Am a 100 percent virgin and never even had my first kiss...yeah am the type who is afraid of having her heart broken that right now I have been in a long distance relationship but we talk like once a month...yeah not so healthy plus he never got me anything for valentines or my b-day I got him something and even sent a photo of me but never seen him but I feel safe with that but am ready for a change like now..lol.
But one day I asked a question about how guys feel about virgins and well most wanted a girl who knew what she is doing but how could they judge me or anyone else based on that everyone started out as virgins at one time.
Is it possible to find a guy who would love to hear that I am?
Well, alrighty then, I am also in the same situation. I find nothing wrong with being a virgin and waiting for the right person to share your life with. I do realize that some may find one night stands as part of normal society, but, I on the other hand, find it very safe to remain a virgin until I do meet the right woman. Trust me if;s safer and better that way. So don't feel bad that you are a virgin but a wonderful thing and honor. I do.
sorry to say in today society there are only a few reasons an adult is a virgin. One is by choice the other is because they cant get laid--which is still your choice.
if it is by choice usually its a religious factor. If that is the case props to you--most respect to you.
If its because you cant get laid well made be you need to work on it. Do a make over of your personality, figure, appearnce, I MEAN A TOTAL MAKE OVER.
Since returning to the US, I have tried a couple sites for internet dating with not luck. Generally the subject titles close to "are there any nice men left" or "why can't i find someone." There are reasons why you cant find someone. I will just stay when i stand at 6'3" and 280lbs and play sports, if you're more then half my weight why do you think i would be interested in you.
I for one surely accept and higly like virginity...I can only speak for myself in this.But I supose most men do like this,and I think that men in general should be deligted to be the first one...Althoug there is also some sort off "badguy" rumoring about sexualy active and "KNOWHOW" girls...I think ,that mostly is braggy talk to reise yourself abow averidge...Nothing to be realy sad about not meeting those guys..A lot off "older" women also give me that crap.....They tend to say things,like..Im for one knows how to swing it!!!most often in an angry fashion...Well...I can tell you virgins...Rest asured!Theres nothing more sensual than NOT nowing how to swing it! Take it from me...Best wishes,erik from sweden
Wow U r so same as me
In my case I keep my virginity for three reason
One if he loves me He can wait for me till marriage or i am ready coz it's not a fatal diesease It's like a test
Second In my country guys love pure girl Only if I meet & am married someone who can love me more than ex I might be regretful Once my ex test me whether I am virgin or not
Third once I enjoyed physical pleasure I might compare so i can't be faithful in my marriage life a few years ago I want to sex with only one true love if he loves me a lot and be faithful a lot
Anyway I am still virgin now
but I do love kiss and hug a lot I am nasty virgin girl
once I am regretful about my virginity
My first love was just crazy about me and always said "so excited can't calm down "
He was foreigner But he waited and promised to come and be married to me He was the one who no guy can love me as much as he did
Accidentally my phone was stolen we won't meet again So that's why i feel regretful sometimes~ At least I didn't say I love U when he confessed me he loved me so much I got broken heart
So long I missed him a lot and hard to meet my country guy
anyway my American friend says western guys love girl who sexed a lot and is good at sex techinically I wonder it's true or not~
He said virgin one isnot as much wanted as Asians and asked me to sleep with him for practice
But i didn't love so do nothing with him But so often feel to kiss and hug But I won't in my country
kiss and hug are such a pleasure do many times but think carefully when guy asked to sex with U one who really loves U can wait
Western guys say I love u so easily but that's for getting body True love is I love u so much ~
God really bless us!
theres nothing wrong of being a virgin...it shows that you know how to control your self...in our culture women only surrender their virginity once they get married...
it symbolizes loyalty to your husband..
however that culture vanished..
still..virginity symbolizes purity..
every man should be honored to have you virgin!!takecare!!