Sexy is confidence. If a girl can bare all and feel good about it, good for her! Some people (guys included) might not like it, but it's a personality thing so they probably wouldn't have worked out anyway.
That being said, I don't personally feel comfortable being overt about my sexuality through pictures that everyone can see. I'd rather save that for my man in the bedroom ;)
First of all, women should look feminine. Pure class, all within your eyes. The rest to be discovered. What kind of woman your man will be proud of? 2 sexy is when you wanted by one man over and over again.
Thats just my opinion!
Oh mine, i joined this site within the last 3 days and i was in for a shock when i sneaked at the female profiles....i most say i though i might have made a huge mistake and felt out of my comfort zone but as i continued i saw some really nice profiles and relaxed.
So what is this about approving pictures prior to being able to put them on the site??
I have see more bear buttoms on this site than baby bum on labour ward.
DO guys really like this sort of thing or i'm i completely outdated now? :-)
Well, you are looking for a match right? Physical apearance is on of the criteria :) So many people try post a photo, or multiple, that shows how they look and who they are. Some being a bit extreme perhaps.... but if it's you on that picture, and it's a pretty one, why not!
Too sexy photo's to me, like bathroom close-ups' of chests, are a turn off. I am not looking for that type of guy! But some girls are :) and I've noticed that there are also ladies online here that post very sexy pictures, but actually have written a really nice profile.
In my opinion, they are just very confident. But it can definitely give the wrong impression. So, if you are taking this site very seriously, I would advice to not just have 'horny' pictures online. People will judge you based on this, even if it might not be your personality at all.
On the other hand, we are all adults, so let's not be too fuzzed about it.
Well this is am adult site.... And the concept of online sites is to get past all the b.s.
So I think it's I portent to be honest with ourselves and say its important to be both. Physical appearance is important for intamacy. You. Ust be attracted to the person. But I also think a woman needs to know how to present herself modest in needed situations. Soon my profile, I liked to show oth sides to myself. Take it or leave it. That's why I love online dating. You look, you read, you like or don't like and keep it moving. To each their own. I thin it is important for every woman to show so e of their sexy side on this site.
ALRIGHT EVERYONE, TO BE SEXY IS TO BE RESPECTABLE OF ONESELF. ONCE YOU HAVE ACHIEVE THAT DOES IT MATTER WHAT SOMEONE OTHER THE YOU AND GOD THINK? AS FOR ME I AM SEXY AND DON'T CARE WHAT ANYONE THINK ABOUT IT BUT ME. RESPECT YOURSELF AND SEE HOW GOOD IT FEELS.
When men aren't showing off thier bodies, they show off their cars, homes, vacation spots, etc... or they "word" their "assets" in their profile regarding their "accomplishments"...
I try to encompass anything I feel is a desireable trait, as well as throw some negative out there for anyone payng attention.. Cause at the end of the day.. That's what you will get.. ALL of me..
The Good, the Bad, The Ugly..
And the SEXY....... I just try to keep it real.... And as FunFitBlonde stated.. Some things we may not wear in public.. (I don't wear a certain blue dress while going out to dinner...) but if someone can see "parts" of me and visualize more.. and likes.. then great! That's what I desire.. A man who wants.. all of me...appreciates the various ways of me.. and doesn't wish to change me...
And as MARCIANO2002 stated.. Only YOU know.. We all define beauty, sexy, trashy.. etc.. in or own way... What one sees one way, another may see quite differently..
our mind is the sexiest organ that sends signals to the rest... so, 'too sexy' is a special impulse sent to you at particular moment and due to particular circumstances. I remember one yacht captain whom I'd never notice in a crowd but when I watched him during night navigation he was the sexiest man...