I was always under the impression that the man picked the woman up or you met halfway in public. So there would be no pressure. Maybe I have been out of this way too long but please fill me in. Am I missing something?
I was just wondering since a lot of them want me to fly out to them stay at their house and so on. I know the world is different now. This isn't Victorian times where you knew everyone down to their 4th cousin removed. I was just troubled that people would actually not think that , hey maybe she is looking out for her own safety. And has nothing to do with me.