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Posted on Fri, Nov 25, 2011 21:13

Has anybody tried using a matchmaker?  I have paid for 3 at quite an expense.  I found dates once a month but not matches. I found they only matched me with their clients--mostly wealthy women who had a hard time meeting men.  In most of the cases I felt they were trying to buy a husband.   I rarely had any attraction to them. I should have learned after the first one, but I kept thinking a different matchmaker would work.  I'm not sure if I'm looking for advice, pity, a brick in the head, or what.  I'm just laying it out there.



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Posted on Wed, Dec 28, 2011 20:13

Quoting Orlando__:

Stacia777.... I have been told in the past not to try to hard.  The person will come to me when I finally stop trying.  I tried that for months and years at a time.  The only thing that came to me was loneliness and zero dates.  I'm sure it works for others, but for me it was a bust.



Orlando, take a look around you. There are plenty of girls at the mall, crossing the street, at nicer dance halls, at street fairs, on a Bus, in the subway, yes, even at churches. God gave you feet and a mouth, use it.

No women will approach you unless that's her job at a dump bar.
It's for you to do. Rule #1: Feel confident of yourself and start approaching anyone who attracts you. Walk up and strike up a very short conversation. Make a silly excuse for the reason you walking up to her. Then keep it short, let your macho flow, ask her for her phone number, then drop the conversation politely, and leave.
If you keep talking, you lost her. Then call her to have some java or Sunday Soda, NO dinner yet. Chances are 95% dinner will loose her. (There's a reason) Take it from there. The field is wide open, so many fish, you just need practice with the bait.



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Posted on Wed, Dec 28, 2011 19:44

Orlando, I think your trying tooooo hard.
Something about women I discovered, if you give your heart they'll step on it. If you ignore their advances they will run after you.

I read a book shown on Dr. Phil, Attraction Formula, which after reading many statements therein confirmed my feelings. It doesn't matter how much money you have, nor if your skinny, fat, too short, and non-muscular, big penis or small, education, nor a flashy suit -- the little secret is to be able to communicate, to be able to interact. And let her do the talking.
Don't brag about yourself, even though I'm self made in the 20's of millions, as far as they know I'm just another slob. I want a woman to love me, not my achievements, not my estate, not my golf clubs.

And being yourself (funny if possible) is the greatest attraction. I don't know why I'm here, I'm much too sincere, and I'm not even looking. Also American women must be handled different from the rest of the world. They are a specie of their own.



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Posted on Wed, Dec 28, 2011 18:23

Which ones did you try? I just wrote to 3 matchmakers. I am not sure yet if I want to take that route, just gathering info so far



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Posted on Fri, Dec 02, 2011 16:20

Stacia777.... I have been told in the past not to try to hard.  The person will come to me when I finally stop trying.  I tried that for months and years at a time.  The only thing that came to me was loneliness and zero dates.  I'm sure it works for others, but for me it was a bust.



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Posted on Thu, Dec 01, 2011 15:10

I truely feel you should stop looking so hard to find your PERFECT partner and allow nature to take it's course. If one of these woman were the RIGHT one would, you have been ready for a commitment? Sometimes in life we think we are ready for the next step wether it be with a partner or job or move. But looking back on events and realizing there was a purpose why we our wants were not met and in that process you realized how YOU learned from rejection or closed doors. I believe in destiny and also believe in putting yourself out there to go after what you want. But in this case I would not want to settle because your search has provided no results... Relax, enjoy your friends and family. It will happen!!!

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