Haven't really managed to get a conversation going in the 6 months I've been a member, never mind find love. However I will continue to dedicate at least 6 hours a day to this as I have been for the past 28 years. I will NOT be defeated.
I just signed up as a free member. I want to see if there is anything real about that site before I pay. I had another poor experience with a similar site ashleymaddison, and I am afraid this would be same a bunch of fake profiles, women winking you so you are forced into a pay membership, scammer trying to get money...etc. will see time will tell at least my expectations are very low, so I can only be happily surprised.
Wait a minute, you were on a disgusting, degrading site where the scum of the Earth (ashleymaddison) are members and you expected to have a good, wholesome experience?! Ohh, that is the funniest thing I 've read so far today!! Thanks for the laugh!
I am wondering if anyone has found love on here? What have you experienced? Godd or Bad? Thanks for your time ;-)
No, dear, This is a medical website. A psychological treatment for the people with low self esteem. I am not joking.
A psychological treatment for people with low self esteem.
The most appropriate statement for this and any site that is considered an "online dating site.", and I will include myself in that because I have been searching for that magic person and have fallen far short of finding anyone to fill the bill.
Not wishing to be accused of plagerism, I do hope you won't mind if I borrow that phrase from time to time.
No, I have not found love here, or on any of the multiple sites that I have placed a profile on over the past 3 + years.
It has just been recently that I am not at all sure but what most, if not all, are a scam just to get you to pay up.
Yes, I do realize these sites cost them money to run but the come ons regarding it is free to join, without the disclaimer that in order to really connect with anyone will cost you is sorely lacking.
Ironically, I did find love on a basic pen pal site.... twice. One wanted to marry me, but I was too uncertain and the other I wanted to marry, but he only wanted a relationship. But that is a story for another day.
What I have found out being on here is that I have had 3 men wink at me with the little note that says
"I found your profile interesting and would like to hear from you."
And on all three, within 2 days apart, I click the button to read the profile and get the following message.
"The member XXXXXXX cannot be found. Try again. If you still receive this message, it may have resulted from one of the following reasons:"
Well, it is their button to link to these men. All 3 had different user names, however 2 were quite similar.
So, tells me that it is their way to get me to pay up.... (I am only a gold member for a month)...
I am not paying. I am going to be closing my account after the balance of the moth iis over.
And it is just not here either.
I get the teasers from other sites as well. And spent some time over this past weekend emailing those
that I could on other sites to ask them if they were real, to pleas write and let me know.
So far have not heard from a single one....
So, only my opinion but I truly believe that your are not going to find your soul mate on a site like this.
I have no idea how you would but a local matchmaker might be a better option.
Great question! I've only been a member for 2 days but I wondered the same thing. So far, I have received a few winks but I would love to hear from people who have been on the site for some time...
I've been on here for a few years, only a few months as a paid member. As a paid member, I got a lot of scammers and winks. Now that I am on here as a free member, I have recently been in communication with hopes something will work out with us. He reached out to me as a paid member.
It's a numbers game, so to speak because it's not a game. But, you do have to reach out on a continual basis when your not a paid member, a wink or comment. If they like your profile, they will be in contact.
Hope this helps, it's not a lot of fun being alone for Valentines Day. :(
If I found love on here, I would not be on here. I just joined and someone that I sent a wink to responded right away that he doesn't make millions. I NEVER ASKED! So much for finding anyone with looks, personal and security.
Seriously, if every single picture in your profile is you either in lingere or a bikini how can you possibly be surprised that men come on to you for sex? That's what you're selling and that's what they are trying to buy.
I understand that you are trying to showcase your assets, but every. single. picture? Dial it down if you're looking for a quality relationship.