Religious posing as Non-religious... countless. (You see them on one site clearly marked as Jewish/Muslim/Hindu etc. and another (i.e. this one) marked as non-religious).
Those are the ordinary, day-to-day lies that we all encounter. What are some of the extreme lies?
i.e. bartender who says they're a federal judge, school teacher posing as famous actress.
For instance, I met one lady for coffee who said she was a flight attendant... nice looking, friendly and seemed "normal" enough. I asked her what airline she worked for and she said "Huh?" So I repeated my question as: "Your profile. You said you were a flight attendant... which airline do you work for?" She said "Oh that! That's just what men like to hear!" Her real occupation had NOTHING to do with the airline industry or even travel for that matter.
I couldn't help it. The comment about the height and the other not married and seeking a long term relationship. It is absolutely amazing to see some of the chicanery. Really? You say you're 6' and only 5'2"? Hmmm...I'm sure it's close...
Yep, it happens. My women friends tell me about these tales all the time...
When I met my ex boyfriend, he said he had a Masters. Only after a year did he tell me that he didn't finish his undergraduate degree. No we didn't break up because of this reason. However, as one that has four Masters and a PHD -- all I can say is that I worked really hard to achieve my goals. Often, sleepless nights. I takes a lot of effort to earn those degrees.
I fell in love with the profile photo, we emailed and phoned for about 6 weeks. He flew to see me. When I picked him up at the airport, he was 20 years older and looked nothing like his photo. I spun around the airport and dropped him back off.
I fell in love with the profile photo, we emailed and phoned for about 6 weeks. He flew to see me. When I picked him up at the airport, he was 20 years older and looked nothing like his photo. I spun around the airport and dropped him back off.
This might be hillirious or stupid to some but i can asure you it's definately hurting.
Being told i love you. Met and dated for six months then proposed. Felt for it as he acted gentlaman and agreed to marry him. After 2months of no contact he e-mails three recent photo of his marriage with a headline ; ''I found the love of my life,,
Well... besides of all the meeting people who uploaded other people's pictures and all that, I think the worst lie is "I'm smart"... once I went out with this guy who had been asking me out for over a month and he had said he liked art and literature... all lies... he was indeed VERY tall and handsome, exactly the way he was in the pictures but OH MY! He was sooooooooo boring... He was posing all the time and being nonsensical and shallow, it was a NIGHTMARE! I think I was never so cruel in my life as I was with him... I just told him he was extremely boring, lacked personality and disgusted me. I should have known better than to expect interesting conversation from a model...
I don't know whether to laugh @ these or cryyy.....
Some are absolutely off the scale here! If a man came from another state, much less COUNTRY to see me.. the ONLY reason I would leave him alone were if he has misled me on how he looked, (I would webcam first) what he was after (just sex) or if he treated me disrespectful! So BLAZING.. if you did none of those things.. YOU DODGED A REAL BULLET THERE!
LOL @ the "over the ex" comment!
SAIL.. It seems any man under 5'10" LIES ABOUT HIS HEIGHT! I am sooo sick of it!
And "average" weight? Well I guess since 67% of Americans are considered over weight.. when they put average, that must be what they mean! On guy I met text me when he was drinking.. Asked me if I was pleased or displeased with meeting him? I text him back and told him not to put me on the spot! Needless to say.. The guy was HUGE! Only had face shot on profile! How does one respond to that?
ANY lie is a lie and WRONG and a HUGE red flag in my book! That's why I took the time and trouble to be verified and state that I come with a WARNING LABEL... I AM a handful and I know it... That way, when a man I see shakes his head at me.. I can say.. "Told ya so!" LOL
We all want to fit in...to belong....However society says we have to be tall and skinny to belong ...I am not either of those... nor are many people ...so in societies opinion we are not welcome...that is a sad thing to know and feel.
I have not lied about weight or height but if I can I will choose not disclose it totally too because I too want to belong.
I seem to come across many who want to lie about their height...it's really weird. Did they think I would not notice the minute they stood up.
Now don't get me wrong...I have no problem whether they are shorter or taller....it's the lie thats so bothersome. If they feel they have to be deceptive on such a minor detail....I'm quite sure I know how they will respond on those that really matter.
Oh yeah...I love those who repeat over and over how they are not possessive...will allow you room to breathe, have space when you need it........and before the weeks out have sent a gazillion text wondering what your doing...where you are...how come you haven't texted? Text..text..text!
I'm starting to think that being single is not so bad afterall. LOL
Biggest lie..would have to be the guy who for starters failed to mentions his photos were over ten yrs old. Met and quickly realized that all he wanted was to go to a hotel room coke it up and have sex. Need I say I left in a BIG hurry!! Was not happening in any way shape or form
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