I'm fairly shy and quiet in real life when it comes to guys and feel like I will never meet anyone with any goals or ambition by sticking to normal dating sites. All I have received from those sites are invitations for sex from creepy men twice my age, and I want something much more. I want a relationship and eventually marriage and I feel like the guys on here may be a bit more selective and slower paced when meeting and will actually be looking for someone to love and spend their lives with. I'm not sure how many guys are honest with the amount they make, but really it isn't important anyway as long as there is room financially to have a family and not have to worry about paying bills.
I feel MM are very romantic 'n' sure know how to treat a woman right. I love Pretty Woman, Richard Gere is hot and Gorge Clooney, but hey I am not holding my breathe for the two em messaged me haha. Well I don't go after anyone just because they are rich I believe they are very loving caring people just like me happy all the time!! I am poor and I have been rich in love many years ago :=) so yeah I don't think ya any different really ya human like the rest of us simple!! :=))))))))))Smile it doesn't cost anything and it sure does brighten up your day, lights up your eyes aint nothing better than that!! that will do for now happy in love everyone is the best medicine :=)))))
why am I here? hmm. Lonliness I guess, curiosity. I'm poor, (midlife career change, pursuing a social work degree) so there is an element of "is there a rich guy out there" stuff running. But I am painfully aware of it. I've managed to take care of myself and also have played (unfortunately) the unwitting role of "suga mamma" to some men in my past. I'm not necessarily looking for a "bloke to take care of me though" - I suppose I want to learn how the wealthy live and I thought by some magical stroke of osmosis, maybe I would learn how to create my own wealth. I know nothing about winks and emails etc. I'm not necessarily looking for romance, (though I would welcome love if it came, providing it was based on honesty), but friendship and company. Haven't uploaded my photo yet, I have three breasts and it might put some off...(nah..I'm joking, I look pretty good.)
While on another site I saw the ad and thought "what the heck"! I'd love to meet a man with a brain, a good sense of humor and the willingness to see outside the box and get acquainted. I still have faith there are good men out there just as there are good women. The tricky part is finding one another. Life is better when experienced with someone you're in tune with. Who's to say where they are and what they're doing?
My goal is to be happy, content and deliriously in love with a man who has flaws, talents, a sense of humor, affectionate, supportive, fun, and who loves his children. To get my attention he has to be open, humorous, relaxed in his own skin and know how to express it in words in a profile. A mere picture is only a shell of the soul within. I want a glimpse, a hint of who he really is and what he's about. If I see that, I'll contact him either by a wink, a word or some inkling of curiosity unless his power is so strong in the profile it flusters me. It has been known to happen! HA!
I don't know that I believe in a soulmate, but I do believe in a great friend and companion. I hope he has spiritual values and a good head on his shoulders. If he's out there, I'd love to meet him.
A sly or witty smile and sparkling eyes will capture my attention every time...
My best to all those searching. It's not an easy venture but what is when it's of good quality?
I am also on another site but I hoped to find a better calibre of person here. Ya know men who aare real and mean what they say. Show up when you set up a meeting. Not always so! I did meet a great guy here. He was the first one that contacted me after I joined. Outside influences trashed it. I am hoping to find another great guy.
According to this website's definition, a good percentage of my friends would be happy to know that they are at least entry level "millionaires" here. I am here simply to find men with intelligence and integrity that we share the same value, interests and can fit into each other's group. I have met man who after a nice dinner put on a charming smile and asked me: "This is your treat, right?". I hope this website would make a difference.
Honestly, I searched this site. I fell inlove with a guy and we had been together for a year. We had all the chemistry and the physics.(haha..dont want to make this too dramatic) except from the fact that he is starting on his business, and he is not financially ready, and when we discussed about marriage, seems like he doesn't include me in his future plan. I am confuse right now. I want to meet someone who is not like him. I want to fall inlove freely with a guy who is ready to take the next level, not hold back.
I'm on the site simply to meet someone. This isn't the only dating site I'm on, but it is the only one specifically for rich men. Money is nice, but I didn't grow up with any, so its not really a necessity. I get by on my own.
