hei...i think it's not a crime to be good looking, hard working and to be a dreamer about better future, husband on who u can relay and to feel a support, to don't share or to pay for MY OWN dinner, to get a nice present or flowers...to be treated with respect and like a women.so i dont think is a crime to look for a husband with house and stability.....i'm not saying that i would like to stay at home and do nothing....i love to work and make some money, just sometime is too much, and i want to be just a WOMAN!!!!!!!