This site is really not working out for me. I've been on here since 2005 & have paid for membership many times only to not get any luck. Most of the men here think that they can get into my pants just because they have money or pretend they do. No I will NOT sleep with you for your money, I am looking for something real here. I want to find a friend first & we'll take it from there & maybe if there is something there a relationship is next. I haven't met one person off the website, not even one... Nobody interest me enough to meet them yet & some of them have BUT they suddenly start talking about sex.... uh no thank you! Is there ANYBODY real out there who isn't a pig... If so feel free to send me a message... Thank you!
Really? I personally do Not think so. Just yesterday watched "Evita" movie , they slept the first time they met and married later. :)
If you are both passionate people, you were looking for a right guy / girl long time and then you meet this person, why exactly you have to wait to have intimate relationship ? You are both adults with big live expirience .
Just my opinion .
Hi everyone, I am new , I registered ~ 2 weeks ago and only 1 guy wrote to me and he live very far away from me. ?
Just became a member but I am quickly getting the picture. Someone may say they are looking for companionship but continue to judge someone by their looks and age. I understand many may have lots to lose...but we are all humans and have feelings. But that is the risk we take at emotionless websites...the same risks we take when we meet anyone.
Personally, I find it entertaining to see the older men interested in younger women and the younger men looking for older women....the same everywhere. I also find the picking you out like cattle element (the pig element) interesting..but that again is life.
So I agree with others..take it for what it is. If we continue to judge books by their covers which superficial people frequently do although they say they don't and claim they have integrity, then we also run the risk of dealing with liars. Again, that is life.
So given all of the above, you have better luck meeting someone at the grocery store, the rich men and women with no integrity will get laid and that's it, and the ones with real integrity will have the hardest time meeting anyone.
Personally to me it's entertaining...but you never know....so keep your expectations very low..
Given all of the above...you have better luck meeting someone at the grocery store.
Hi, honestly dont believe i am a "pig", can say though that i am definately a friend, a good friend, companoin and indeed a lover..someone who will never make you sad..hope your past experiences werent that bad.
Just come in with a mindset of not expecting anything. You'll never know what it leads to. Feel fabulous as the woman you are and surround yourself with self love. Law of attraction will find its way.
As for me, the men who had shown interest are miles apart. Still, I enjoy the communication. There's a thing or two to learn.
Maybe I'll try eharmony.... I am just looking for a nice guy who has a reasonable enough income to support himself, someone who loves to cook, enjoys fine wine, attends different events and enjoys life. Really simple. Money doesn't buy happiness - even though it is nice to have. It all boils down to the person in the end.
Most older men are interested in younger women anyway, and with me being in my mid - forties, who knows what will happen...The forties and fifties is not what it use to be... Women and Men both looked good at those ages if they take care of themselves. I am not desperate for a guy. I am very happy in my life, and keep myself busy, so if it happens, it happens.
This site is comprised of the same thing that other sites are comprised of ... and that is a mix of individuals from every walk of life who may or may not be genuine. I treat this site as I do any other. I have met a few fabulous individuals on a plain jane site where I have connected intellectually with highly successful individuals and who I have formed true friendships with, and I definitely view this site as just another dating site. As far as the men on this site, or any other, who ask the 'gold diggers' to remain distant, this only points to the insecurities of a man who is a legend in his own mind and is unable to distinguish between a gold digger or a woman who is independent. That type of man will always feel that he is being taken advantage of in some way no matter what his financials read, is unable to form a friendship/relationship, and it has absolutely zero to do with anything but his own mindset. Communication tells all. Read between the lines because this site is not what it appears to be. It is just another site.
I'm new to site too, and just joined to peek, not to find a sex partner for a one night stand. There are plenty of one night stand web sites which will give better, if not instant results. And if your a millionaire for $100 to $400 will give you best looking woman with picture, dimensions, telephone number and email address, if sex was the object.
So I doubt most men are here for sex. Not to say it's not a byproduct, every man I know wants sex, a natural hormone for being a man. Nothing is more beautiful than the human body. And if we didn't feel that way "man" wouldn't be propagating - we'd be dying race.
My concern is quantity to choose from, in my own nearby area. I don't want fly to New York, Florida or to Europe to meet; and then have to fly repeatedly thereafter to really get to know one another. I'd say, most, if not 99%, of the gals are beautiful on this site, intelligent and sincere. I've been to many sites and they spell and write like they are still in kindergarten, therefore the men here should feel lucky.
I feel all you women give up to easy too. I myself have test procedure in my first reply, to weed out a very important criteria called compassion, maybe the other men on this site do to ? Only one woman on this site has met that criteria. A woman without compassion I would never want to marry, irregardless how intelligent or beautiful she is.
Woman on this site have a better chance than the men do to find their objective. The ball is in your court, you just need to know how to use it. Another thing comes through, most women don't give the man a chance. We all have our days and the man isn't in best shape after traveling a 100 miles or a 1000 miles, perhaps even being sidetracked by a problem from work or whatever, so he is not in his best confident state. I know women love a confident man - it shows and you fall for it. But that's only good if I want to pick-up a stranger in the library or Starbucks for fun evening. Woman are more picky then men, you have total control, you just need to look deeper.