I have been on the website for almost 3 weeks. I validiated all my information to prove I am legitimate. The searches I do looking for women, mostly all results that come back are haven't been active in over a month. Is there a search function by STATE that you can do with "current" active members?? I am ready to give up here
I am with you Jen......it is easy to check an IP address It will show you the city the email is originatinI am with you Jen......it is easy to check an IP address . It will show you the city the email is originating from. It just surprises me that MM management does not use this tool to validate emails and help weed through the crap. Hope everyone is having a great day!!g from. It just surprises me that MM management does not use this tool to validate emails and help weed through the crap. Hope everyone is having a great day!!
Of course if you rule me out based on my IP address then you're eliminating me while I'm sitting in a hotel room in some strange city or perhaps some other country. In fact, I could be at a tradeshow for a week and be emailing you from there. In fact, if I use my webmail interface on my direct email account, it will always show up as Houston, TX and I live no where near Houston, Tx. The IP address is not a be all end all, its just a tool that gives one more piece of information. Personally, I think if you start off being suspicious then you're really not ready to date. If you're looking for reasons for the relationship to fail, no matter who it is, you will find plenty.
To EasyManToLove;
Well that is an assinine statement if I ever read one! You typed, "Personally, I think if you start off being suspicious then you're really not ready to date. If you're looking for reasons for the relationship to fail, no matter who it is, you will find plenty."
I am really teed off by your remark. First of all I am not going to tell the world what happened to me but I will say I have been lied to several times by several "men" over the years that I have been online. The fact that I am not a cynical bi*** from all the lousy experiences is a testament to my good character. An apology from you is in order here. Are we supposed to be fools? Is that what you want in a woman, or do u want one with a brain and a heart? By the way, most of us realize that it is always perfectly clear where your laptop,etc. may be messaging from by a lot of times it is clear.
Waiting for my apology. And since you posted quite a while ago and there is no tagging system here, I imagine I will be waiting forever for you to apologize.
I have come close to,Sounds silly,I have met some nice men,once you start to talk,their agenda is different.
To each his own,I want a man who is also beautiful in the heart and soul,not so much the toys ,I'm happy who I am ,dont need to buy prada etc.I want to enjoy and love forever just one Man.And share each others hobbies friends and family, Have a beautiful search,Vickie
To find current active members you just need to login and do a search. The most recent results are from members who have logged in within 3 days and a week..the further down the pages you go then its guesswork when they last logged in. Even being a Gold member won't help you.
Lots of fake profiles but there are genuine people here too so you need a lot of time and a lot of patience to find them. And some you think are fake are not actually fake. I've been fooled a few times.
On the positive side this dating website is far better than any free dating site like Plenty of Fish. You're more likely to get a reply here as women are not bombarded with 100s of messages a day like they are on free sites.
ALL THE TIME!!! YOU HAVE 2B ON YOUR TIPPY TOES TO KEEP UP WITH THE PHONIES. WHY LIE IS WHAT I ALWAYS ASK? THE DIRT THAT PEOPLE DO EVENTUALLY WILL COME TO THE SURFACE. WHY PROLONG THEE INEVITABLE? IT'S LAUGHABLE!!! HAHAHAHAHAHA
I am with you Jen......it is easy to check an IP address It will show you the city the email is originatinI am with you Jen......it is easy to check an IP address . It will show you the city the email is originating from. It just surprises me that MM management does not use this tool to validate emails and help weed through the crap. Hope everyone is having a great day!!g from. It just surprises me that MM management does not use this tool to validate emails and help weed through the crap. Hope everyone is having a great day!!
Of course if you rule me out based on my IP address then you're eliminating me while I'm sitting in a hotel room in some strange city or perhaps some other country. In fact, I could be at a tradeshow for a week and be emailing you from there.
In fact, if I use my webmail interface on my direct email account, it will always show up as Houston, TX and I live no where near Houston, Tx.
The IP address is not a be all end all, its just a tool that gives one more piece of information.
Personally, I think if you start off being suspicious then you're really not ready to date. If you're looking for reasons for the relationship to fail, no matter who it is, you will find plenty.
In reply to TheSizzlingChef, thank you for saying what I could not have put into words in such an eloquent way! If people are looking for a real genuine person, then they should stop expecting that to come in a package that fits the stereotypical model, male or female.
I have two homes, in two very different areas, also travel some...so the IP address from any email could be from any of those locations. It is not such valid way to discount someone. I would imagine many people on this site might have that same experience. The whole idea of these sites is to meet and talk with people, in those conversations the truth usually ends up floating to the top. Any one can be dishonest, whether you meet then on here or xmas shopping...people are the same all over. Good, bad, indifferent, you just have to invest the interest to find the sincere gentlemen. I have met some wonderful men on here. Not "him" yet but nice, intelligent engaging people. I have enjoyed meeting the people I have on this site. You just have to be careful, discearning, and honest with them too. So no, I do not feel scammed at all. I am a busy person and this site allows me the chance to meet a diverstiy of people with little exposure risk until I feel comfortable enough to meet them in person. Will admit, those meetings are rare, but then I have taken the time to get to now them through conversations, before hand and have not had a bad experience on here yet. Just have to be careful and do your due diligence so to speak, until you are comfortable with the "meet". I also email their profile to a friend who then knows where and when I am seeing that person...just sort of my common sense approach to internet acquaintances. Just my take, I guess, been lucky so far with it. Wish all of you the best on here.
I am with you Jen......it is easy to check an IP address It will show you the city the email is originatinI am with you Jen......it is easy to check an IP address . It will show you the city the email is originating from. It just surprises me that MM management does not use this tool to validate emails and help weed through the crap.
Hope everyone is having a great day!!g from. It just surprises me that MM management does not use this tool to validate emails and help weed through the crap.
Hope everyone is having a great day!!
I WAS scammed so yes, I do feel scammed :( He was from another site. Maybe there are inactive members on here and some scammers but it seems to me to be a better site than others I have been on.
If I start communicating with someone, I want to get an email sent to me asap at my regular email address so I can trace it. Trace their IP addresses, it is easy to do, if I can do it then anyone can.
This site does have photos of some scammers in a forum thread so everyone should look there for any familiar faces.
I have yet to see or hear from anyone on this planet that does not have a complaint about the any of the million plus dating/match making sites on the Internet.
In perspective, regardless whether you are a male of female, this planet has 7 billion people now, and that alone is one hell of a haystack to find but just one genuine and honest person.
Patience, perseverance, due diligence, common sense and intellect will eventually pay off.
I have had more then my fair share of beautiful woman sit across from me, but found out that their inner beauty was over shadowed by their egotistical outer beauty. If you are only focusing on the wrapping of the gift( outer beauty), as opposed to the gift itself ( his/her inner beauty), then why bother shopping? Get my point?
CallmeOrlando.. so you have met dropdead gorgeous women..and what happened to them? why are you still posting your profile heerrre??? LOL
Meeting a drop dead gorgeous woman doesn't mean there is any chemistry. That would be pretty shallow of me if I just connected based on looks only.
P.S. I changed my user name to my Orlando. It is my name. Ha.
a joke of a site. FREE,,hell,,,most exspensive one ive found, again some women are either scammers wanting you to sign into their pay porn sites or they posted their high school pics and are now way UGLY.... Anyone
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