I just want to meet a nice guy who I can connect with and doesn't bombard me with e-mails, im's, and texts saying. I want an intelligent man who can hold a conversation, maybe teach me a thing or two, and just BE with without feeling pressured for sex and who treats me like I'm a valuable human being he wants to get to know instead of a walking vagina. Pardon me for being frank.
For the man who stated that women on this site are looking for a sugar daddy is ridiculous. With all due respect, real women don't need someone to take care of them. That term is so offensive to me and I'm sure for most women. It's like if you want a steak, I'm not going to go out and kill a cow I"m going to go to the store where it's already been packaged and presentable and all the "mess" that comes before that presentation isn't there. It's the same thing in a woman looking for a man and a man looking for a woman. No one wants something that looks like crap. You don't go to the junk yard to buy a car....so why should a woman not want the best in choosing her companion.
As for me, I make my own money and I provide for myself and my children. I never have and never will need someone to take care of me. I'm not about to start now. Besides there is so much more to finding someone than money. You can have all the money in the world and still not know what love is. I'm looking for someone (as I'm sure most women are) that knows how to treat a woman with or without money. Someone that's real and doesn't hide behind what money can buy. If we were stranded somewhere, a man that can take care of himself and not freak out when the cell phone didn't work so he could call for help.
IVE NEVER BEEN THE TYPE TO GO ON A DATING SITE...BUT I GUESS YOU SHOULD TRY EVERYTHING ATLEAST ONCE. WE WILL SEE WHAT HAPPENS. I WOULD LIKE TO MEET SOMEONE THAT CONNECTS WITH ME AND CAN SHOW ME A GOOD TIME. MONEY IS ALWAYS AN OPTION FOR WOMEN, SO IF THATS PART OF IT WHY NOT? ITS A PLUS.
Hello Michael, Valid questions, kudzu to you. I look for a man of quality. someone compassionate not ordering me around, respectful as I believe respect over the years is as important as communication, we often forget how we take someone for granted. A man that enjoy life and the simplicity of it. not just a lover but a companion...... I find irresistible when a man is well dressed, and is intellectual.
I am on this site because there is a better chance of meeting someone who has or is pursuing an advanced degree.
Given that my dream has always been to pursue a PhD, I feel that it would be beneficial to know others of the same... intellectual desires. And because many (though not all) men feel uncomfortable with a woman earning substantially more than him, it seemed reasonable to look for a man whose projected income is between 50 and 100k less than my own projected income. I do apologize if that seems... shallow... but money is often a prime driver of relationship issues, and and one I'd prefer to avoid.
Intelligence is the most irresistable quality in a man, to me. When someone randomly offers related and detailed facts... ah, such a heart throb!
I chose MM because I would like a good caliber of man, one that is chivalrous, compassionate, loving and romantic. I¿m looking for a man that allows me to be me. Someone that I can laugh with grow young together with¿after all true love makes you feels younger. A man that understands that they cannot change other people that they can only change themselves and that they accept people, honor, encourage and support them not only in words but in deeds; a man that is not afraid to cry.
I have tried the cheap sites! Met men with no values, lack of confidence and the conversation was empty, and they wanted to sleep with me now! Plus i had to buy my own coffee! talk about dissilusioned!! So thought there had to be some decent men, professional with intelligence, good conversation and perhaps some chivalry thrown in. I can look after myself but what girl doesnt love a man to treat her like a woman? with respect, i have just joined this site, so hopefully i am going up with the callibre of people i will perhaps meet.
Very simple, this is another option. Curiously this was my first time to try a dating site. After this I've tried other sites but the quality of the comments ared definately here. There is the possibility to find someone with education and well manered here.
Nevertheless there are also comments that does not produce my empathy. But there is the possibility that some comments brighten your attention and curiosity. Also there is the chance to learn about different profiles, there are interesting lifes, purposes and thoughts. Reading profiles here can be a lesson or a reason of motivation to improve a new thing in your life. In deed I've been marveled of how a good education and money develope a person faster than only good education.
The reason to be here is to part of the job to find the soul mate but also to start friendship with people who share the same interests and people from whom I learn a lot ;) I really enjoy learning ;)