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  • View author's info Author Posted on Dec 12, 2011 at 09:12 PM

    I have been on this website for about 3-4 months and no one takes an interest in me. I have been single going on 3 years. Is there something wrong with me?

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  • View author's info Posted on Aug 08, 2012 at 05:46 AM

    When a guy reads "my daughter is my world and I won't let anything get in the way" he thinks "so, what would I be to this woman?"  I am not saying that you should not put in the piece about your daughter, but you should also put in a piece about what the man in your life would mean to you and where he would fit.

    Also, and please don't take offense at this... you say you are "Very good looking" but your pictures are not very flattering.  Why not dress up a bit and have someone take some nice pictures of you in nice surroundings.  Just look at the two women who have replied to your note.  Both have very nice pictures that show more than what they look like, it shows what kind of life they lead, how happy they are and how attractive they are.  (Actually, if I lived closer to bepositive I'd probably be chasing her!)

    Good luck and keep your head up and remain positive.  It will happen.
  • View author's info Posted on Dec 13, 2011 at 09:14 PM

    It is not a question of something being "wrong" with anybody. It is a question of attraction and connection.  I have been single for over 5 years and, though I have dated, I have not quite found the love of my life.  I think, howeve, we can't give up and we can't put the burden on ourselves.  All we can do is try and try again.  Good luck my friend.
  • View author's info Posted on Dec 13, 2011 at 12:14 PM

    well Pink,
    If I can be candid......I read your profile and see you are still very young and have many more years to experience life.  Your profile sounds negative, sounds like you have "attitude".  You may want to tone it down and focus on the positive things in your life and be positive in what you want.  It sounds more like a teenager that won't take crap from anyone.  Being outspoken is one thing but having an opinion is another.
    I would not be looking for love on a site like this.  Instead, focus on your schooling and your daughter and let love find you.
    Good Luck honey.
  • View author's info Posted on Dec 13, 2011 at 08:19 AM

    Firstly, there is absolutely nothing wrong with you and you are not the first to question the lack of interest here. There could be very simple reasoning such as location , not within age range or just merely not ones type  behind this that has nothing to do with who you are as a person.
    Everybody will have there own opinion of this site but one thing is for sure there a correlation between showings pics that leave very little to the imagination and interest, and one cannot read too much into some peoples profiles. Keep your options opened on other mediums to connect to people this site is not the only option opened for that purpose, and remember there are many who share your disappointment in this site overall.
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