Lot of them do not pay for membership, because it would add a credit card number to their file. A credit card also has a name attached to it. But, if you ask me, it is also an extra protection to them to make it more difficult to be discovered. The biggest issue here is this.Lot of extra successful business men are duchbags. They don't have a heart, which makes it really easy for them to step on people. In the business world, not to have feelings is an advantage. Believe me, I met the biggest scumbag of four years of online dating here.