For me the key is the word normal. There is no such thing. There is the famous line about having 2.6 children. That is an average, but obviously no one has 2.6 children. The truth is you are not looking for a normal person. Everyone has specific things they are looking for.
Most people I know are shallow. Men clearly want beauty. But women are just as shallow. Check the URL we are using.
That's OK. Nothing wrong with being a bit shallow, we all are. Me, you, your parents, your pastor, everyone. Even Ghandi and Martin Luther King Jr. were a little bit shallow. (Martin, god bless his peaceful soul, was very shallow).
The problem happens when people do not realize they are being shallow. They set up incrediblly difficult barriers and say "All I want is a Supermodel".
The original poster's profile specifies 5'9" or taller. That's the average height for the US. So she has already thrown out half the US male population. Thats OK. But she also apparently wants someone at least in the top 10% wealth of the population. (honestly, real wealth starts at 1%, but I am assuming she is not greedy). So now she is looking for 5% of the population.
But guess what, she's not the only one looking for that 5%. Most women want men over 5'9" and most women want a wealthy husband. This means that if you are a nice guy. 5'9" or taller, and wealthy than you are FAR more likely to be taken.
So what ends up happening is she ignores the nice, average, normal guys and waits around for the rich, tall men to ask her out and to also be single and pleasant.
She isn't looking for a 'normal' guy. She wants someone above average and has not yet realized it.
That is the problem. I took me a long time to realize that I had high standards and that was what was keeping me single. Nothing wrong with that - as long as you know that is what you are doing.
I am not sure what a "Hot Woman" is....but if the standard says Victoria Silvestedt I am in agreement. Beautiful woman (I've met a lot of them) are often more interesting because they've been around the world more often than not. No sane succesful man invites a 250 pound buffelo in a trip to the Amazon, Paris or anywhere. The assertion that beautiful women are dumb and boring is also untrue. Beautiful people suffer from insecurity (I did) and all the other ills of life anyone else does. To get a beautiful woman to undress and keep coming back takes confidence, performance and in some cases lots of money. I don't blame "beautiful" women to go after rich guys since being with most guys is a drag anyway they might as well enjoy the security. LOL
lol at normal guys part.. every guy is normal- yes some stare..some play around n some act like assholes bt thats probly a part of who they r. its easy to find bt sometimes we js tend to look at d wrong aspect. i do agree it might be a bit difficult 2 find a guy bcz most men go by what they see...bt trust me once they r willing 2 settle consider ur self lucky lol
From my experience, hot women usually want normal men, coz they are fed up of hot men, who think no end of themself...and its a big challange for a women to get a normal man to her, coz she thinks, ahh there is one guy who is normal, maybe does not want to come straightward and ask.....here I think this is then like an adventure for a women.
I like quiet, shy, normal guys.....my mind just goes bonkers, and its a big challange for me to break thru him...
Normal guys may think, aah this women is definately looking out for some hot guys, since she looks hot...not all the time right...
so guys if you want something go get it....
Honest nice woman writes to a new man about plans together while he is confused does he needs more than 16mo. to start dating after his ex kicked him out. When a new woman with patience waits 8days for his email he tells people here his email adress & he forgets who is who. So does he needs a psychiatrist? What does he needs to move on? why when there is a very deserving woman he still can't trust anyone? What if there is no other man to date but this one? Is it possible for him to put himself together & be a good match for the best girl?What to expect from somebody like him? How it all gonna end up?
Define normal. Men, aren't we all normal?
Most "hot" women are about themselves just saying they're hot
is a clue. If a "hot" woman speaks and shows some personality without being all
ego will no doubt get asked for a date.
This is interesting. First time on a Forum.
Men stare and do nothing because of two things:
1) they are afraid of rejection from an attractive woman (it stings for us as well and we are only human);
2) if you don't give us a smile at least, we aren't getting a cue to come over and say hello. How do we know you aren't waiting for another man to arrive, or that you're spoken for or even interested in women!??
A nice smile when you catch the eye will go a long way. If a bloke can't find the courage to follow up on that, he isn't worth another thought.
Dating is a tough old thing, made worse by society and conventions. Maybe we need to get back to chest beating and shouting "Ug", then everything will be obvious and easy to deal with.
In all seriousness, most of us get out of practice or due to work committments, seldom go out so we all, male and female, struggle to make the most of a chance encounter.
Keep up the fight, Ladies and Gents.
Don't ask questions if you are not ready to hear answers :) Please read that part of dating tips which says what pictures better not to post. Hourglass, you have nice curves but guys might get nervous by seeing a messy bedroom in your pics. Do your homework and you'll see the result! Happy New Year!
I don't even go for a hot woman, their just fun to look at.
I found too many are stuck up and just think of themselves. I just go for the eyes, they tell me if she cares, is a flirt, or only wants to show herself off. Maybe I'm wrong sometimes, but my senses are usually very sharp.