LOL @ CG!!!! Ur just a "NUT!" :)

(Princess says in her non-Italian accent way while moving her hand .. "Ima workin on it!")

IS.. well if its mutually agreeable then straight away, makes sense, lifes to short enjoy what you can when you can .. and why beat around the bush - straight to the point, has always worked for me, reminds me of one time when .. well thats another story for another time ehy !!

I understood exactly what the author was trying to convey...

LOVEGURU is correct... I can only speak for myself.. BUT.. I know I have in the past and possibly will in the future (hopefully not!) jumped the gun on having sex too soon .. and having it blow up in my face!

I have the "body is entirely willing" syndrome.... but the emotions have not settled enough to catch up to speed!

Women I know have tended to "jump into bed" thinking they were jumping into a "relationship" and the guy just wasn't ready for this.... (and in reality neither was she.) Happened to me personally as well... I have also dealt w/ the.... "Well he will go somewhere else if I don't.. so I better..... or I will lose him.."  STUPID GIRL!! I still suffer from these afflictions btw.. IMA WORKING ON IT! LOL

Only once has the "body reacting to stimulation" worked for me in a POSITIVE light. I went to bed with my ex-husband the night we met.. (awful I know right?? QUIT THROWING STONES!! lol) When we woke up.. he told me flat out.. "If you sleep with anyone else you will not be sleeping with me!" (gotta love a man who takes command!) WE were MONOGOMOUSLY together 11 years, and have 3 precious children ...

That millionaire matchmaker lady is correct...

NO SEX WITHOUT MONOGOMY... Now perhaps monogomy happens on the first date.. or after months of dating and sharing... That is the couples call.. But if one wants a lasting, vital relationship.. I don't recommend hitting the hay w/out determining where you stand first!

SOMETIMES "CONSENT" OF THE BODY.. DOES NOT MATCH "CONSENT" OF THE HEART...

The right time is when both consent.  It could be the first date or it could be on your wedding night.  The right time is individual and situational.