why wont white men date full figured black/mixed women? Interracial Relationship

  • View author's info Author posted on Apr 22, 2010 11:49


    I have seen this all over the place in san diego. All these good looking white guys dating bigger white women. And some treat their men bad. So why is it that white men will not date a bigger mixed or black female? even if they are just as pretty?
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  • View author's info posted on Aug 23, 2013 01:55


    Lol...Is he serious?!? I am a "Curvy" Full figured woman that can jog without giving out of breath. But I love my shape and wouldn't change it for anything. I know some professional athletes that love curvy "Fat" women! But everyone has their own taste!

  • View author's info posted on Jun 20, 2013 05:10


    Quoting 4EverLoyal:

    You may see white males dating large white females, however, you usually do not see white professional/successful men dating large women. Professional men go for image, whatever makes them look good and stand out. The ego of these men really rule.

    That's it pretty much regarding professional/successful white men.
    Not all successful white men but a majority of them definitely have an image to portray and having a bigger women next to them (white or black) is not one. Many of them will show off about who has the bigger business, bigger bank account, bigger yatch, bigger house etc. many also wish they had bigger cocks, but when it comes to their women, bigger is almost never better.
    He'd rather have the slim, petite (usually blonde) female, and that's his perogative, to each his own. Personally I think it's shallow and tells a lot about a guy when he boxes himself in and makes choices like choosing a sugar baby/date/life partner etc. soley based on looks or what would be acceptable in his circle. But again his decision, people do what makes them happy. I think it's definitely about boosting ones ego. In my experience many professional/successful white men have low self esteem and having a hot young woman is a huge boost to their self-esteem, and that's what they may need. It could be a good thing for them.

    In my experience, your average joe kinda guy is much more open minded and down to earth, unfortunately for the larger sugar baby seeking that kind of guy, the bank account of the average joe is also average or below.
  • View author's info posted on Dec 29, 2012 14:04


    You may see white males dating large white females, however, you usually do not see white professional/successful men dating large women. Professional men go for image, whatever makes them look good and stand out. The ego of these men really rule.
  • View author's info posted on Dec 14, 2012 10:18


    Depends on what you mean by "full figured"
  • View author's info Photo Verified posted on Apr 21, 2012 20:49


    I have noticed that the thinner I become the more attention I get from caucasian men.  I think that they just like smaller women.  Not all but at least the ones that I have run into.  I think that every culture has it's own characteristics that they prize.  You can see that around the globe.  But more than anything, it's confidence.  If you're showing, in actions or words, that you somehow feel inferior .. they will pick up on it.
    Do you.  Be the best person you can be.  Someone who will look at only a person's size is too shallow to deal with.
  • View author's info posted on Apr 08, 2012 16:07


    Your turn will come, just keep your health a top priority.
  • View author's info posted on Apr 30, 2010 10:56


    I hadn't noticed successful white men dating full figured women of any race. I think most men date women who they believe their friends, collegues and neighbors will view as a trophy. Overweight women, older women and any woman who is not white are usually not viewed as trophy women. A trophy woman is young, thin, with long hair. Sometimes this includes mixed race, Latina and Asian women. Men are very competetive with each other. Women are just part of how men keep score. If a man thinks a woman's ethnicity, size or personality will pull down his social status vis-a-vis other men, he won't date her. Forget about marrying her. There are some men who are very secure with themselves and will date a person based on her character, but mostly, men are visual and competetive. Some men have scored so high on their own, without the woman in the equation, that they feel comfortable enough to date whomever they wish. For most men, however, their women are like their cars, just one way of how they compete with other men.
    And to be fair, lets face it. Women look for money. Men rate women based on her looks and women rate men based on their wallets. We'd all be happier if we looked for people who are good matches based on personality and character.
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