Why is there a such thing as WINKS. Are we in grade school. I have been on other sites that use the same and I think it is so immature. Is this not an adult site? I think if you are here  and find someone is appealing you should just say it. Say hi and ask for a response. Why wink and then if you respond to them they don't reply either. Couldn't have been that interested????.And very rude and poor manners. Not sure if this site has what I was looking for. Mature,intelligent men able to communicate............Or why favorite someone and have your profile on hold. If someone favorites me I am pleased to receive that note and would like to thank them and ask why. Anyone care to comment???

Its because to send an email you have to be a paid member.........and lots of people on here are free members so they can only use the "wink"!

I suppose you have realised now that the men who have joined here for whatever reason can't/won't pay for membership and hope that they'll get lucky at least once by bombarding all the women with winks.

Makes a joke of the reason men have joined this particular site and they are unable to pay just for membership,let alone meet a woman,go on dates etc!

I'm a paid member but when my membership ends I log off and hide my profile instead of being a silent member.

Anyway,winks are for women to let the MEN step up and message them.

Just my two cents.