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Why is the gay community so hung up on looks?
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Posted on Sat, Feb 09, 2008 13:08

Why is looks so important to 90% of the gay community? theres so many genuine people out there. Personality counts!!!

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Posted on Mon, Feb 17, 2014 11:17

Well all like to present ourselves as our best version,that's just having pride for yourself and it's commendable.

When others become hung up on us looking our best, that's shallow. People who love us, love us regardless, however we look. 

 



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Posted on Mon, Feb 03, 2014 17:16

I am sort of person that if i get along with a person that is enough for me. looks are only skin deep



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Posted on Wed, Nov 20, 2013 04:10

It beats me...



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Posted on Mon, Dec 17, 2012 01:25

Quoting looking4relax:

Men become gays because they like other men for their physical qualities not for their "inner qualities" . And women also like good looking fit guys.  Of course, when comes to the seriouse relationships we chose using compromices.

Men don't "become gays", I didn't "become black" #facepalm. I think this website attracts alot of superficial people. I have alot of gay friends, and I know at times the gay community can be ridiculously looks-focused (just like the culture is for straight women)...BUT there are people of all sexual orientations who want to meet people who have something going for them more than looks.



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Posted on Mon, Oct 22, 2012 13:42

Men become gays because they like other men for their physical qualities not for their "inner qualities" . And women also like good looking fit guys.  Of course, when comes to the seriouse relationships we chose using compromices.



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Posted on Mon, Oct 22, 2012 13:38

Quoting 16Penelope:

...not only in the gay community but also in the straight community

How much I agree with you!!!



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Posted on Tue, Jun 19, 2012 10:23

...not only in the gay community but also in the straight community



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Posted on Fri, Feb 24, 2012 12:19

I'm an old soul going through life like a new born baby... life full of wonder and exitement... the simple things are both beautiful and awe inspiring. I look around and know that I am a force to behold... unique and transending.



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Posted on Fri, Apr 08, 2011 04:36

That is so true.



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Posted on Mon, Feb 01, 2010 00:15

I many people have to live it to learn it! Looks are temporary. No condition is forever. Love is however!



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Posted on Sun, Jan 17, 2010 21:25

It's not just America, but it's Western Civilization. The media is a very powerful force and since most Americans have a 10th grade education they are unable to understand that perfection is not attainable. Spending six years in marketing if there is anything that sells, SEX will sell you anything you want.



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Posted on Sat, Jan 02, 2010 11:38

wow!!!! so true LADY!!! i am a verygood person. i try to be because i have learned early in life, "one way or the other, You will Reap what You Sow"!!!!! I am looking for one honest heart!!



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Posted on Tue, Nov 17, 2009 05:55

They ultimately want a holder/prize that is seeable with the eye, to try and show off. They don't ness. love that person truly, they just want them for their looks. Because when it is all said and done they will end up falling in love with someone who may/maynot be physically attractive(outside), but on the inside. To make it simple about 80% of them just want to have fun, until they find the perfect match with them. So don't give, don't rush it. He will come trust me.



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Posted on Thu, Jul 09, 2009 03:23

I really dont think it is just the gay community (though it is more prominant). We are living in a time when the media are showing us their idea of "perfection", with supermodels (both male and female) pop stars, actors and goddess forbid, even game show and chat show hosts!



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Posted on Mon, Apr 28, 2008 18:41

Well said LadyGodiva



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Posted on Fri, Feb 22, 2008 20:30

Thank God it's Friday!These days they WANT IT ALL .The "Total Package". Money,cars and perfection.Looks don't last forever .However,nice people excude a natural, and healthy good looking demeanor.They probably don't appreciate an overall good person until their gone.People with"Ultra Fine "looks are "untrustworthy" and unreliable.In general, looks don't pay the rent baby!Ironically, the world doesn't change without "Denero's".Good Luck y'all :)



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