.

With that being said, I value you Loyalty above all else. 



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Posted on Sun, Dec 08, 2013 07:47

passion to live life to the fullest. 

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Posted on Sat, Dec 07, 2013 06:17

Honesty..



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Posted on Thu, Dec 05, 2013 14:55

Honesty, integrity, and chivalry.



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Posted on Wed, Dec 04, 2013 21:07

An awesome sense of humor. It's the most attractive quality a man can possess. :)



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Posted on Wed, Nov 06, 2013 11:57

Caring and consideration



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Posted on Mon, Oct 14, 2013 16:52

humble,respect,passion

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