Rohoney - Lol!!! You are damn right - completely agree with you and at the same time lmao! Cos you are so funny with 'huh?'
Anyhow hidden author or shall I say Adele 123? Why, if we can trust you and you are so moved by the deplorable state of human-to-human trust, have you hidden your profile? Why???
And yes, my first date on another site, was a man who took it upon himself to visit me in the UK all the way from the US. He was coming over and booked to stay in a nearby hotel for a few days. I still checked him out inside out before agreeing to his visit to be sure he is who he says he is. It turned out he was who he was and very fairly well-known in his town and field of industry. I checked his profession, his address, his extended family info, his marital status, background check for criminal records etc - why not? I felt safer that at least he was genuine and that he was single. We are still in contact till date.
As for HIV and STD or STI status, you cannot ask for these and you certainly are under no obligation to have sex or UNSAFE sex with anyone you chose not to have sex with unless of course you plan to plead rape - which again, reiterates the fact that checking and verifications are for your own good!
On the flip side, I have actually been informed by some Nigerian men that the would-be sexual object is subjected to a barrage of sexual health check-up and cleared as clean before they can perform cunnilingus on such a woman, but they do not mind receiving fellatio from the same person prior to the tests! How selfish, rude and infinitely stupid is that?