...they are fake because thats them being in touch with the feminine side something their mothers have taught them - because that how their mothers behaved to get what they wanted from their husbands who are arrogant and also trying to hold on to whatever manhood they have - women -fake man - arrogant trying to get the best of both worlds to no avail and it will always be a society of jumping from one bed to another because men have never been loyal as it's part of their nature - if you have girl friend how many of the men they dated have cheated on them - just human nature - soooooo ggggooooooddddd luck your 19 your not ready for a commitment - are your just really looking for a father figure to replace the one you wished you had
Personally, I think you need to grow some more before you attempt this type of relaionship. Too many of you kids not knowing how it works and ruining it for others out here that KNOW how it all works and can do it properly. Stop thinking it's some easy rich life. You have to know how to give, and give all yourself before you take! Develop more and then go for it, but do not create the negative stigma propagating...