There is a situation with friend of mine. The girl who bean leaving with a boyfriend almost for two years... she bean ckooking for him cleaning after him, doing loundry for him, did everything to please him, and one thing she ever asked from him to pay a litle more atention to her, she waned to feel be loved... He bean smoking weed for a long time, and what he bean doing all the time, coming home from work, smoke a blond, watch hockey or basketball...and no atention to her... lately she start feeling lonley with him, she stop feeling that she be loved, he didnt pay enough atention to her... She got pragnant, now she three moth pragnant...One and a half moth a go they got in to fight, and he got very angry at her, and he kicked her out from the apartment, she didnt have a money, no place to go, no body, her family far away no job, and she is pragnant, and up heart broking.......She is very sweet, honest, open, friendley person, loves to comunicate with people...but when she meet her boyfriend she lost conection with every body,her friend use to love her, but because of her boyfriend they didnt want to talk to her anymore, becase they didn't like him... Now she is alon heart broking, lost, doesnt know what to do with her life, she want's to desapeare run away from everything...... And i'm just consern, and woried about her...... and i don't know how to halp...
And want to know, what oyher people think about this setuation? And how many guys out there, who would date a pregnant lady, and halp her out???
The solution is simple - stop picking men for the worst possible reason.
I've seen this stuff before - 9 times out of 10, the guy is tall, charming, and has a bit of money.
The girl picked the douchebag for those reasons.
I can guarantee that she ignored some short, awkward guy in the bar on the same day that douchebag asked her out - because it happens every single night. Now she wants some nice guy to come and treat her nice - after she let the douchebag have his fun.
You want to be treated well? Make that your FIRST priority. You know those movies where they do make-overs? There is a reason why they take the nice dowdy girl and make her pretty rather than take the mean pretty girl and make her nice.
Same thing works with men. You can take a nice guy and teach him to dress better, make more money, (can't make him tall). But you can NEVER make a mean tall attractive guy nice.