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Posted on Thu, Dec 08, 2011 19:17

If love is something so fundamentally important to us, then why is it that we have so many issues and misunderstandings in the area of finding it?



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Posted on Tue, Dec 13, 2011 21:17

You make a very profound statment.  We seek but we do not find.  I suppose some are lucky and find the love of their life.  Others seek and seek and find nobody.  I don't know the answer.  It almost seems random.



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Posted on Sun, Dec 11, 2011 20:39

Quoting trinienglish:

I totally agree with your view on this topic, we all seem to looking for love but somehow I think most of us are not wanting to be truthful about who we are, so we join these sites with little or no real information then wonder why its so difficult to find the right person.

Personally I would like to see more information from the guys about who they really are, it seems that being honest and truthful is a hard thing for some guys to do, it is as if they are scared to tell the whole truth, for example many lie about their age, or say they are fit where they maybe a little overweight but saying that some women do the same, so when meeting there is a sense of let down.

So please just be truthful guys, thats all I ask, you may find I would love you more for your honsety.



They should have the Thumbs Up icon to click on :) The bottom line is to be honest and volunteer information on your profile, it would be less frustrating for everyone involved. Good luck!



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Posted on Sat, Dec 10, 2011 12:52

I totally agree with your view on this topic, we all seem to looking for love but somehow I think most of us are not wanting to be truthful about who we are, so we join these sites with little or no real information then wonder why its so difficult to find the right person.

Personally I would like to see more information from the guys about who they really are, it seems that being honest and truthful is a hard thing for some guys to do, it is as if they are scared to tell the whole truth, for example many lie about their age, or say they are fit where they maybe a little overweight but saying that some women do the same, so when meeting there is a sense of let down.

So please just be truthful guys, thats all I ask, you may find I would love you more for your honsety.



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Posted on Fri, Dec 09, 2011 11:11

I could go on and on about this topic but I think the most common issue is that men do not communicate who they are. I have to slowly pry the answers out of them. I don't want to come across like the Drill Sargeant so it is this process that takes some time. I would prefer reading it in his profile and what isn't stated there, then just tell me,sooner than later! I don't like having to solve mysteries when it comes to men.

On the other hand, I think the majority of women state more clearly who they are and what they want,I know I do :) If there are questions left unanswered from my profile, I answer them ASAP because I would rather not waste time.

Here is an example of men misrepresenting themselves: stating "spiritual but not religious" or some leaving the question blank,etc. I have asked a few men where they stand regarding religion and I have had varying answers that were completely different from what they posted!! Why don't you save all the effort of discussing and just state the facts!

Here is another example that just happened the other day. Regarding the list regarding children, my crush did click on "sometimes they live at home" at least. Now what he should have stated was that soon, he will have full custody of his 5 year old son! That would have been helpful to know, just a small detail in his life! I was being sarcastic in case someone didn't realize it.

So to anyone reading this, please take a look at your profile and make some changes if necessary! Be informative, you never know who will like you and be happy to accept your circumstances and your beliefs,etc., etc.